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Aftercare for Dom/mes?

Not sure about this one. I think the accepted answer is yes but it may actually be a no though.

In a perfect world, everyone gets what they need. Should Subs get after care? Of course, ladies and g ...

Mon Jul 08, 2024 8:33 pm • 10 Replies • 7834 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Aftercare for Dom/mes?

Where to play

Hi Shelley.

My simple advice is don't pay the money. Its possible you are being scammed. I'm in no position to say if this is a certainty, however your story has a common thread. If you two want to ...

Mon Jul 08, 2024 8:18 pm • 10 Replies • 3649 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Where to play

Proof?!

Don't concern yourself over it.

You're a sub because you say so and you belong here because you stay. Anyone who wishes to play you must accept you, and you in turn them.

It's a very simple bala ...

Mon Jul 08, 2024 5:18 am • 60 Replies • 14015 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Proof?!

Question for Doms

I have a few I can share.

I had one lovely lady who would stay with me for two to three weeks at a time. One day I came home from work to find she had rearranged my entire studio. A mixed bag. We c ...

Fri Jul 05, 2024 12:15 pm • 12 Replies • 9597 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Maledom

Topic

Question for Doms

Self Release Experiment

Yay.

Not necessarily because I am or am not excited about it but because more is better as long as responsible play is practiced.

Tue Jul 02, 2024 5:20 pm • 5 Replies • 3677 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Self Release Experiment

Great friendship then couple second?

This seems like something important to you. Therefore, I wish to emphasize that it is absolutely fine to pursue this sort of romance. It makes perfect sense why you would seek this, if I was a girl it ...

Tue Jul 02, 2024 4:59 pm • 7 Replies • 1677 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Great friendship then couple second?

Is it rare to find someone who wants to work through challenges with you.

Admittedly not my best side, but there are days on here where it feels like a significant number of ladies approaching me are just looking for someone to fix their problems. Whatever they may be.

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Tue Jul 02, 2024 9:53 am • 10 Replies • 4138 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Is it rare to find someone who wants to work through challenges with you.

Craving Impact Play

I had a girl who felt this way about impact play. She had the same sentiment as you, that it was healing and it helped clear her head. She actually got into this whole scene just for spanking. Everyth ...

Tue Jul 02, 2024 9:21 am • 3 Replies • 1341 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Craving Impact Play

Great friendship then couple second?

My experience in life has been different. I would have say I disagree on this one.

No. I have found love to be a flame that burns brighter or it burns out. Friends too long and the moment passes, ...

Tue Jul 02, 2024 9:19 am • 7 Replies • 1677 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Great friendship then couple second?

What do you think of subs owning other subs?

Abiding by the ignore the switch aspect of this...

It seems like a polyamory question. No, not all D/s dynamics are romantic or sexual but quite a few are, the probable majority even. Even if not, ...

Sat Jun 22, 2024 3:39 am • 14 Replies • 4390 Views

Author

Solace

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What do you think of subs owning other subs?