Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

Anecdotal, but I use Tinder fairly heavily (have been for a while) and have ended up matching with a lot of women who don't advertise their more dominant leanings. Maybe I'm good at picking out people ...

Sat Mar 13, 2021 6:23 am • 47 Replies • 15974 Views

guess this needs to be said

I want to add to this a little, the real thing to be concerned about is Facebook accounts. If someone has your name and city you live in, especially if it's a small city/town, it can be pretty easy to ...

Mon Mar 01, 2021 7:37 am • 6 Replies • 1695 Views

Feature suggestion....

I feel like that was already how hearts/profile loves were being used, no? I don't know why people would like mine otherwise lol

Wed Feb 17, 2021 6:41 pm • 24 Replies • 7082 Views

Hazard of online?

How long's it been since "talk to you soon"? Probably safe to just send a 'hey what's up' or whatever your standard is.

Thu Nov 12, 2020 7:29 am • 6 Replies • 1447 Views

Submissive with authority problems

I deal with this a fair bit. Fix for me is physical domination, at which point the sensation of touch kicks in and I melt. Gags also really help to cut down on the snappy responses, which helps with f ...

Thu Nov 12, 2020 2:35 am • 6 Replies • 3362 Views

I need some advice and to vent

So, being in a situation like that (multiple divorces/verbally abusive parent), you're going to get some kind of "effect" in whoever is being raised in that household. It's a guarantee. How the effect ...

Wed Oct 21, 2020 6:41 am • 15 Replies • 3348 Views

Necroposting

Great points made. A lot of them refer to the threads being used as a resource for information though, which seems like it could be something made more easily accessible with some kind of stickied thr ...

Fri Sep 18, 2020 4:40 am • 8 Replies • 2549 Views

Necroposting

Kinda curious whether this is something people enjoy or not. All of the forums I've ever used have a rule against necroposting - responding to a thread made more than a couple weeks ago. Main downside ...

Thu Sep 17, 2020 11:06 pm • 8 Replies • 2549 Views

Feminization is not humiliation, it's elevation

Of course it's not humiliation but the whole foundation of a lot of fetishes is in doing something "naughty" or alternative. Exhibitionism isn't a fetish if it's not taboo to have sex in public - femi ...

Wed Sep 16, 2020 6:54 pm • 11 Replies • 6091 Views

Just a simple tabletop RPG thread

You can pretty comfortably assume people are down to talk to you if they like your profile, yeah.

Mon Sep 14, 2020 10:40 pm • 11 Replies • 5918 Views