primal fun

I absolutely love primal play. I've commented on it before and continue to engage as often as I can with my partners. To fantisize is one thing, but to actually find yourself in the thick of it, and f ...

Wed Jan 01, 2025 1:57 pm • 14 Replies • 1672 Views

Could you do traditional with the dynamic

If you can find a partner with the same complimentary goals as you, you can build any sort of dynamic you want.

A "traditional" relationship is not something I personally would be interested in, a ...

Fri Dec 27, 2024 10:31 pm • 24 Replies • 2157 Views

Frustrated

Have you asked why his answer is always no?

If you go into any advice thread here or anywhere else, you will see some indication of how important it is to have open and continuous communication. A ...

Wed Dec 11, 2024 8:00 am • 31 Replies • 3627 Views

Is it just me?

it's the holiday period in my experience online and running several adult sites, every Christmas brings in an influx of traffic. I guess people have more time to explore online. I've also noticed (sin ...

Mon Dec 09, 2024 6:59 am • 9 Replies • 990 Views

Tips on setting personal boundaries?

Your post here seems aggressively at-odds with your profile where you paint yourself as being fairly inexperienced and preferring a soft approach to Dominance. I would certainly not qualify what you h ...

Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:41 am • 14 Replies • 1393 Views

Is it just me?

Is it just me, or does it seem like, since the blue check mark option came out (which I'll get around to doing eventually), there seem to be more 'iffy' profiles popping up?

Nothing that I would o ...

Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:31 am • 9 Replies • 990 Views

Observation about getting over someone

A healthy period of time for getting over a relationship is however long it takes each individual to reach a healthy head-space regarding grief, introspection, and reflection.
As with pretty much ev ...

Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:09 am • 11 Replies • 1449 Views

Stigmatized Vocations

I was recently watching an episode of a television program where a running gag was how the various women of the cast were turned-off at the prospect of dating a practicing gynecologist, and considerin ...

Wed Nov 27, 2024 3:51 am • 13 Replies • 1357 Views

being a sensitive submissive can be very hard

People are naturally designed to care for one another. We are social creatures, and find the most fulfilment in emotional connection.

Despite this, many of us buck against the drive to establish em ...

Sun Nov 24, 2024 5:44 am • 7 Replies • 1004 Views

Assertiveness issues

Confidence in your technical skills is a different animal to confidence in your assertive nature, though, as you are pointing out in your comment, it is still part of the gestalt.

Technical expert ...

Sun Nov 10, 2024 8:06 am • 9 Replies • 1168 Views