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The Chimera's Whispers

Musings, whispers, thoughts, opinions, murmurs, and lessons learned from someone returning to the Lifestyle.
4 years ago. April 13, 2020 at 5:25 PM

First and foremost, I can't seem to wake up fully today...  Sunday was busy for everyone, so I took it as a day to relax, get some sketches done (as per my last blog-post, trying to tease Daddy)
As Saturday slid into Sunday and it was past midnight- Master and I sat down and reviewed how our special littles day event went.

We discussed things we liked, didn't like, and what we might carry in the future days we dedicate to the littles-trait.
I still stand by what I said. I don't see myself as a full fledged little, and here's a couple reasons why.

Firstly, I can jump in and out of "The little box" as I've come to call it- very quickly the same way someone might slide in and out of water.  Just from research and discussion, I know for some littles (Keyword some, not all) once they're in the space, it's similar to subspace. Leaving little-space is turbulent and mentally taxing, if not even a little jarring depending on how they "resurface" from that space.
I'd even go so far as to equate it with a form of sub-drop.  

Secondly, My mind and whims are fickle, and change daily. So that Saturday, littles day was amazing! However, come Sunday- I want to be recognized as an adult again. Things littles love in little-space or in a 24/7 dynamic may come to irritate me, or frustrate me. 

Thirdly, I don't see any specific "Age range" I'd fall into. I've noticed some littles know what age-range they fall into. 1-3, 4-7, 7-9, 10-12, 13+ (Teens)  --  When I go into the little-box I'm a blend of a wide range of ages. (Which, for those who are like me, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that!)


In the end, discussing it all with Daddy- this was a place of learning oneself, growing, and exploration. I'm so thankful Master/Daddy was there to essentially hold my hand, and explore with me. We both got to discover/rediscover parts of ourselves, but some really nice new doors opened for us.

I discovered some hidden joys that can be found in the little-box.
A big one, was for Daddy. He rediscovered a few things he really enjoyed within such a dynamic, and I got to watch those 'wings unfurl' for the first time in a long time for him. It was beautiful to watch, and I'm so proud and happy I was the one to help him rediscover that delight.


Bonuses we picked up together:

Master is allowing me to call him 'Daddy' interchangeably. (when suitable, some times/places require certain titles. Ie: Littles day will be Daddy only.)

In return, I've gotten a new nickname! Master now calls me his Cherry Blossom, which greatly amuses me because that's the theme I've been using with my blog for the Littles day event! (Inspiration maybe?)

In future Littles day events, if we're physically together, we'll have outings! Like Aquarium visits, going out for ice-cream, etc. I love this!

In hand to the above; if we go to a restaurant, I am submitting the power to Daddy to order my food for me, since at that time. Daddy knows best for his little girl.

There was mention of future stuffies coming to my collection, so I'm all kinds of ramped up for that!!! I love stuffies!

 
In conclusion: I will say that I will retain what I had been saying before. I have the traits I love embracing. Kind of a really fun way to wax nostalgia, make the inner child within squeal with happy delight and relish in a simpler, happier time prior to adult-stressors.
I will happily be doing littles-day again.
Thank you again to everyone who participated. We love seeing the activity, the comments, the encouragement, excitement, and delight in turn.
We hope to have everyone participate on our next "littles day"


And again- a special thank you to SSG (SensualSubGirl) for this brilliant idea. Because of you, you've not only set up inspiration for a lot of fun during these hard times. But, also helped new doors open for our Dynamic (and maybe for a few others as well.)


I talked with Master and we were talking about having a "pet day" for the animals out there. I'll admit, more research will be needed and I will be heavily leaning on Master to guide my through the activities for this.

However, this will be for another blog.

Cheers~

Azzabackam​(switch male){PawPawGirl} - This is the most wholesome thing I've ever read! It's wonderful hearing when partners take the time to communicate like this.
4 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Delightful and super happy to see you embrace those parts of you as well 😊😋 it's always the stuffies that get us going 😂🤣! So in Japanese your nickname would be Sakura aka Cherry blossom, and it's beautiful 💕. Can't wait for the next one!
4 years ago
Jack in the box -
I wasnt invited so 😝
(Kidding! Oooonly kidding! 😒)
It is nice of you to share this - and let me add, you are a very talented artist 👍
4 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - She invited all daddy's and Littles to join so not quiet true 😁😋
4 years ago
Jack in the box -
Look Missy!

Heeheeheehee 😁
4 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Rofl *rolls eyes and looks the other way
4 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - Welcome to join in the next one haha!
4 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - Also, thank you for the compliment on my work Jack!~
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Ooooh! I love your new nickname!!!! It's so you!!! (Odd as that seems, considering your fangs...but hey! Roses have thorns too and THEY are just as beautiful!)
4 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - Thank you!~ I was giggling over it a bit, personally. But I still adore it.
4 years ago
SSG{ENM-TLP} - I am glad to see that you did "unpack" what you "picked up" through your day. I think that Little's Day is a time for us to really learn more about ourselves. After all, we learn a lot when we are little. We see the world differently.

Comments on your post: I personally think that all roles should be fluid. We aren't absolute creatures. There is so much in our lives that changes. (and all the Doms out there just went...except for us. We are always Doms--yeah yeah, ok. ;) except you.) But for the rest of us who are on the "s" side of the slash or are switch, it is important to learn from our experiences. It will help to inform us about why we do what we do, which makes communicating with our dominant (if we have one) easier. It actually will help us communicate with EVERYONE easier.

I, too, am quite fluid. I spent 24 hours in that Little time. No sleep. :) oops. I didn't have anyone to say, SLEEP. So I just worked on my art all night. The next day, I paid for that, but today, I am killing it in the cleaning department, so it is all adulting today. I think the fact that I spent all the time I did in the space I needed at the time, opened me up to be able to adult easily today. Someone screen capture this shit because I don't know if I'll ever post again that I was "killing it" at cleaning. LOL.

RE: "Master/Daddy" being fluid you will recognize that sometimes his dominance will call out the submissive/slave and sometimes it will call out the girl. The way you respond will help him to know the difference. He stands to learn from this experience, too (uh oh, did I just say that a dom can stand to learn something? oh shit). Ok, obviously my brat is busy in this post.

I love what you've done with Little Time. I encourage all little's to do their version and challenge us. We can learn a lot from each other.

Hugs! Thank you for the day. I totally loved it. Looking forward to pet day, even though I'm not a pet. I might discover something new about myself. I do "baby growl," so ... hmmm, who knows.

Great job, my friend. My best to your Master/Daddy. Oh yeah, totally love the outing idea, and thank him for us all for his contribution. We can all benefit from it.
4 years ago
skyrich​(dom male){rottenbrat} - I'll add my compliments on your artwork. It's stunningly beautiful.

Outings. This brings back happy memories for me, and the trips my De and I took, (Grand Canyon, Wild Animal Park, Disneyland, 6-flags, Universal Studios, etc). I also insisted that she collect a suitable souvenir of each trip.

Thank you for reminding me of the happy times. :)
4 years ago

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