Master and the Sub

I would like to start off with absolutely beautiful ladies. When me and Hazel eyes first started talking I got limited pictures, by that I mean head shots, my pictures of me are on my profile I have nothing to hide as I say it's just me. As we talked for hours on end I got the impression that she wasn't self confident enough to show me a full body pick, pg folks I'm not a pervert. As the days turned to weeks I got snippets of in my opinion a beautiful ass in cute underwear, but not enough to see the whole her. I could tell by now she had some self body issues and it stemmed from a previous relationship, even though she was a healthy woman for her height and weight, she was a runner also and if she gained any weight she was ridicule for it. One day we were kinda having a spat, I was trying to push her away because I didn't feel I was good enough for her, conversation turned she didn't feel good enough for me. So in this heated conversation I asked her to send me a picture of her naked and let me decide if I would be happy or disappointed with her, she reluctantly did crying the whole time. I open the text to see the most beautiful person ever, she was not 5 ft 2 eyes of blue as they say is the perfect woman, she had flaws, scars, curves, and most importantly shape. I said to her over the phone a thousand miles away you are the most beautiful person I have ever seen, I didn't fall in love with her body, I feel in love with her mind, heart, and soul because they were so beautiful that her body was an added bonus to go along with this special person. From day one body site unseen until her visit last July when I saw every inch of this amazing woman for me she is my Greek Goddess. Ladies and gentlemen, find the person that sees beyond whats on the outside, because it's what's on the inside that truly matters. My father and I have this saying they may be beautiful on the outside but when they open their mouths the true ugliness comes out. So I say, love your shape, flaws, scars, imperfections they are what makes you intriguing, unique, and beautiful. Big hug to everyone, love yourself and love life.😊💖🦁

Neophyte(sub female) - This is so beautiful

4 years ago

Grey Eyes(sub female){Owned} - Lion, so much from the heart. Love the connection you and Hazel have. So wonderful. 🤗🤗 Hugs to you and Hazel Eyes

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4 years ago

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} - VS......I know both Hazel and Lion (morning person but I have gotten to know them here) and Lion is wonderful.....

I know your history sis. I understand WHY you are concerned. You have every right.

Sometimes, an apple is just an apple and not the big bad wold in disguise.

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Satindragon{Not Lookin} - I absolutely love this. I’ve been around long enough that I watched your relationship with Hazel unfold. You are both truly incredible people.

You are correct in your saying about people Showing their true colors when they open their mouth. Or hop on a keyboard without having all their facts.

I know how much you and Hazel love each other. Big hugs to you both.

4 years ago

slaveMikayla(sub female){MstrJ } - I've deleted my comment and concern out of respect for both of the ladies above. Bless.

4 years ago

Sir Don(dom male){Nt looking} - I think this is a very beautiful heart felt reflection of how you truly feel about your Hazel... i can honestly say that i had the same experience with GE.... the mind, heart,and a soul.. makes a person special .. the body will change how ever you want it to be..

4 years ago

Grey Eyes(sub female){Owned} - @ DDFH thank you, my love. That is what resonated with me here in Lion's blog. My body is far from perfect but you took in my mind and heart and loved my body, imperfections and all. Thank you, my love.

4 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

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Lion(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Velveteen Slave please speak your mind, I respect honesty more than anything. I would not have written the blog if I truly didn't give a shit about body image. It's the beautiful person within that matters to me not the outside shell. My beautiful lioness will always have my heart and soul until the day God takes me away, which I hope is quite a ways off. Thanks everyone much love to you all, hope everyone has a wonderful day.

4 years ago

slaveMikayla(sub female){MstrJ } - Thank you for the invitation to respond, Lion. What I had previously written didn't convey my point clearly and upon speaking with two people who know me well and understand me felt I could do a better job of presenting it. I definitely did not intend to attack and respect the folks who felt my response came off that way. I tend to be a passionate individual and incredibly protective, so sometimes my GRRRRR comes out louder than the message it is conveying.

Lion and Hazel have shared their beautiful relationship openly. Every relationship is a journey with bumps in the road and my concern, the reason I responded, is that the way that they overcame this particular bump may have turned out beautifully but has the potential to not resolve so positively.

My concern here is for the new subs who read this and the novice Doms. To them this exchange doesn't differentiate that this is a reasonable example of pushing past comfort zones, which is healthy D/s, and not "pushing limits" which is not. It is problematic because of how the share transpired; there was a spat, talk of whether or not a continued relationship was possible, the request for a photo made, and the action reluctantly completed through tears. It brought these two closer, resolved the doubt and removed barriers but in a different dynamic could look like a Dominant unfairly manipulating a submissive with a legitimate hard limit. I didn't want anyone to think that's okay.

4 years ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - That is a great point VS, I would suggest maybe opening up a forum discussion about it and inviting others to participate on it via your blog. I understand what you are saying love, but anyone had the ability to go back in to past blogs and see more of their story together, as well as read/learn/explore all the bountiful information here for them if they so wish. You are wonderful for caring but everyone here starts new and has to learn as they go <3 valid awesome point, not quiet the right place ;) (p.s sorry Lion for blog invasion hope you don't mind )

4 years ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - Wonderful post and so happy you two were both able to push past that hurdle and grow closer together :) <3 Your's is a beautiful love story and one that warms my heart the more you share with us everyday

4 years ago

Lion(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - No problem Moon Missy, I guess in response I will say that this was just a brief summary of the whole conversation between us. Velveteen slave I understand your concern but it wasn't like that, both sides in any relationship need to be honest or the foundation will be built on lies or misconceptions. In this day and age of online dating people meet behind a computer instead of face to face, the term catfishing comes to mind. So just as I was honest with her I expected her to be honest with me not a dominant request for a picture, just clarification of seeing if she was who she claimed to be. As with anyone here, questions should be asked, more questions, pictures exchanged only when both parties are in agreement. I will be the first person to say question everything you hear or see, make damn sure that the person who you are going to give your very trust, heart, and feelings to is the right person you want to spend your life with. Both Subs and Doms need to do their homework before committing to any relationship, making a decision based on not enough information can lead to heartache or even worse abuse. I hope you have read my blogs and understand I came out of 2 bad relationships, I didn't have much of a heart left to give someone who might just break it. My beautiful lioness has repaired what pieces were missing and now holds my strong full heart in her hands, as I hold hers to protect forever. Best wishes to you and everyone. 💖

4 years ago

Satindragon{Not Lookin} - I have watched you and Hazel for some time. Much love to you both.

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slaveMikayla(sub female){MstrJ } - Thank you for the clarification, and for the invitation to better express my concern. I am sincerely glad it worked out for the two of you and look forward to seeing many wonderful years together of you two <3
~peace and love.

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