A take on a take..

I think the sense of attraction comes, not from what you do, but from truly being your authentic self. This may sound sappy and cliche, but there is an element of being comfortable that lends deeply t ...

Mon May 02, 2022 5:41 pm • 10 Replies • 1433 Views

Lack of fetish representation

There is an interesting topic of discussion, certain to bring about, in equal measure, deep thoughts and aggressive responses (both warranted and not so much).
The distinction between a misogyny feti ...

Tue Apr 26, 2022 1:46 am • 41 Replies • 5301 Views

Lack of fetish representation

Basically, the forums are controlled almost entirely by the general populace of the site. The moderators will weed out anything that violates the pretty simple rules of process (personals go in the pe ...

Mon Apr 25, 2022 8:27 pm • 41 Replies • 5301 Views

A Poly/Mono Relationship

This post has been around long enough that I am not going to read all the responses, but I will offer my perspective operating under the likelihood that several responses have already come forth.

I ...

Wed Apr 20, 2022 12:29 am • 34 Replies • 5798 Views

black community tap in

I love when things go meta.

Wed Apr 13, 2022 7:59 pm • 55 Replies • 10147 Views

Edited 'to' to 'too'.

Welcome.
Hopefully, the inter-post schism isn't too much of a deterrent. The purely ignorant negativity and overly self-rightous bickering are rather par for the course, but there is a lot of good st ...

Tue Apr 12, 2022 7:26 am • 55 Replies • 10147 Views

Boldily Physique

Humans have been conditioned to respond to weight loss aspirations with ‘supportive negativity’. It’s one of those ill-defined etiquette standards that became corrupted with casual sexualization becau ...

Sat Mar 12, 2022 3:33 am • 41 Replies • 8150 Views

Inflicting pain onto my sub

Practice.
Not everyone takes to inflicting pain right out of the gate. For most, it is contradictory to their nature.
It's growth, like anything else. Take it slowly and see what you like doing.
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Mon Feb 21, 2022 9:23 pm • 4 Replies • 2100 Views

Personal ads in the wild

This assuredly depends on who you ask and how the awareness of kink must be regulated to preserve their preferred lifestyle.

Personally, I am lucky enough to be in a place where there is little to ...

Fri Feb 11, 2022 6:23 am • 7 Replies • 2252 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

Then, you are golden. Make sure you are engaging with clear headed adults and informing your consent.

As far as receiving non consensually, your getting into consensual non-consent, which is its o ...

Sun Feb 06, 2022 6:59 pm • 34 Replies • 9681 Views