Even though I class my self as a sub I am not a Degradee......
Which to me this has elements of and
As i have never experienced this for myself....this is out of my comfort zone and i have trama ...

Just thinking outloud on this one, formulating and considering as i go. One of the things i love about being 'different', and being part of a community of 'different' people, is the adventure of discovery that can happen when we don't just automatically accept the status quo as

Prologue: i understand this is my point of view, not setting my thoughts and feelings up as universal standards, just opening the topic for discussion and sharing my thoughts and feelings on the topic.