Who's chasing who?

Not sure my input is desired. i don't qualify in the "gender specific" group of "Domminat Women-Submissive Men," but i do qualify as "anyone," so i'll take that as an "okay."

This intertwines wit ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 8:36 pm • 13 Replies • 8924 Views

Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

i love The Cage community. i am enjoying the many serious and open discussions that happen here, and the wonderful people participating.

i'm starting to feel like the only gay guy here though. i kn ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 7:31 pm • 17 Replies • 5559 Views

About the amount of messages that you recieve

i'm a gay sub. Call me cynical, but i suspect if you removed the some of the pics from your profile, you'd weed out quite a few. Unless that is how and why you like to attract someone, in which case, ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 2:24 am • 14 Replies • 7014 Views

Extreme Degrading

i almost started another post for this, but don't feel restricted from asking this here? Forgive me if this is a side road, not my intent.

i'd like to read peoples thoughts and feelings on what the ...

Tue Jul 21, 2020 8:53 pm • 16 Replies • 13279 Views

Are you a submissive/dominant in all areas of life or primarily sexually?

Biassertive?

i guess we try or like to put things in black or white terms because it makes it easier? i'm sexually sub, and it seems mostly sub otherwise, but i'm not 'slave.' Cleaning your hou ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 11:28 pm • 41 Replies • 15301 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

LMAO, i got a good laugh from that The Wild One.

As an aside, i loved the BBC Sherlock Holmes series with Benedict Cumberbatch and Martin Freeman. i have a crush on Benedict and loved how the ser ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 7:09 pm • 477 Replies • 175501 Views

Reading Recommendations

i think there are several thoughtful and worthwhile people here. Many have written blogs. Skyrich seems a great Guy to me and has written a good deal with lots of info, especially if you scroll down, ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 6:55 pm • 3 Replies • 2575 Views

Online paranoia

Wow Elly, i think that's a brilliant and insightful response. It strikes me that it follows how we purportedly evolved. I.e., that our amygdala, the seat of our emotions, was the first part of our b ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 6:23 pm • 8 Replies • 3111 Views

Online paranoia

As an update to my saga, the guy referenced in my post ghosted me last night. i'm guessing he either deleted his profile, or just blocked me, because all our discussion is gone, his profile is gone. ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 5:28 pm • 8 Replies • 3111 Views

When someone wants you to make them feel like a bitch.

i think a lot of this depends on, well, both of you. i pretty much loathe 'role play,' i.e., pretending something. This is all very real for me, so from my perspective, the first step is to discover ...

Mon Jul 20, 2020 1:46 am • 6 Replies • 4207 Views