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Let's talk rimming

While I can see where everyone is coming from, the only thought-process reasoning nefarious intent (that I can see, at least) requires a popular and unfortunate assumption that I do not believe benefi ...

Tue Jul 16, 2024 2:29 am • 62 Replies • 13642 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Fetish

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Let's talk rimming

If I had a nickel everytime…

Czernabog from the Night on Bald Mountain segment of Fantasia, but only his playful side (it is easy to miss).

Sun Jul 14, 2024 4:05 am • 8 Replies • 1642 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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If I had a nickel everytime…

Is it rare to find someone who wants to work through challenges with you.

Everyone has challenges. Our challenges are part of who we are. Being willing to work through our challenges and help with those of the partners we choose is paramount to being ready for serious relat ...

Tue Jul 02, 2024 7:04 am • 10 Replies • 3209 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Is it rare to find someone who wants to work through challenges with you.

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

I tend to favor folx who at least have an idea of what they want out of this, and a passing familiarity with the process of getting there. To me, courage, open-mindedness and a desire to learn are mor ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 6:54 pm • 26 Replies • 5352 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

Is it consent or is it something more?

There is consent, informed consent, and enthusiastic consent.

What you ideally want is a combination of informed and enthusiastic consent.

You can consent to something you are enthusiastic abo ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 6:37 pm • 13 Replies • 2581 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Is it consent or is it something more?

Authenticity

Thanks all for your viewpoints. On with business as usual. His "authentic" version of how-i-should-be would have nothing to do with who I am.

Men and their fantasies often leave no room for actual ...

Sun Jun 16, 2024 9:14 am • 26 Replies • 5399 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Authenticity

Turn offs in new conversations

Since this thread appears to have been revived (even if only a bit), another one that has popped up recently in my interactions that seems ridiculous to me:

"I'm looking to build an empire."

Thi ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 6:22 pm • 113 Replies • 29548 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

Thu Jun 13, 2024 8:01 am • 113 Replies • 29548 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

When I was a sub many years ago, I was very protective of my Mistress. I would say that I was aggressively protective, but that was an integral part of our dynamic. I don't know that I could say it is ...

Thu Jun 13, 2024 1:18 am • 12 Replies • 2425 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

Question For The Guys

From my understanding, protectiveness is based in compassion, which is a characteristic inherent to humans, whether masculine, feminine, or androgynous. It shows up in different ways primarily due to ...

Sun Jun 09, 2024 7:44 pm • 21 Replies • 3881 Views

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MisterAshmodai

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Generally Speaking

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Question For The Guys