Information & Resources

Punishments vs Funishments / CAGE Staff​(staff)

What's the difference and how does it all work? We'll explain.

Let's Talk About Ageplay / CAGE Staff​(staff)

An introduction to the world of littles & ageplay

Humiliation / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Exciting, fun, yet fraught with potential pitfalls: here's how humiliation as a kink works.

Cuckolding Demystified / CAGE Staff​(staff)

An introduction to this fascinating fetish by Mistress Kay

Dip Your Toe into Foot Fetishism / CAGE Staff​(staff)

What's underneath the fetishization of feet? Mistress Kay explains.

Spanking 101 / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Get Spanking with Mistress Kay!

Drop & Aftercare / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Taking Care of Ourselves and our Partners After Play by Mistress Kay

An Introduction to Self Bondage / CAGE Staff​(staff)

6 Beginner-Friendly Ways to Experience Bondage On Your Own by Mistress Kay

Thoughts On BDSM & Sex / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Thoughts on the complicated relationship between BDSM & Sex

Primal Play / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Curious about Primal Play? Mistress Kay breaks it down.

How to Stay Safe in the Online BDSM Community / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Suggestions on how to engage in personal relationships online or long distance.

6 Weeks From Chastity Device Beginner To 24/7 Chastity Slave / CAGE Staff​(staff)

An introduction to male chastity training by Mistress Kay

Some Tips For Polite Conduct On THE CAGE / Villanelle​(staff)

A few tips about how to politely conduct yourself in our wonderful community.

Your Privacy & THE CAGE / Villanelle​(staff)

Your privacy and THE CAGE

Let's get you started / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Here’s some handy information for both the BDSM novice and experienced practitioner.

What is SSC all about? / CAGE Staff​(staff)

The three words we want to remember in this case are Safe, Sane and Consensual. The acronym is used as a reminder for anybody involved in the BDSM community of what ALL play and all relationships should be. Think of it as the foundation on which good BDSM partnerships and communities are built.

What is BDSM? / CAGE Staff​(staff)

There are more answers to this straightforward query than most people know what to do with – including some answers that are downright confusing or intimidating.

The importance of safewords / CAGE Staff​(staff)

Giving each person involved in a scene the ability to stop it if they need to is an essential part of safe, consensual play.