Ownership

i think this is a great question.

i see generally two approaches from people re ownership, a sort of letter or the law vs spirit of the law question. i personally go with spirt vs letter, which i ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 7:09 pm • 11 Replies • 4171 Views

The Moderation on this Website is Bizarre

i've been part of The Cage community for about 4 years, i've only been moderated once when i posted something in the forum that was deemed more appropriate as a blog post. i was given time to copy and ...

Wed Sep 20, 2023 6:32 pm • 14 Replies • 4449 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

I can’t wrap my mind around why you wouldn’t want to share.

Speculating here.

To me the implication behind not sharing would be to muscle through and not disappoint the Doms desires, effort ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 6:23 pm • 40 Replies • 9361 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

To me it's never "play." Though i get that's common vernacular, it just feels like a misnomer to me...especially when factors like "time and effort" are involved.
i see such get togethers as being ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 9:37 am • 40 Replies • 9361 Views

Do you consider Hypnosis edgeplay? Why or why not?

Hypnosis has long held fascination and appeal to me. i love the power dynamic that can happen in a relationship of opposites, and the idea of hypnosis to me is both appealing and scary for the same ...

Thu Sep 14, 2023 5:08 pm • 8 Replies • 2059 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

maybe someone gets what i wrote. What im trying to say.

i think i may "get what

i could have written that better. What i meant to say was it seemed to me that your pointing out the importance ...

Wed Sep 13, 2023 6:17 pm • 60 Replies • 11703 Views

New Sub

i know i look at "collaring" a little differently than BDSM tradition, and do not claim to be all that familiar with it as a tradition or practice. my brain and emotions do take and run with the word ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:52 pm • 17 Replies • 3924 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

maybe someone gets what i wrote. What im trying to say.

i think i may "get what [you] wrote," at least in part?

We don't have classes on relationship in school. Instead, we relegate intimate r ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:36 pm • 60 Replies • 11703 Views

New Sub

Yeah, wow. i don't wanna presume, but that sounds sort of like getting a new puppy, playing with it for a day, putting a collar on it and then isolating and chaining it up in the backyard while he g ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:58 pm • 17 Replies • 3924 Views

Chastity devices

i have seven chastity cages. i buy them when really horny and usually only try them on and then they go in a drawer for lack of a Man and relationship with Someone Who wants to use one on me. my favor ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:24 pm • 16 Replies • 7676 Views