BDSM without the DSM - thoughts?

That's not simple question for me to answer, and i'd wager it has many and varied answers, depending on the individual

i'm a part of this community, but often feel odd man out for several reasons. ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 9:40 pm • 43 Replies • 10319 Views

BDSM on a "Need to Know" basis?

i think the key is your "Reason for my underlying curiosity would be due to having this 'want' to share attitude with a few people close me..."

No one knows who we are unless we reveal our self to ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 6:26 pm • 8 Replies • 3020 Views

Whats your thoughts on hypnosis??

When i was younger and trapped in a religious mind set, trying to not be who i am, i would fantasize about a guy who would kidnap me and take me to live captive on his remote estate. All the things i ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 5:52 pm • 20 Replies • 7140 Views

A wonder happend but I dont know what to do

Just read your profile. You do not have much experience and you have a pretty extensive list of kinks, things you are interested in, but i wonder how many of them you have tried? i like the idea of ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:44 am • 19 Replies • 5580 Views

A wonder happend but I dont know what to do

Gee, this is pretty common in the gay world, it's called an anonymous "hook up." Not sure about Poland, whole other place, but i cannot count the number of times i've hooked up anonymously with anoth ...

Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:31 am • 19 Replies • 5580 Views

That Feeling

Like being in emotional 'heat.'

Tue Sep 29, 2020 3:18 am • 6 Replies • 2860 Views

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

If you are trying to be healthy, this one tastes decadent and is actually good for you.

6 frozen bananas
1/4 cup raw cocoa
1/2 cup organic almond milk
1 teaspoon vanilla
pummel in a Vita Mix ti ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 9:46 pm • 143 Replies • 31220 Views

Question: How can you be a good Dom at 22 years old?

A few thoughts (some redundant).

Personally, i'd leave out the "good" or "bad" descriptors. i don't think age or experience is a good or bad qualifier. Many of us here think of "dom" or "sub" as ...

Sat Sep 26, 2020 8:20 pm • 33 Replies • 8249 Views

Plus-Size Sub

i have wondered how much of our body image is a social construct? The ever persistent nurture or nature question? i did find this article https://www.rehabs.com/explore/womens-body-image-and-bmi/
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Thu Sep 24, 2020 7:09 pm • 38 Replies • 14458 Views

Do you submit freely or are you freed to submit

@Bunnie,

i'm glad i was able to to convey my thoughts and feeling. i have no idea if they are correct or not, but from things you've written i know you love to search and investigate, so maybe the ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 4:17 am • 19 Replies • 5414 Views