Extreme Degrading

Degrading is a little mysterious to me. There is a part of me that definitely responds to "degrading," but it's particular types, it's not mean or nasty, it's more of a matter of He sees something in ...

Fri Jul 17, 2020 7:14 am • 16 Replies • 11014 Views

Orgasm denial.

This is important because it brings up another question. If both sides want it then is it denial in truth or merely in act? (yes, yes, yes I know it can be both but I'm trying to simplify things here. ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 3:57 pm • 11 Replies • 6299 Views

Sucking cocks

Personally I find it more gratifying when I have to do nothing about it while I relax and enjoy the whole thing.

i can only speak for myself, but i doubt i'm unique in this.

For me, the key in y ...

Thu Jul 16, 2020 2:43 pm • 7 Replies • 3916 Views

Kinky Christian?

Wow, theCage never disappoints, another great discussion.

i grew up in a conservative Christian culture. i realized at an early age (childhood) that i am attracted to guys. i equated my then Chri ...

Tue Jul 14, 2020 4:06 pm • 60 Replies • 30442 Views

How welcomed are FTMs/transmales?

i would guess the welcome is individual? Which i find unfortunate. To me, people who are different should be among the most open and accepting out there. Many, if not most? of us have experienced the ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 5:53 pm • 5 Replies • 2142 Views

Re: Anal

I hate anal but my bf just expressed interest in fucking my ass. I told him we could work up to it and meant that. The next time we fucked, he fingered my ass while pounding my pussy. I really really ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 5:21 pm • 23 Replies • 9846 Views

How do you?

i loved every one of these answers!

i think, ultimately, there's just no getting around the risk of rejection. As others have noted, we can lessen that risk by refining our choices to BDSM specifi ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 4:10 pm • 4 Replies • 2537 Views

Orgasm denial.

"Masterbait." Oh wow, there's an inadvertent double entendre and a keeper.

i think, as with all things BDSM (and probably beyond?) that there may be general "done things," but all of this is ulti ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 3:53 pm • 11 Replies • 6299 Views

Sucking cocks

This is a tricky one for me. Definitely a cock sucker here, but for it to venture beyond the physical into deeper psychological territory for me requires a Top or Dom who sees and gets me and has a co ...

Mon Jul 13, 2020 3:28 pm • 7 Replies • 3916 Views

An interesting insight about dom/sub relationships?

Bullying, forceful, behavior never strikes me as dom, maybe dom wanna be? To me, it's immature and the last thing i want is to have any kind of D/s relationship with someone who is immature.

i s ...

Sun Jul 12, 2020 3:39 pm • 17 Replies • 6939 Views