flitter'fly(sub female)

Thoughts From A New Me

I Am A Unicorn
I Am Uni
I Am Me

I Am But A Caterpillar
Born
And
Set Free

Thinking Myself
Dead
Untill I Am Born Again

I Am A Butterfly
I Have Wings
I Fly

I Am FlitterFly
I Am Flitter
I Am Me

As I Fly
I See
A Wicked World

I Slowly Die
And
Find Again
Me... :)

Reborn Again
Out Of The Ashes
I Rise

High High High
Into The Sky
And I See

I Am A Phenix
I Rise
I Live
I Am Set Free

I Am Me.. :)
I Am Me.. :)

Question For My Fellow Sister Subs ???

2 weeks ago. April 18, 2024 at 7:43 PM

I have a question for my fellow sub...

Seriously we are supposed to be here for oneanother.

Be supportive and sisters in this lifestyle.

I know that at times we tend to fail oneanother at times.

But when that happens we try to apologize and better ourselves.

We also may not all get along and that is cool to.

But we do however come together when another sister sub is in need or trouble.

All good things.

We all don't have to get along.

We all can be different and that's okay

We all can have different opinions or even not like one another at all.

And all that is okay.

But my question is this.

Why must we be out right against another ?

When otherwise we would, or could have gotten along otherwise.

And dare I say, even possibly, have been friends.

If not for the fact of getting with another's Ex Dom.

I get things get intense.

And may be awkward.

But aren't we adults.

Do we not have oneanothers backs.

Do we not bring oneanother up in times of need.

Just saying....

I myself can see where we could have been friends.

Or at the very least NOT ENEMYS

with fellow submissive.

One coming into a sub/Dom relationship

And

Two leaving such a sub/Dom relationship

Yet hear we are

Can't even like another's blogs

Act our age

And see past the PAST RELATIONSHIP.

I've moved on

You move on

We all move on.

I am not out to sabatage you because you were with my present Dom

Nor am I out to sabatage you because you are with my past Dom

We may not be willing to be friends because of feelings and such.

But must we be children in the way we behave twards oneanother.

I am not out to sabatage anything, or anyone.

I want his happiness everybit as much as I want my fellow subs happiness.

And that includes my fellow submissives who have been with my present, future, or ,now Dom.

Thank You

FlitterFly... :):):)

DawnRobin🥰

The Kinky Poet(other male) - Such an honest heartfelt read
Love and light T.K.P xx

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - 🤗

2 weeks ago

Innocent Me(sub female){Protected} - Preach it girl! lol

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - 💛

2 weeks ago

Andron Dom - Is it not that we find ourselves in this flexible lifestyle because conventional thought has often led to hurt and unnecessary trouble? The "life" I am learning about is superior because we can meet each other's needs without the strife most outside relationships tend to fall into. The old Hippie me? Love overrides jealousy and being stuck in a relationship that in "this life," we are free to fix as we see fit. A higher level of morality and maturity is required.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely
Thank You

2 weeks ago

Sir Don(dom male){Not lookin} - Not all dynamics work... support is important and one doesn't fit all ...

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - 💛

2 weeks ago

Voldemort(dom male) - You noticed it too eh?

2 weeks ago

Voldemort(dom male) - Hope what you wrote makes a difference. Though I wouldn't bet a dime on it.
Although Flitter. Great blog. Really appreciate it.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Just knownthat we may not be friends in this.
But certainly don't have to be enemy's.
Also, not all of us are out to hurt another.
Even with feelings and all.
Just saying.

I've tried to be polite and get shut down.
Again okay
But I am holding myself in a higher standard.
Unless otherwise told out right to get lost.
Or finding g someone deliberate trying to unermind me or be deceitful.
I am going to countinue to like when I see something g worth likeing.
End the end even if I don't like someone or they don't like me.
Doesn't mean I can't be an adult.
They can choose to hold a grudge against me for whatever reason.
I choose to give light and love.
Thank You My friend. 🥰

2 weeks ago

Voldemort(dom male) - That's to your credit Flitter. One of your admirable traits.
But you know me. There's nothing admirable in me.
I don't forgive. And I definitely don't forget.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Yes you do, it just takes a certain type of caricature before you'd forgive them. 💛

2 weeks ago

PearlsLeatherPain(sub female) - I find this attitude amongst women spills over into the vanilla sphere as well. Women need to support each other more in general!

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely
Just feels even more sad when it's here and in this world.
Thank You

2 weeks ago

I'mME - Some people are incapable of talking. You can try but I wouldn't put any many energy into it. You learn to recognize who is worth the energy and frankly who isn't. That's all.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Absolutely
But still in hopes to convey who I am and who I want to be. And in hopes that others see the value in this and want to present themselves in a better light as well. 🤗🥰
Thank You

2 weeks ago

I'mME - @FF
You can just stand in who you are.
No need for words. I see you others see you.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Thank You.
Hears To holding one's self to higher standards.
Showing my own growth.
Thanks 🤗🥰

2 weeks ago

SnowMinx(sub female){Owned} - Yep women can be straight up nasty.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Me included at times.
But it's putting onesself out there and being able to apologize and then try to do better.
Thank You

2 weeks ago

SnowMinx(sub female){Owned} - Im not sure what i missed, I've been away a few weeks myself. But if your intentions are good, screw the rest of them. Just be you. Haters gonna hate etc.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - You've missed nothing my friend.
Just something that's been on my for a few years now.
Thanks Lady

2 weeks ago

Max Heathen(other male) - This was rather humorous, even if I agree that differences are not a reason to divide. It's a strength to have different views, opinions and even ways of communicating. But I fear you may have answered your own questions without realizing you were...
In a room full of Littles, Middles, and Brats, you ask..."But aren't we adults?" "But must we be children in the way we behave towards one another?"
While it may be considered offensive to point out, Men who are still growing into men, measure the size of their cock. Women tend to be cannibals towards one another. Our culture is to divide and devour. While I do agree with the devour... the divide is silliness, yet we live in a time where what we identify as, has more relevance than the reality we live in.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - You make perfect since.
But we are all humans, we as women are able to speak in riddles.
Riddles that may not always make perfect since, even to us most times.
Lol
But we get our point made, and tend to come together.
Even when territorial and or childish behavior accure.
After all, we are all children at heart.
Knowing the difference in when we should be united and when we should not.
littles, middles, brats,
Beast and or Dom
We are indeed all adults.
Logic can not always be found.
You yourself speak in riddles.
We do indeed live in a wonderland filled with magic, mayham, and Beast.

2 weeks ago

Bunnie - It’s an unfortunate reality I too have come to recognise, and it’s sad to realise that this lifestyle almost encourages it. Women competing against other women. I try to steer clear of the personalities that I glimpse this in, because to me it brings nothing but negativity. But then I have to ponder… is it simply a fundamental female trait, from a biological standpoint?

2 weeks ago

Jack in the box - Yeth 😏

2 weeks ago

I'mME - @Bunnie,
Dang it, I need a message to you ma'am, I be goddamn if my finger , hell idk. I'm tired up, sweating and cussing like a merchant marine. I will try and curb it for this post. 🙄
Maybe I'm regressed or there some other word more suitable. I have never argued w another woman over a man. Now I have stepped out a few times, in front of a man to head off what I thought may be a woman trying to be physical towards a man. Its not right, and it's who I am. Lol, been a few times, I should have made them touch gloves and dint ding, got me some popcorn. Haven't you heard, I'm a shitty person. Anger often stems from hurt feelings and ppl respond in kind. I have the ability to talk, speak, and I can agree to disagree. WTF happened to that?
Hope you are doing well. I'm hot. Nor as in looks. Lmao.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - You are right Bunnie.
That IS something to ponder on.
Damn good question.
Thank You

2 weeks ago

Jack in the box -
Theres seems to be a need for a court , of sorts - to resolve such disputes.
I shall appoint myself as judge. 😌🙏
'The Honorable Jack P. Box presiding'
Most cases, I have found, can be resolved with a sound spanking.
Who first?

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - Hehehehe always makeing me fall to the floor in a fit of giggles Mr. Jack.
Thank You... 🤗🥰

2 weeks ago

Jack in the box - 😘

2 weeks ago

slaveMikayla(sub female){MstrJ } - No clue the context, and don't want to know.... but once upon forever ago there was this magical thing called the submissives' creed that we USED to know and abide by. One of the first things ever tasked me was to #1 read it, #2 understand it, #3 explain it, #4 learn it by heart. Come what may between a Partner and I... I will bear no ill will towards an honorable M/man or W/woman in the lifestyle and I will hold myself accountable for being a good representative. Great post, good luck finding understanding. I've only got 2 submissives on here that I won't deal with. Wish them no ill will, just not worth the drama. <3

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - I love this, maybe you could do a blog on it.
Thank You sM

2 weeks ago

I'mME - @FF
Notice the key word honorable.

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - I was wondering who qould pick that up.
Lol
Thanks I'mMe

2 weeks ago

Sir Don(dom male){Not lookin} - Perhaps you could post the creed you speak of. It could only help others that don't know

2 weeks ago

flitter'fly(sub female) - I said the same thing.
A great learning experience. 🥰

2 weeks ago

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Thoughts From A New Me

Question For My Fellow Sister Subs ???

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