Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

To directly answer the thread's point, I don't know how people have the energy for sex more than twice a day. I think I'd prefer to just have a progressive buildup or teasing throughout the day le ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 12:30 am • 18 Replies • 4508 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

i've noticed occasional comments in profiles and forums on meeting sites like: "it's not all about sex" or something similar. It sort of comes of as chiding or correction, as though sex and our sexual ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 11:31 pm • 18 Replies • 4508 Views

Determining informed consent

Great topic/conversation.

A few random thoughts.

For me one of the biggest parts of consent requires already knowing and having experience with the person i am giving consent to. For instance, i ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 9:08 pm • 29 Replies • 7344 Views

Re: Collars

I have seen several profiles now with people wearing collars yet saying they are single and looking. To me a collar means that person is owned. I understand you can be collared and poly and looking fo ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 12:05 am • 72 Replies • 17629 Views

My bad

Ditto the preceding responses, and....

Explorig a new part of yourself can be exciting, scary and vulnerable, eh? Unfortunately, the online world is not always (read: "never") a safe or civil plac ...

Sun Dec 12, 2021 8:44 pm • 6 Replies • 1897 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

I have asked why and have gotten no response... I have not seen him so I sent an email... But I have not reached out to him in 5 days and he did not stay when he came and got his things...I said i ...

Sun Dec 12, 2021 8:13 pm • 32 Replies • 12798 Views

Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. I went there though and found my way back on my own, though He did end up getting a piece of my heart.

I personally believe that ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 7:30 pm • 14 Replies • 3924 Views

Subspace?

i've experienced sub space on very few occasions, maybe only once. i spent a weekend with a Dom i met vacationing in Palm Springs and He managed to regress me (age wise). It was a profound experience, ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:27 pm • 14 Replies • 3924 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

All receiving (total gay bottom )

Core stuff:
1. anal penetration, insemination, impregnation
2. affectionate degradation
3. mind fuck/control

Wants (really these seem connected to and are ...

Tue Dec 07, 2021 6:09 pm • 35 Replies • 10673 Views

serve or please??

Wow, love this question and topic of discussion. It's a core topic for me and i think there are some wonderfully thoughtful responses.

For me, it is all about the connection and bond between me and ...

Mon Dec 06, 2021 6:20 pm • 23 Replies • 7124 Views