Water sports yes or no?

Even though I class my self as a sub I am not a Degradee......
Which to me this has elements of and
As i have never experienced this for myself....this is out of my comfort zone and i have trama ...

Mon Dec 26, 2022 9:55 pm • 55 Replies • 17939 Views

C-Section and Hysterectomy question

In healthcare, we use a lot of generalities, but everyone responds individually surgically and to pain. i'm a critical care nurse and work with patients after major surgeries like open heart, etc.. So ...

Sun Dec 25, 2022 4:04 am • 16 Replies • 3404 Views

responsive intrinsic vs independent intrinsic

I totally get where you are coming from, and can oddly enough relate via my panty drawer. Lol.

I am intrinsically motivated to wear cotton under garments because they feel best on my skin, which i ...

Mon Dec 19, 2022 9:58 pm • 2 Replies • 1189 Views

responsive intrinsic vs independent intrinsic

Just thinking outloud on this one, formulating and considering as i go.

One of the things i love about being 'different', and being part of a community of 'different' people, is the adventure of di ...

Sun Dec 18, 2022 10:19 pm • 2 Replies • 1189 Views

Juggling time between spouse and submissive partner

It's important to note that this started over 3 years ago and was working flawlessly for 2 years. Then as some suggested, emotions got heavier.

I'm sure I could have done better to avoid that f ...

Sun Dec 18, 2022 9:32 pm • 20 Replies • 5414 Views

Juggling time between spouse and submissive partner

Relationship is always complicated: "okay, i'll take two."

A few thoughts to throw into the blender here. i didn't catch if the "other' person is a "she" in your original post... i may have missed ...

Sun Dec 18, 2022 7:55 pm • 20 Replies • 5414 Views

molding, training

The shaping and molding, as I see it is the stuff of healthy interdependence, stronger and more overt, and probably overtly uni-directional, but likely bidirectional more subtly.

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To me, D ...

Fri Dec 16, 2022 4:49 pm • 7 Replies • 1995 Views

molding, training

I want to touch on this, but I'm not certain my understanding is correct... so, I'm going to jump into this and adjust accordingly.

At first, I was seeing molding and training as being two distinct ...

Tue Dec 13, 2022 3:20 am • 7 Replies • 1995 Views

molding, training

Prologue: i understand this is my point of view, not setting my thoughts and feelings up as universal standards, just opening the topic for discussion and sharing my thoughts and feelings on the top ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 10:32 pm • 7 Replies • 1995 Views

Sub drop for recovering addict

I can't explain the biological mechanics, but reaching subspace is a biological reaction in the brain similar to the reaction to taking drugs. So going with the premise that subspace can be a heal ...

Wed Dec 07, 2022 11:50 pm • 17 Replies • 4355 Views