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7 months ago. April 18, 2024 at 7:43 PM

 

I have a question for my fellow sub... 

 

Seriously we are supposed to be here for oneanother. 

Be supportive and sisters in this lifestyle. 

I know that at times we tend to fail oneanother at times.

But when that happens we try to apologize and better ourselves. 

We also may not all get along and that is cool to. 

But we do however come together when another sister sub is in need or trouble. 

All good things. 

We all don't have to get along. 

We all can be different and that's okay 

We all can have different opinions or even not like one another at all. 

And all that is okay. 

 

But my question is this. 

 

Why must we be out right against another ? 

 

When otherwise we would, or could have gotten along otherwise. 

And dare I say, even possibly, have been friends. 

 

If not for the fact of getting with another's Ex Dom. 

 

I get things get intense. 

And may be awkward. 

But aren't we adults. 

Do we not have oneanothers backs. 

Do we not bring oneanother up in times of need. 

 

Just saying.... 

 

I myself can see where we could have been friends. 

Or at the very least NOT ENEMYS 

with fellow submissive. 

 

One coming into a sub/Dom relationship 

And 

Two leaving such a sub/Dom relationship 

 

Yet hear we are 

Can't even like another's blogs 

Or 

Act our age 

And see past the PAST RELATIONSHIP. 

 

I've moved on 

You move on 

We all move on. 

 

I am not out to sabatage you because you were with my present Dom 

 

Nor am I out to sabatage you because you are with my past Dom 

 

We may not be willing to be friends because of feelings and such. 

 

But must we be children in the way we behave twards oneanother. 

 

I am not out to sabatage anything, or anyone. 

 

I want his happiness everybit as much as I want my fellow subs happiness. 

 

And that includes my fellow submissives who have been with my present, future, or ,now Dom. 

 

Thank You 

FlitterFly... :):):) 

DawnRobin🥰

 

The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Such an honest heartfelt read
Love and light T.K.P xx
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - 🤗
7 months ago
Innocent Me​(sub female){Protected} - Preach it girl! lol
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - 💛
7 months ago
Andron - Is it not that we find ourselves in this flexible lifestyle because conventional thought has often led to hurt and unnecessary trouble? The "life" I am learning about is superior because we can meet each other's needs without the strife most outside relationships tend to fall into. The old Hippie me? Love overrides jealousy and being stuck in a relationship that in "this life," we are free to fix as we see fit. A higher level of morality and maturity is required.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Absolutely
Thank You
7 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Not all dynamics work... support is important and one doesn't fit all ...
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - 💛
7 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male) - You noticed it too eh?
7 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male) - Hope what you wrote makes a difference. Though I wouldn't bet a dime on it.
Although Flitter. Great blog. Really appreciate it.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Just knownthat we may not be friends in this.
But certainly don't have to be enemy's.
Also, not all of us are out to hurt another.
Even with feelings and all.
Just saying.

I've tried to be polite and get shut down.
Again okay
But I am holding myself in a higher standard.
Unless otherwise told out right to get lost.
Or finding g someone deliberate trying to unermind me or be deceitful.
I am going to countinue to like when I see something g worth likeing.
End the end even if I don't like someone or they don't like me.
Doesn't mean I can't be an adult.
They can choose to hold a grudge against me for whatever reason.
I choose to give light and love.
Thank You My friend. 🥰
7 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male) - That's to your credit Flitter. One of your admirable traits.
But you know me. There's nothing admirable in me.
I don't forgive. And I definitely don't forget.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Yes you do, it just takes a certain type of caricature before you'd forgive them. 💛
7 months ago
Sweet Minx​(sub female){NotLooking} - Im not sure what i missed, I've been away a few weeks myself. But if your intentions are good, screw the rest of them. Just be you. Haters gonna hate etc.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - You've missed nothing my friend.
Just something that's been on my for a few years now.
Thanks Lady
7 months ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - This was rather humorous, even if I agree that differences are not a reason to divide. It's a strength to have different views, opinions and even ways of communicating. But I fear you may have answered your own questions without realizing you were...
In a room full of Littles, Middles, and Brats, you ask..."But aren't we adults?" "But must we be children in the way we behave towards one another?"
While it may be considered offensive to point out, Men who are still growing into men, measure the size of their cock. Women tend to be cannibals towards one another. Our culture is to divide and devour. While I do agree with the devour... the divide is silliness, yet we live in a time where what we identify as, has more relevance than the reality we live in.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - You make perfect since.
But we are all humans, we as women are able to speak in riddles.
Riddles that may not always make perfect since, even to us most times.
Lol
But we get our point made, and tend to come together.
Even when territorial and or childish behavior accure.
After all, we are all children at heart.
Knowing the difference in when we should be united and when we should not.
littles, middles, brats,
Beast and or Dom
We are indeed all adults.
Logic can not always be found.
You yourself speak in riddles.
We do indeed live in a wonderland filled with magic, mayham, and Beast.
7 months ago
Bunnie - It’s an unfortunate reality I too have come to recognise, and it’s sad to realise that this lifestyle almost encourages it. Women competing against other women. I try to steer clear of the personalities that I glimpse this in, because to me it brings nothing but negativity. But then I have to ponder… is it simply a fundamental female trait, from a biological standpoint?
7 months ago
Jack in the box - Yeth 😏
7 months ago
I'mME - @Bunnie,
Dang it, I need a message to you ma'am, I be goddamn if my finger , hell idk. I'm tired up, sweating and cussing like a merchant marine. I will try and curb it for this post. 🙄
Maybe I'm regressed or there some other word more suitable. I have never argued w another woman over a man. Now I have stepped out a few times, in front of a man to head off what I thought may be a woman trying to be physical towards a man. Its not right, and it's who I am. Lol, been a few times, I should have made them touch gloves and dint ding, got me some popcorn. Haven't you heard, I'm a shitty person. Anger often stems from hurt feelings and ppl respond in kind. I have the ability to talk, speak, and I can agree to disagree. WTF happened to that?
Hope you are doing well. I'm hot. Nor as in looks. Lmao.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - You are right Bunnie.
That IS something to ponder on.
Damn good question.
Thank You
7 months ago
Jack in the box -
Theres seems to be a need for a court , of sorts - to resolve such disputes.
I shall appoint myself as judge. 😌🙏
'The Honorable Jack P. Box presiding'
Most cases, I have found, can be resolved with a sound spanking.
Who first?
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - Hehehehe always makeing me fall to the floor in a fit of giggles Mr. Jack.
Thank You... 🤗🥰
7 months ago
Jack in the box - 😘
7 months ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - No clue the context, and don't want to know.... but once upon forever ago there was this magical thing called the submissives' creed that we USED to know and abide by. One of the first things ever tasked me was to #1 read it, #2 understand it, #3 explain it, #4 learn it by heart. Come what may between a Partner and I... I will bear no ill will towards an honorable M/man or W/woman in the lifestyle and I will hold myself accountable for being a good representative. Great post, good luck finding understanding. I've only got 2 submissives on here that I won't deal with. Wish them no ill will, just not worth the drama. <3
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - I love this, maybe you could do a blog on it.
Thank You sM
7 months ago
I'mME - @FF
Notice the key word honorable.
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - I was wondering who qould pick that up.
Lol
Thanks I'mMe
7 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Perhaps you could post the creed you speak of. It could only help others that don't know
7 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female) - I said the same thing.
A great learning experience. 🥰
7 months ago

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