BDSM in music

"Back Door Man" The Doors

Wed Aug 19, 2020 9:21 pm • 72 Replies • 27539 Views

new at bdsm?

Hi qxo,

There are lots of good, caring people on this site, with some great info, experience and insight. There's a few who also seem to live in a world of their own, asserting knowledge and author ...

Wed Aug 19, 2020 7:16 pm • 7 Replies • 3130 Views

Covid - Anyone with personal experience?

@tallslenderguy
Thank You for answering. I've worked in health care/mental care most of my life and caring for virus infected patients (Hep etc) so I sort of know how it works. I also know the author ...

Wed Aug 19, 2020 6:47 pm • 10 Replies • 5139 Views

Covid - Anyone with personal experience?

The problem with "authorities" is they often speculate based on their experience and knowledge vs evidence. We are still establishing evidence from studies about Covid, so it's a good idea to check s ...

Wed Aug 19, 2020 4:27 pm • 10 Replies • 5139 Views

I'm lost

i think to some degree, we're all "lost?" my own take is we don't spend enough time discussing our kinks, which is why we're here. i see our "kinks" as just our personal expressions of needs/wants, a ...

Wed Aug 19, 2020 4:50 am • 19 Replies • 5877 Views

Financially supporting another

...if I needed to rely on a sub to pay my bills it would really give him power over me, wouldn't it? So I never really expect financial slavery from my subs, though gifts, spoiling etc. are always wel ...

Tue Aug 18, 2020 5:25 pm • 39 Replies • 11229 Views

Does Size Matter Relationship Vs 1-Night Stand?

I think dick size only matters to guys. Yes there are the size queens out there, but for the most part its a guy thing.
.

Eh? Maybe generally speaking.
i'm a gay bottom and as cliche' as it ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:47 pm • 34 Replies • 9630 Views

Financially supporting another

This is a thread loaded with long and thoughtful posts. However I'm short on time so I'll just register my thoughts:

Finance and money are tricky bastards. there are those out for the free lunch ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 6:23 pm • 39 Replies • 11229 Views

Financially supporting another

I have in the past financially supported my Dom/partner. Things can happen and helping each other is important but it can get to the point when it feels rude. No concern of how everything is going to ...

Sun Aug 16, 2020 10:30 pm • 39 Replies • 11229 Views

Financially supporting another

"I don't understand the problem. I've always earned more, so why shouldn't I split it or pay. There was also a time between my projects my lover had more. If money is a topic you solve it together or ...

Sun Aug 16, 2020 9:03 pm • 39 Replies • 11229 Views