Bondage

Bondage can be any form of restraint, and isn't specific to simply rope. Anything can be used. Silk scarves, a t-shirts, Duct tape, cuffs, etc.
With rope bondage, there is suspension, floor work, shi ...

Fri Feb 10, 2023 12:27 am • 8 Replies • 1990 Views

BDSM and Codependence

Codependence is not the same as interdependence.
codependency means that one person relies on another for everything. Their personal value, worth, emotions, etc. They give up their idea of self for ...

Wed Jan 18, 2023 9:59 pm • 7 Replies • 2058 Views

What do you enjoy more?

Submissive masochist here.
I enjoy both, for different reasons. Submitting to the act of taking the pain feeds the submissive part of me. Enjoying the pain feeds the masochist. I sometimes crave pain ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 9:55 pm • 22 Replies • 3965 Views

Tips for going to first BDSM party

Yes, you can go alone, but may I suggest you reach out to the host/organizers and let them know you'd like to come, but are a bit hesitant to go alone (think of it as vetting, most lifestylers are hap ...

Tue Dec 06, 2022 1:55 am • 7 Replies • 1682 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

This is exactly why I'm always so hesitant of people who have no limits written in their profiles, or simply state, "my limits are my subs", or "I do what I'm told."
You're waiting for a long line of ...

Sat Nov 26, 2022 2:20 am • 20 Replies • 4278 Views

Question from a beginner

As a Dom, he should be aware that there protocol to follow. He should be asking your permission, not hers, especially is she is collared by you (in any capacity).
I don't know your agreement (with h ...

Sat Nov 26, 2022 1:29 am • 9 Replies • 2041 Views

minimalist bondage

I think what you're speaking of is a form of predicament bondage. This combines physical restraints with psychological play.
Lots of info about it here

https://kinklovers.com/bdsm-facts/predicamen ...

Wed Nov 23, 2022 9:11 pm • 21 Replies • 4886 Views