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Experienced Dom looking for in person eventually!
Hey! I’ve been a dom for almost 5 years now! I’m on the younger side but am open to any age! Recently I’ve only ever had online subs, but have now found myself wanting more. I want to move to in person. This is a scary thing for me but I need it, I want it, I crave it. I’m from near Buffalo NY, and would love to hear from all of you! Hope to hear from you soon!
March 3, 2024 at 6:17 PM
Daddy Dom looking for the One
Hello All,
I am an experienced Daddy Dom who is looking for a submissive girl to join me and explore submission together.
I want someone with whom I can connect as well, not just sexually. I wanna start online and then take further.
For me bdsm is about ownership and control, and the support it provides.
Message me if you wanna discuss further.
I am an experienced Daddy Dom who is looking for a submissive girl to join me and explore submission together.
I want someone with whom I can connect as well, not just sexually. I wanna start online and then take further.
For me bdsm is about ownership and control, and the support it provides.
Message me if you wanna discuss further.
March 3, 2024 at 6:03 PM
Looking for a sub
I’m looking for a sub, preferably one who needs training. Looking for IRL and LT but ok starting online. Prefer my age or younger. Feel free to ask questions, it’s the best way to learn.
March 3, 2024 at 4:50 PM
I am a Genuine Strict DOMINANT from Canada Looking for suitable submissive
I am a real Dom and Master from Canada, with long life BDSM experience.. I am strict but caring. I am into mind control , reward and punishment , humiliation , and most importantly deep submission in the BDSM dynamics. I am genuine and interested to find a true sub that enjoy being controlled and disciplined regularly. I entertain online and real life if in Ontario. if you are really true sub and looking for long term deep relation, contact me.
I do respect the limits . I like spanking,obedience training and many more. if you are interested drop me a line and let me know how we can start chatting.
I do respect the limits . I like spanking,obedience training and many more. if you are interested drop me a line and let me know how we can start chatting.
March 3, 2024 at 4:29 PM
Need a slave
need an obedient slave for a strict dom.age doesnt matter,must be female,and must be obedient.if your interested message me for further instructions
March 3, 2024 at 3:22 PM
DC Dom Seeking Submissive
Hello there, I'm Adam. I'm a 25 year old Dom living in Washington, DC. I'm originally from the area and recently moved back to work an IT job. I'm seeking a submissive either local or long distance who I can spend time with regularly. Distance is fine, so long as we can make it work. I have experience in online and in person dynamics, as well as with a wide variety of kinks. Outside of kink I enjoy traveling, reading, studying German, working on computers and watching anime. I also make erotic audios that are on my blog here. My kinky interests are pretty diverse, there's a list on my profile if you want to know more.
I'm hoping to find a submissive who is excited to get to know me both in and outside of kink, someone who is willing to take the time to build a good foundation for our dynamic. If you think that might be you, or are just interested in talking please send me a message. I'm also open to mentoring and talking to anyone who is new to kink. Thank you for reading.
I'm hoping to find a submissive who is excited to get to know me both in and outside of kink, someone who is willing to take the time to build a good foundation for our dynamic. If you think that might be you, or are just interested in talking please send me a message. I'm also open to mentoring and talking to anyone who is new to kink. Thank you for reading.
March 3, 2024 at 2:27 PM
submissive female Wanted for slave Training
female submissive Wanted for slave Training
Failed Roman Catholic Nuns are particularly Welcome to Apply.
As are Twins, Sisters and Mother daughter combinations.
There are a number of Pivotal Differences between being a good submissive female and being a Trained slave girl.
And of course your Sexual Orientation is completely irrelevant; be you Straight Bi Lesbian or Grey Asexual, makes absolutely no difference.
First and foremost is He is not your Dominant, He is your Master and being your Master He is also your Owner and because He is your Owner, you are also His Property.
Being Property might particularly suit you if you are Emo, Goth or Steampunk.
Being a Dominant’s submissive can mean an ONS situation, but being Master’s slave generally means a longer Ongoing Arrangement (sometimes lasting Decades) because Good Training takes Time, particularly if you are Wanting to be a Valuable piece of Property.
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Failed Roman Catholic Nuns are particularly Welcome to Apply.
As are Twins, Sisters and Mother daughter combinations.
There are a number of Pivotal Differences between being a good submissive female and being a Trained slave girl.
And of course your Sexual Orientation is completely irrelevant; be you Straight Bi Lesbian or Grey Asexual, makes absolutely no difference.
First and foremost is He is not your Dominant, He is your Master and being your Master He is also your Owner and because He is your Owner, you are also His Property.
Being Property might particularly suit you if you are Emo, Goth or Steampunk.
Being a Dominant’s submissive can mean an ONS situation, but being Master’s slave generally means a longer Ongoing Arrangement (sometimes lasting Decades) because Good Training takes Time, particularly if you are Wanting to be a Valuable piece of Property.
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March 3, 2024 at 6:32 AM
Master Seeks His Princess or Little
Hello My Name Is Cameron AKA SIR I Am A Dominant seeking a submissive who is new to the lifestyle and is looking to learn.
My ideal Submissive would be someone who wants a online relationship i am a big lover of BBW Women so please don't be shy.
As a Dominant, I am flexible with any new submissive . I will mold you into the perfect submissive. All Ages are welcome
Some things I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn,You will have my full respect at all times
Kinks you may like Spanking,choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation
Sir hopes to see you soon
My ideal Submissive would be someone who wants a online relationship i am a big lover of BBW Women so please don't be shy.
As a Dominant, I am flexible with any new submissive . I will mold you into the perfect submissive. All Ages are welcome
Some things I look for in a submissive: I need someone who can be loyal, trusting, willing to learn,You will have my full respect at all times
Kinks you may like Spanking,choking, collars, bondage (light and heavy), breast play, public play, degradation, humiliation
Sir hopes to see you soon
March 3, 2024 at 6:10 AM
Making myself findable
Making this ad in hopes that I will be messaged.
I am looking for a sub that is between the ages of 18 to 25 though would prefer the ages 18-20. I will like to have a genral idea of how they look. While a photo is the easy way for me to know how they look I understand it may also be uncomfortable so I'll be fine with just thier best physical description.
To make things clear I feel very uncomfortable on showing myself. Though I hope my sub wouldn't. So before ever considering sending me a photograph or video of themselves I want to be clear I am most likely not going to do the same. I may still send photos and videos but not showing me. And if we where to ever video chat I would stay in voice chat.
I'll be honest,unlike most people here, I am not looking for a permanent relationship. I am looking for a short to long term Dom/sub relationship where it is know at some point we wouldn't be in that relationship anymore but be assured the friendship relationship would still live. Think of me as a Dom you will service to try and get some experience serving a type of Dom, since all Doms may be diffrent.
I will admit I am not a very exprince Dom as I have not really had an Rl master/sub relationships and have only really rped the relationships.
Take note I am a very caring and understanding person. I will not force you to do anything you are uncomfortable doing, though if it's a situation where you just need to get comfortable with doing it I will gladly give you time and try helping you get comfortable with it. I am also if you are ever having a bad day or need to rant I'd be glad to let you rant and either give feed back or just stay quite if you just wanted to let something out but not be told anything back.
And finally to very important things.
Firs I would like my sub to still be able to be able to go on with there lives without me having to be responsible about everything. I'll gladly take some control over your life if you want me to depending how it is.
Second this is purely an online thing. Maybe in the far future It won't be, but that is the far future.
I am looking for a sub that is between the ages of 18 to 25 though would prefer the ages 18-20. I will like to have a genral idea of how they look. While a photo is the easy way for me to know how they look I understand it may also be uncomfortable so I'll be fine with just thier best physical description.
To make things clear I feel very uncomfortable on showing myself. Though I hope my sub wouldn't. So before ever considering sending me a photograph or video of themselves I want to be clear I am most likely not going to do the same. I may still send photos and videos but not showing me. And if we where to ever video chat I would stay in voice chat.
I'll be honest,unlike most people here, I am not looking for a permanent relationship. I am looking for a short to long term Dom/sub relationship where it is know at some point we wouldn't be in that relationship anymore but be assured the friendship relationship would still live. Think of me as a Dom you will service to try and get some experience serving a type of Dom, since all Doms may be diffrent.
I will admit I am not a very exprince Dom as I have not really had an Rl master/sub relationships and have only really rped the relationships.
Take note I am a very caring and understanding person. I will not force you to do anything you are uncomfortable doing, though if it's a situation where you just need to get comfortable with doing it I will gladly give you time and try helping you get comfortable with it. I am also if you are ever having a bad day or need to rant I'd be glad to let you rant and either give feed back or just stay quite if you just wanted to let something out but not be told anything back.
And finally to very important things.
Firs I would like my sub to still be able to be able to go on with there lives without me having to be responsible about everything. I'll gladly take some control over your life if you want me to depending how it is.
Second this is purely an online thing. Maybe in the far future It won't be, but that is the far future.
March 3, 2024 at 3:08 AM
sub/slave for long term relationship. Possible TPE
am in search of the right sub. Someone who is truly submissive, is a traditional woman, and embraces her feminine side.
As for kinks I prefer traditional D/s that goes beyond the bedroom. Will do TPE with the right person. I am open to most kinks and have them listed on my profile. Some of my favorites are servitude, bondage, pain, anal (toys and sex), control and humiliation.
I do not like ddlg, age play and the name daddy. It grosses me out.
Be polite and respectful. I do not like brats in anyway.
Outside of bdsm have a job, your own hobbies, exercise/take care of your body (physical attraction is important) and have a sense of humor.
Please live in the US and if you're on the west coast or local to the San Diego area that would be even better.
Age range is 21-27
I love meeting new people so send a message if I sound interesting.
As for kinks I prefer traditional D/s that goes beyond the bedroom. Will do TPE with the right person. I am open to most kinks and have them listed on my profile. Some of my favorites are servitude, bondage, pain, anal (toys and sex), control and humiliation.
I do not like ddlg, age play and the name daddy. It grosses me out.
Be polite and respectful. I do not like brats in anyway.
Outside of bdsm have a job, your own hobbies, exercise/take care of your body (physical attraction is important) and have a sense of humor.
Please live in the US and if you're on the west coast or local to the San Diego area that would be even better.
Age range is 21-27
I love meeting new people so send a message if I sound interesting.
March 2, 2024 at 7:21 PM
Serious submissive required
Hi there 48 year old Dom looking for a mature sub.
March 2, 2024 at 3:51 PM
Hey Babygirl....
I've been involved with bdsm for as long as I've been sexually active, and in that time I've had my share of D/s relationships, with myself as the 'D'. I've developed a pretty good idea of what works for me, and what I'm looking for, and this post is an attempt to find it. Rather than going for a broad trawling post, I'm going detailed and specific, so if the content of this post appeals to you then we are likely to be compatible, so drop me a message.
Dynamic
This should go without saying, but the for me, anything that turns me on relates to me being in control.
Sexually, I like a strict dynamic with rules and protocols. I enjoy assigning rewards and punishments, as well as tasks. I have a range of kinks including restraints, spankings, discipline training (with rewards and punishments) , name-calling and humiliation, piss play, raceplay, non-con play, and using my sub as human furniture. But the unifying theme is that they enforce this power dynamic where I have control over my sub, physically or mentally. In terms of online play, I enjoy setting rules: things like how to address me, or how to ask permission to masturbate or orgasm. I also like controlling more mundane things - dietary or clothing restrictions, for example. As well as rules, I like setting one-off tasks - that might be sexual, or something arbitary. Ultimately, I want my sub to give her all to me, and to let me take control of whichever aspects of her life that I wish. In return, you get the comfort and reward of knowing you are in safe hands, and that you don't have to make decisions. In terms of physical play, I tend to take the lead, but sometimes enjoy sitting back to let my sub tend to me; again, in either case it's about getting my sub to do what I want and to fulfil my desires in that moment.
You
I get on best with women who are high-achieving, ambitious and intelligent. My relationship history involves a lot of women with postgrads degrees or good careers. I like to know that my partner seems capable in most aspects of her life, but is subservient behind closed doors with me. Linking to that, I like to be able to have a good conversation with my partner, not just about sex. Wittiness and sense of humour are really sexy to me. Unlike some of The Cage, I'm not into gaming so if that is a big part of your life we probably won't be compatible. I tend to prefer to play with women around my age or younger, though this isn't a dealbreaker, I find it helps the power dynamic. I am also happy to play with subs who are relatively new to bdsm; enthusiasm is more important than experience.
Me
If you've read all this way, it's only fair to tell you about myself. I'm 50, based in NC but travel a lot for work. I'm well-educated and have a good career, but in my free time I read, hike and cycle. For anything else, you'll have to drop me a message to ask :)
Dynamic
This should go without saying, but the for me, anything that turns me on relates to me being in control.
Sexually, I like a strict dynamic with rules and protocols. I enjoy assigning rewards and punishments, as well as tasks. I have a range of kinks including restraints, spankings, discipline training (with rewards and punishments) , name-calling and humiliation, piss play, raceplay, non-con play, and using my sub as human furniture. But the unifying theme is that they enforce this power dynamic where I have control over my sub, physically or mentally. In terms of online play, I enjoy setting rules: things like how to address me, or how to ask permission to masturbate or orgasm. I also like controlling more mundane things - dietary or clothing restrictions, for example. As well as rules, I like setting one-off tasks - that might be sexual, or something arbitary. Ultimately, I want my sub to give her all to me, and to let me take control of whichever aspects of her life that I wish. In return, you get the comfort and reward of knowing you are in safe hands, and that you don't have to make decisions. In terms of physical play, I tend to take the lead, but sometimes enjoy sitting back to let my sub tend to me; again, in either case it's about getting my sub to do what I want and to fulfil my desires in that moment.
You
I get on best with women who are high-achieving, ambitious and intelligent. My relationship history involves a lot of women with postgrads degrees or good careers. I like to know that my partner seems capable in most aspects of her life, but is subservient behind closed doors with me. Linking to that, I like to be able to have a good conversation with my partner, not just about sex. Wittiness and sense of humour are really sexy to me. Unlike some of The Cage, I'm not into gaming so if that is a big part of your life we probably won't be compatible. I tend to prefer to play with women around my age or younger, though this isn't a dealbreaker, I find it helps the power dynamic. I am also happy to play with subs who are relatively new to bdsm; enthusiasm is more important than experience.
Me
If you've read all this way, it's only fair to tell you about myself. I'm 50, based in NC but travel a lot for work. I'm well-educated and have a good career, but in my free time I read, hike and cycle. For anything else, you'll have to drop me a message to ask :)
March 2, 2024 at 11:33 AM
Dom/Master in LA area Looking for sub/slave
I'm a 47 year old male living in Los Angeles Area. I am respectful, patient, understanding, caring, fair, and firm.
I am looking for a sweet, passionate, obedient, and dedicated girl, a sub/slave.
She must have the willing to obey, serve and please her Master at all times, within limits of course.
Experience level does not matter as long as you listen and love to please your Master.
Send a DM if you think you are the one.
I am looking for a sweet, passionate, obedient, and dedicated girl, a sub/slave.
She must have the willing to obey, serve and please her Master at all times, within limits of course.
Experience level does not matter as long as you listen and love to please your Master.
Send a DM if you think you are the one.
March 1, 2024 at 11:08 PM
Do you wish to be owned?
I am looking for a Submissive, obedient female. Any level of experience will be considered, prefer small , thin women, however attitude and motivation will greatly effect the selection.
March 1, 2024 at 9:28 AM
age: 53 · Kuala Lumpur, Federal Territory of Kuala Lumpur
Last seen 1 month ago
bald / headshave
I am looking for a female submissive to discuss thoughts to head shave her to bald - please reply if this interests you
February 29, 2024 at 5:13 AM