Sub much larger physically

His pain tolerance might be high, but how long does that tolerance last? Maybe try tickling while he's restrained with rope/harnesses - if you do it for long enough and he's ticklish, it can be downri ...

Thu Apr 01, 2021 4:22 am • 13 Replies • 5646 Views

How/when to talk about the stay at home role?

I agree with insidestraight's bit. A """housewife""" role is a totally reasonable thing to desire as long as it's understood that there are obligations that come with it. I think it's best approached ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 1:07 am • 13 Replies • 4998 Views

Self Experimentation

Most of my early self experience was using long sleeve shirts to tie myself up. Arguably more convenient than rope, because one shirt is one knot (sashing ankles together, thighs, tightening around th ...

Wed Mar 24, 2021 1:56 pm • 19 Replies • 7585 Views

submissive mindset

Putting on tight clothes does it right away. The firm embrace reminds me of how I like to feel (restrained, held, comforted). Shaving also helps a lot.

Sun Mar 21, 2021 3:24 pm • 24 Replies • 9193 Views

What do you think about Japanese kinky?

Xenophobic people are everywhere, it's true. It's impossible to say that every single person or community would be welcoming to you, or to me. However, I think you can take some comfort in the fact th ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 2:21 pm • 13 Replies • 4768 Views

What do you think about Japanese kinky?

I think you'll be just fine in any country. [is my answer to what I *think* you meant...]

If the translation was perfect: I think you would know best if the 'Japanese community would shame you for ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 2:05 pm • 13 Replies • 4768 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

Anecdotal, but I use Tinder fairly heavily (have been for a while) and have ended up matching with a lot of women who don't advertise their more dominant leanings. Maybe I'm good at picking out people ...

Sat Mar 13, 2021 6:23 am • 47 Replies • 17989 Views

guess this needs to be said

I want to add to this a little, the real thing to be concerned about is Facebook accounts. If someone has your name and city you live in, especially if it's a small city/town, it can be pretty easy to ...

Mon Mar 01, 2021 7:37 am • 6 Replies • 1861 Views

Feature suggestion....

I feel like that was already how hearts/profile loves were being used, no? I don't know why people would like mine otherwise lol

Wed Feb 17, 2021 6:41 pm • 24 Replies • 8191 Views

Hazard of online?

How long's it been since "talk to you soon"? Probably safe to just send a 'hey what's up' or whatever your standard is.

Thu Nov 12, 2020 7:29 am • 6 Replies • 1612 Views