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3 years ago. December 22, 2020 at 4:33β€―PM

I have been asked many times "Why do you like pain?" and every time I am asked I laugh... It's not like when I stub my toe on the table or chair, I say "Oh yeah, give me more please" LMAO. And it's hard to explain the true feeling of what pain does for ME...

 

Of course there's the bad emotional pain that most people don't like (notice I said 'most'). For me, I believe I used to be an 'emotional' masochist. I only quoted 'emotional' because a Masochist comes in many forms. I feel this article is a great read: Are You A Masochist?

 

Anyway, back to the Pain *I* LOVE and why...

 

There is a certain point in where my mind just starts spiraling, the noise becomes unbearable. This is where I NEED to center myself. Slave Positions are great for me to do as while in them, my mind quiets and I center within. It gives me a purpose that I crave and need and focus on. Then, there is the other need, deeper, a certain space I need to enter, to meld my mind with my body and soul to a level of pure bliss... 

 

I have never truly been able to articulate it, it is a feeling that has been hard for me to put into words. And then, while NOT looking for anything in particular, this meme appeared. So I HAD to share because it so perfectly describes what Pain is for me.

 

 

Always, ALWAYS play safe!!!!

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LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - This. Is. Me!! I had this revelation last week and it was such a crazy epiphany and one that I am finally discovering and accepting!
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - It's a most wonderful place to go... I am so happy you're discovering and accepting! Amazing πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - Trying to figure it out and focus it is the hard part, today in work a bit of focusing pain would’ve been super helpful lol just bringing me back to centre...maybe I need to whip out those rubber bands πŸ€”
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Thank you Ms Karyn. ⚘
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thank you, In The for reading! πŸŒΈπŸ’žπŸŒΈ
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
Future blog? πŸ€”

I suppose it would be just as difficult for me to articulate why I like inflicting pain - food for thought
3 years ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Thank you for sharing!!!🌺❀️🌺
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thanks for reading. πŸŒΈπŸ’žπŸŒΈ
3 years ago
Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Always!!!πŸ’•πŸŒΊπŸ’•
3 years ago
Max Sterne​(dom male){Morley} - The right pain applied the right way can be amazing at focusing the self. Pain is often used as an instrument to train in mindfulness, that is being in the moment, to bring awareness o the immediate now.

Great post!
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Yes truly! Thank you for sharing πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
JustAGirlLiveLaugh​(sub female){Me}Verified member - I understand this so well. Pain quiets my brain and centers me too. Well said.
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thank you! πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Very interesting and informative
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thank you Don. πŸŒΈπŸ’žπŸŒΈ
3 years ago
The Kinky Poet​(other male) - Great piece thanks for giving this poet another glimpse into a world I don't fully understand
Love and light
Ron xx
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thanks for reading and commenting Ron πŸŒΈπŸ’žπŸŒΈ
3 years ago
HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - I miss my pain.
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Me too! πŸ˜”
3 years ago
Jack in the box -
I miss doling. πŸ˜”
3 years ago
mab{His} - Like many things in this lifestyle it's important to understand why it's needed to be able to safely traverse it as a tool for e.g. healing or focussing...
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - YES!!!!! Precisely! Thank you MG! πŸŒΈπŸ’žπŸŒΈ
3 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Ohhhh sissy I soooo get it. But for mr, it's not just a pain thing. It's a certain type that calms me down. It's the feel of the leather belt causing my welts, and the sharpness of his teeth leaving scars
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - I can totally understand that... There are many MANY different pains to enjoy that for sure. πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
Satindragon{Not Lookin} - Soul Sister’s to the end. I totally get this.
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - I knew you would, and yes we are! πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
Mama Bear JJ​(dom female){koa} - Great share and explanation, and I agree with the mindfulness comment. My mental health disorders and medication can make it hard for me to feel, process, and let go of things ... pain is something that can take that away. Not at a masochist level, but just enough to kick in the effects described, to be in the moment with nothing else in the way. Embracing my middle has actually taken the place of that in all but the most extreme situations, the issues that hold me back didn't exist for her at that age and she can process things simpler.
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thank you JJ πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Girllllll....i so get this. Pain and all the sensations that go with it, it's a first class ticket to "breathe, focus, centering" and a happy healthy Sparkalina πŸ’–
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - YESSSSS, it's a first class ticket to "breathe, focus, centering" perfect! Plus I love a happy healthy sparkly Sparkalina ❀️πŸ₯°β€οΈ
3 years ago
Johnny slave sub​(sub male){I'd most w} - Though I am not a classical masochist in the typical manner of understanding, I do relate well to certain pains, but administered in a proper manner. I do feel that the slave positions are great for bring a calmer mindset and time to really think.... about the moment. Thanks for the thoughtful posting Karyn. 😊
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Thank you for reading Johnny πŸ’žπŸŒΈπŸ’ž
3 years ago
Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - Although I am not a masochist, but can relate to that pleasure pain that heightens all the senses and, holy smokes, when that release happens and the pure bliss that follows. Okay, now my ass cheeks are tingling 🀭
3 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Hehehe... Mine tingle all day long with those thoughts lol πŸ˜‚πŸ€«πŸ˜‚
3 years ago
Balthezor​(dom male) - πŸ€—
3 years ago
OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Thank you Morley. I love reading peoples perspectives on pain, I am still trying to figure out why I need mine like I do.
3 years ago

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