Any Male Subs?

Yep, gay male bottom with a dose of sub thrown in. i haven't found many gay guys on here, but there are some wonderful people and great conversation.

Sun Nov 21, 2021 5:13 am • 53 Replies • 15091 Views

Re: Being a “Boss Lady” - why is this an issue?

Disclaimer- this is NOT a gender comparison prompt. This is NOT an “I’m female, hear me roar” prompt either.

My hope is to gain clarity or perhaps open a few minds around the stereotypes of strong ...

Sat Nov 20, 2021 7:56 pm • 18 Replies • 3634 Views

Re: I think it’s supposed to mean you are cute

What makes me ignore messages?
When I see terrible spelling, I guess it's called text talk. I'm not too fond of it. "Hru" "U is c8"
Also arrogance. Huge turn-off.

What irks me?
Getting one-w ...

Thu Nov 18, 2021 9:43 pm • 119 Replies • 24670 Views

Forced Orgasm and Piss Control

Hmmm, interesting issue. Nurse here as well, so physiology is endlessly fascinating to me.

First thing that comes to mind (beyond meds that can help bladder control) is kegels. Did a quick search ...

Wed Nov 17, 2021 5:02 pm • 25 Replies • 8491 Views

Lingerie

As a total bottom gay guy, it depends... on my Top. i am not 'fem' or even, apparently, stereotypically gay. It seems i am always having to "come out" to people, particularly women who ask me out on d ...

Sun Nov 14, 2021 9:17 pm • 53 Replies • 17109 Views

Caregivers/Caretakers label, what does it mean?

As with other (all?) kink labels, i think The label is a starting place and the true ingredients are discovered through opening the package.

i'm a critical care nurse. It's a comparatively new ca ...

Sun Nov 14, 2021 7:25 pm • 7 Replies • 3004 Views

Re: Dom vetting - why or why not?

It seems that meeting a quality person online is uncertain at best and ghosting is a daily occurrence. Given the online failure rate, I am curious about the practice of an experienced Dom vetting pote ...

Sun Nov 14, 2021 6:10 pm • 46 Replies • 9204 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

As others have noted, having no profile (or one without substance), or conversely, they obviously have not read my profile first before contacting me. i put some of myself out there, if the person con ...

Tue Nov 09, 2021 6:21 pm • 119 Replies • 24670 Views

The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

Both sides: not being self aware and open.

i think every human has to deal with this in relationship, but i think it's easier to hide or get lost behind labels in kink culture, and the real person ...

Tue Nov 09, 2021 5:49 pm • 42 Replies • 10682 Views

We're all human beings with different preferences

i think there are some great, insightful replies to this.

Kink communities are 'edgey' to start off with, it's a place where non normative people come to meet and try and connect. i think kink com ...

Mon Nov 08, 2021 5:37 pm • 13 Replies • 3050 Views