Name' sake

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Nope. Never.

Jack in the box -
Thank you SBD. ☺⚘

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - If I knew the person yes. If I didn't, no. If I had a friend who I could just message and be all need a spanking I'll be over in 15 minutes, yes I could. But then again I'm different.

Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms GoodBunny ☺ ⚘

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - Nada, nope, neva ever, no..

Jack in the box -
So . . . Are you saying . . . No then?
Lol
Thank you Ginger. ☺⚘

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - 😉

Jack in the box -
Ms Ginger (sorry, it was the other one lol)

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){⚓ } - It was a definite hell no by a complete stranger.

NoClvrNickname​(sub female) - Nope. As a general rule if a stranger puts their hands on me, my goal is gonna be to fuck up their world. I cannot envision actually wanting a stranger to touch me in that way; there would be no mental “room” inside my head for it to be even remotely pleasurable.

Jack in the box -
Totally understand, 👍
Thank you Ms. ☺⚘

MissBonnie​(dom female){oz} - Loving the question and the answers. Goes without saying I'm going there (No switch in me) I find it very interesting how everyone is replying. Cant wait to see how others answers. i also love how its not "universal" and very subjective.

Jack in the box -
Right there with ya MissBonnie ☺
Thank you for the input. ⚘

Hislittlegenie​(sub female){MB123} - I am gonna answer along the lines of HGB. Stranger danger and all that ... But the actual exchange is intriguing. I would have to have some confidence I wouldn't die. No words just spank my ass and leave is probably a yes.

Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Genie ☺⚘
Much appreciated. 👍

Jack in the box -
Allow me to add - in my scenario -no one dies. Lol. ☺

Mama Bear JJ​(dom female){koa} - Oddly, despite the fact that I’ve had very few partners and have rules in place that keep that number down lol, I’m going to have to be the one to say a potential yes.

That yes, being based on the assumption that the existence of such a “place” to go for this sort of thing involves a safe and controlled environment like a dungeon, that there is full awareness, procedures/pre-defined boundaries of what will occur, and consent given outside of the room despite the two in it being potentially unknown to each other, the man being sufficiently experienced in what he is doing and reading those he’s doing it too, a safe word being made available that is known to and respected by all, etc.

I’ve written, read, and seen similar scenarios for spanking and other things in a dungeon setting, glory holes too lol. Think you might have just needed more context to your question for it to be properly considered Mr Jack 🤷‍♀️

Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Jess. ☺⚘
A very nice response 👍

I wrote it with minimal context intentionally - you filled in my blanks 😚

Mama Bear JJ​(dom female){koa} - Well can’t have you shooting blanks now can we Mr Jack 🤪

Jack in the box -
Oh no. ☺

There is actually a reason (reasons) behind my post - not just being a perv. 😏

Mama Bear JJ​(dom female){koa} - Lol I’m sure there is, and I can’t wait to find out/read what is going on it in that mind of yours 😁

Jack in the box -
Sshhhh, its a secret. 🙄

Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Considering the question, going to the principle office implies you would know a little bit about the spanker., I happen to agree with JJ. I don't think you would walk in Walmart and follow the greeter to the dressing room for red bum warmer. That being said the safe place would be a dungeon or maybe even a munch.
Just my opinion

Jack in the box -
Thank you Sir Don. ☺ 👍

RedKat{Not now } - What’s the address??? 😂

Jack in the box -
555 . . . 😁
Thank you Ms RedKat. ☺⚘

RedKat{Not now } - I hope everyone that has an idea of who I am that my answer is a joke. But then my mind wanders a lot...called shiny objects...😂

LilRabbit​(sub female) - 🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ carpool RedKat? 😝

RedKat{Not now } - I am on my way LilRabbit!

Balthezor​(dom male) - Will there be pizza? Cause if there is I might know someone I could bring but I’m eating the damn pizza...

Jack in the box -
And chips. ☺

Jack in the box -
An aspect I hadnt thought of -
🤔

Bleiz​(sub female) - If the place and people were vetted. Thinking maybe a local bdsm community site. But a complete rando off the street? Nah, I'll self inflict before I do that.

Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Bleiz. ☺⚘

OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Women have needs just like a man. If you consider that there is very much a market for this among men, why couldn't there be for women. Though I completely understand, and it rings painfully true in these responses, that women have to fear for their very lives far more often than men. O don't think that is part of this scenario. I would think this is the same as a massage parlor, in which I wouldn't expect it be murdered.

So would I want a situation that is far safer than a casual random fling at a bar, where I dont have to get my heart involved and can just take the green pill and get what I need, then tip my hate and say "See you next week". Sure, I would entertain it, should I ever need it. I never have needed that, so maybe it is easier for me to entertain, not having to be so protective of my values. It is just a spanking after all.

OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Tip my hat*

Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Oracle ☺ ⚘
My line of thinking as well

Jack in the box -
Such a great group of people here - ☺
Thank you all for participating, and your perspectives.
Much appreciated ⚘👍

Jack in the box -
I debated - but anyone who thinks like I do - ive already said too much anyway.
With such great responses, I owe a bit of an explanation. ☺

Years ago I had a business idea - I brushed it off as silly - "no ones gonna do that". A couple years later I stumbled upon a documentary that included a successful business doing exactly my idea.

I have had a fetish for spanking my entire life - and I know there are many women (men too), who crave being spanked (pain).

Suppose there was a clean, reputable place you could go?

You would have a brief private interview in advance, (not the day of)-
Sign wavers, forms, yada yada, etc -
there would be 2 or 3 different staff members (spankers), you could know their schedules, or select who you would want - well dressed, distinguished gentlemen. (Or hell, women too 😏) You could choose the impliment (hand, paddle, brush, etc etc) and you would hold a "stop" button. A private waiting room you could compose yourself afterwards, etc.

It would be a service.

Think about when you get a massage - gotta start somewhere, right?

I am not currently in a position to run with it, but someone should. 👍

Jack in the box -
Mr Balthezor mentioned "someone I could bring" - another aspect I hadnt thought of. 😈

Water Lioness​(sub female) - I would not be in the market for such a service, because spanking has never been a particular fetish of mine. Although I must say, if it were a special favorite for my Dom, I would thoroughly enjoy giving him the experience/submission. A spanking from a stranger...no thank you. But, I can think of several other activities that I might seek as a service from such an establishment. Presuming all the SS and C mechanisms were present. Would Mr. Jack consider a "Full Service" establishment?

Jack in the box -
Thank you for your input Ms Pattyanne. ☺⚘

Depending on the "services" refered to, such activities are generally frowned upon in certain authoritive circles. 😉

Water Lioness​(sub female) - Services rendered on a completely confidential basis, of course. Lol

Jack in the box - ☺

GiyuuSimp​(switch female) - Definite yes, that's been a fantasy of mine for some time, especially when I used to go to college ;)

Jack in the box -
Well hell yeah! 😊
Thank you Ms. ⚘

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - I am just going say "Hell yes - you had me a spankings". !!!

Jack in the box -
Heehee. 😈

Another yes! Woohoo. 😃

Thank you Ms Karyn. ☺⚘