Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

To put it simply , I was so fed up with fake doms, I was ready to leave the lifestyle all together. One brought me back but I just asked to be released. Maybe I will get lucky but 2 yrs is a long se ...

Fri Jan 06, 2023 2:53 am • 23 Replies • 4685 Views

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

Bunnie,

I am someone who believes in the idea that every day we wake up, is yet another day we can choose if we will deal with just that day with a smile or a frown.

I am a flawed as the next ho ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 8:03 am • 23 Replies • 4685 Views

How do I get to where they are?

Pandaish,

If you want him to want you waiting at the door when he arrives home, be at the door the next time he arrives home and show him .
I suspect he may take that and run with it, maybe...... ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 7:51 am • 13 Replies • 2947 Views

How do you get over your first bdsm breakup

When you are able to sit down and objectively look back over the relationship do a critical analysis of:

Things you liked and want to explore more.
Things you didn't like and why that was.
Needs ...

Wed Jan 04, 2023 7:33 am • 37 Replies • 6859 Views

Reminder: Pace Yourself!

@Kurae Mori,

What could be argued it's generational?

Tue Jan 03, 2023 2:25 am • 15 Replies • 2383 Views

Reminder: Pace Yourself!

@Kurai Mori,

Expecting someone to let the other person know that they have things to do, place to go, or just that the day is getting away from them ....when in a conversation online is not an old ...

Mon Jan 02, 2023 10:30 pm • 15 Replies • 2383 Views

What's a Sadist

@Miki

A sadist in BDSM is different in that all important area of consent (as opposed to someone who may not be into BDSM) and masochists like pain. Sadists and masochists still should negotiate. ...

Mon Jan 02, 2023 10:21 pm • 5 Replies • 1242 Views

Highly experienced sub struggling on how to introduce, educate non-bdsm fiancé wanting to learn.

To me it sounded as if her partner wrote or, hell I don't know what's up with folks writing things as a forum discussion then it goes wig-wam never hearing back from the OP.

Then people give their ...

Mon Jan 02, 2023 10:14 pm • 24 Replies • 4724 Views

What is it that you (subs) desire?

Op,

I am reiterating the fact that subs are not all in a hive connected by a central brain. ..
They are each as individual as Doms.

I do not like hearing phrases that are literally on a list o ...

Sat Dec 31, 2022 6:19 am • 40 Replies • 8200 Views

C-Section and Hysterectomy question

I had a left oophorectomy then 8 months later a r one done, lap, but still possess a uterus. No pain compared to what I was in for years.
However noone gave a crap like they do now.

Women need ...

Fri Dec 30, 2022 1:57 am • 16 Replies • 2108 Views