Re: beauty

can anyone tell me, what beauty really matters? face beauty or beautiful soul?

To me it is, apparently, both. We are affected by visual stimulus. But also by tone. i've wondered about how a blind ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 6:10 pm • 17 Replies • 6748 Views

Finding a mate

This is sort of a core and common topic on this site. Even if one is not looking for a mate, most here are interested in relationship with kinky elements.

One of my take aways, in my journey/proce ...

Sat Feb 12, 2022 5:48 pm • 4 Replies • 2821 Views

Inspiring My Dom

How to inspire?

You could maybe try writing stories that include you and He and all the stuff you fantasize about. Put it down i story form that He can read. like erotic literature, except it's pe ...

Wed Feb 09, 2022 5:00 pm • 15 Replies • 7188 Views

Kink and vulnerability

i think it takes stamina to maintain vulnerability vs feeding off past moments of openness and the memory of that or those experiences. It takes stamina to stay open, but i think mutual dedication to ...

Fri Feb 04, 2022 4:58 pm • 11 Replies • 5101 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

Being open, vulnerable.

Fri Feb 04, 2022 4:50 pm • 37 Replies • 14049 Views

How to recognise a Dom and show I’m a sub

i don't think this is necessarily an easy task (i.e., recognizing a Dom....), because to me one of the most important qualities of a Dom is patience. Patience to me is not necessarily the mark of a Do ...

Thu Feb 03, 2022 4:25 pm • 21 Replies • 11664 Views

Re: Wetting

Threats, teasing, patronizing, physical pressure, etc have all proven unsuccessful. How can I make my partner’s submissive fantasies come true? Someone who has maybe some more experience with this, s ...

Thu Feb 03, 2022 4:09 pm • 8 Replies • 3800 Views

Kink and vulnerability

One of my biggest frustrations in finding and developing a relationship is what i have come to see as fear of vulnerability.

i think the fact that we are in a place called "The Cage" is testamen ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 10:09 pm • 11 Replies • 5101 Views

Gynae chair

Gynae chairs for sale in UK (google is our friend)

https://swemed.co.uk/shop/equipment-furniture/medical-furniture/treatment-tables/gynecological-examination-chairs/Not a cheap investment. It would ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 2:19 am • 13 Replies • 7135 Views

Gynae chair

Gynae chairs for sale in UK (google is our friend)

https://swemed.co.uk/shop/equipment-furniture/medical-furniture/treatment-tables/gynecological-examination-chairs/Not a cheap investment. It would ...

Tue Feb 01, 2022 1:36 am • 13 Replies • 7135 Views