Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

  South Lyon, Michigan

I’m looking for my one and only. My profile will explain more fully who and what I am. If you are not brave enough to share your heart with me you’re not prepared to walk with me.

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35 y/o      Chicago, Illinois

Hello,

I’m a Disciplinarian/Daddy Dominant who is hoping to find his match. I work in finance during the day and lead a pretty normal life. I enjoy all things surround D/s dynamics and would love to be matched up with someone willing to learn or is already well versed in genuine bdsm play. I live on a busy schedule but that does not mean I don’t value quality time or being affectionate. The best way to describe my style of Dominance is work hard play hard. I’m very fair and believe that if a punishment is given it is earned, if rewards are given they are earned.
Anything in between is just pure fun for us both!

Some of the “fun” things I enjoy doing are
Walks around the city
Finding an alley and giving a random spanking.
Impact play
Bondage
Collar and leash
Wax
Orgasm control
Face fucking
High protocol
Cuddling.
I enjoy degrading when it’s mutually desired
I enjoy giving oral.

I’m fairly creative. BDSM is my release and happy place.

An ongoing dynamic would be great.

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68 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

Gentleman Dom seeks his sub slut - S. FL. I am a fit, D&D Free Polyamourous Gentleman Dom. 63 years young. Looking for submissive women who are mature, healthy, fit, local to Fort Lauderdale, sincere and ready to let go and live in the moment! Being in service, accepting responsibility for herself and wanting to grow and learn in the lifestyle. Is this you? Do you yearn to be in a safe place and know you are cared for? Don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours! Be real. Be ready. Be yourself! Did I mention I’m especially partial to Ebony and Asian subs? Private Dungeon awaits! Ever ride a Sybian?

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  New York, New York

Looking for someone interested in finding creative ways to stay warm this winter. If you get cold, send me a pm.

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65 y/o      London, Ontario

Sometimes a woman just needs a spanking to release her built up emotions, stresses and the like. Just the very act of being taken over a man's knee (or bent over a bed) can bring pent up emotions to the surface and hep release them. The being told what to do can help release the stress of being in charge all day. It can be a lighter spanking or something more aggressive such as spanking to tears with a very red bum.

I'm a mature man with experience in spanking, very clean and fit, very openminded and most importantly very respectful of your privacy and limits. If you want to chat, send me a message.

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34 y/o      Turkey

looking for a sub slave to obey commands , open for travel needs to have a vacation soonest .
i am looking for female submissive slave to explore her needs and desires travel and accommodation can be arranged for the right person.

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61 y/o      Ramsey, Isle of Man

Hello all 60 yr old Dom male, looking for subs that would like to be trained made in to all they want to be .
Age looks unimportant as its more about the person on the inside. All i ask is that you be your real self
if you like to know more then please message me at any time
thank you Harsh

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  Cambridge, Ohio

I want a woman who doesn't NEED to be owned, but WANTS to be owned. Someone strong (strength of character is more important than physical strength, but both are good things) who understands they don't have to be weak, or indecisive to follow orders.
You should expect to be trained in the use of weapons and basic self defense. You should expect to serve me and my household in various ways. In return you should expect general guidance (sometimes in the form of physical punishment/correction), philosophical guidance, and orgasms.

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31 y/o      Michigan

29 year old dom, white, 5"8 220. Looking for a submissive in her 30' to 50. Online only till very comfortable with each other and our protocols, , meeting afterwards

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38 y/o      Virginia

I'm over 6 ft and I've got more than 6 inches. I'm looking for mutual enjoyment of each other's company, and I have zero interest or time for games and unnecessary drama. I've already got enough complicated in my life, I'm not looking to add to it, I'm looking for someone that adds positive, enjoyment, and relaxation. Not looking for more stress and negative. Cis women only 18-40 hwp or smaller.

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  New York, New York

I am seeking a submissive woman. I am 50, 6'2, slender, brown skin, short hair, think Mariano Rivera.

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  Long Beach, California

I am seeking a submissive female of any age who wants to explore her fantasies with me. As for myself I enjoy roleplay, administering OTK spankings, protocol training, adult toys, and whips. Your limits and safe words are always respected.

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  Montreal, Quebec

Master is looking for a submissive or slave with or without experience for real belonging.
Must be relocatable or ready to be.

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  Colonial Heights, Virginia

If you are a good sub that loves it rough and whenever Daddy wants it then contact me. I will make you feel loved and controlled, helpless and empowered and most of all a little scared, but comforted.

You will hand over your panties to me so I can rub your clit and finger your pussy. You will learn the ins and outs of me. You will love it...

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25 y/o      Winnipeg, Manitoba

Hey there. Title should get across what I'm looking for. I'm hoping to find someone around my age who's interested in being dommed online (yeah I know, it's lame, but that's how life is right now for me). I have done this twice before, so I have a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for. If you're at all interested, shoot me a message, I'd be happy to discuss this in any detail you'd like.

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  New South Wales

Hello and thanks for reading this add im a 66 yo m in NSW Australia on the STH coast im looking for a female subbmissive over 45 yo.She must be able to meet during days i can host i am exp and play safe thank you Master Craig

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  England

first time abuser looking for woman to use on cam

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  Maryland

Are you tired of feeling like you have "be something"? I am looking for someone who does not want to be anything but mine. Someone who wants to be at turns, a 50's housewife, a live-in maid, or a bronze-age slave girl depending on what mood I'm in that day. To break it down to brass tacks I want a woman who feels like she was made to serve a man, and who's ideal lifestyle would be a "stay at home" one. Someone who enjoys all of the stereotypically feminine domestic duties, and who will always be a good sport in the bedroom. If they'll let me get away with bringing up something that I think distinguishes me rom a lot of men who are in these sorts of spaces, I have a strong yearning to provide for someone, both in of material needs, affection and structure. I feel like this is a fundamental need of mine. I'm reasonably fit and attractive, and looking for the same. If anything I've said interests you feel free to reach out.

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46 y/o      Bogalusa, Louisiana

I am a 44 year old attractive D-type living in Louisiana (about an hour North of Nola). I stand 6'3" and am of average build. I'm intelligent and a bit geeky, though many don't guess that about me. I am seeking the right s-type female to build a dynamic with. I'm a primarily old school, with a healthy mixture of new. An explorer at heart, and libertine in spirit. I became involved in the lifestyle roughly 20 years ago while I was in the military. What started out as some kinky play and experiments with power exchange evolved into a way of life.

I am very much interested in the Mental aspects of Dominance, as well as 50's Household, aspects of DDlg, light Bondage, and Sadism. I am also well versed in a number of areas not mentioned that fall under the BDSM umbrella. I can be strict and rigid at times. However, I am not a persistent micromanager.

If any of this sounds appealing, you know what to do...

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  Houston, Texas

No work
Pleasure
Loved
Kept
Protected
Pampered
For the following female: blue eyes
Great smile
Totally submissive
Pretty feet
Insatiable
Obedience
Youthful


Serious females only
Once found need is gone
Relocation might be required

LTR relationship

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  England

Mature experienced dom owner, seeks submissive female +18 looking to learn and experience submissive/slave play and be shaped and molded into my perfect pet.
Talk to me. Dont be scared.

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  London, England

I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?

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  Oregon

Am looking for a lady who wants all the regular things in a relationship with the benefits of the lifestyle included. I like things like tongue, and body piercings, large chested, ink, long hair. Lite bondage, submission. Being dominated also.
Likes going to dinner, dating. Can either put on high heels, stalking's, garter, dress as well as lounging around the house in swets. Is adventurous as well.

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  United States

I'm not looking for anything offline because, let's be honest, all of you will be too far to invest my precious energy. It will be a simple messaging relationship and i probably wont be asking for much anyway because I'm a busy guy and there are more important things than you. When I finally remember you exist, I will ask something from you, such as pic or vid. You are a just a slave to me and sooner or later, i will find another or until i get bored. I'm a lenient and caring boss though so if you are not comfortable with something, I won't force you. There are many ways your body can be explored. Hmu if you are a good girl who loves to obey because you're the ones I like.

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71 y/o      New Jersey

Would you like to be trained as a kajira, a Gorean pleasure slave? I am a strict but fair Master who desires a woman who wants to free her inner slave girl. Message me and we’ll chat

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  Fond du Lac, Wisconsin

Shaved from waist down.

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  Glasgow, Scotland

Hey , I go by Daddy_Stretch here, I am looking for a sub , I am open to experimentation with different kinks and a few that I am into would be choking , slapping , spanking, biting and much more. A location near Glasgow is highly preferred. I am always open to new conversations so don't mind just dropping by and saying hi either. You can always open with what kinks you are into.

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  Australia

I am seeking a 18-45 female for long term ownership - Ideally a slave but a devoted sub might surface depending her level of devotion. I am however in Australia and rewire this person to relocate to me if not local. Please get in touch if this interests you

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  Bristol, England

I am new to this site, i have been experimenting and and keen to learn more as i have just started dom/sub play with new people and keen to learn more and make new contacts and friends.
my aim to be dominant in the relationship, creating a somewhat of a structure to the dom sub relationship. dom sub rules are varied, so depending upon your style of submission, any list of rules i create will naturally evolve over time gaining each others trust.
Slave rules: as a dominant master enjoy setting more master of rules, where my submissive acts as a slave and performs acts of service. The purpose of these rules is to ensure as the Master having my life made easier, or being worshipped by my slave. These rules would be given and enforced during a period of slave training.
Sex rules. I perfer strictly in a sexual BDSM relationship dynamic,as then the rules will be more explicit. Orgasm denial or rituals for the bedroom, gang bang, parties, events etc

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38 y/o      Miami, Florida

Hi ☺️ i’m looking for a SB online or possibly in irl depending on locations (im out in the Miami area btw) . Umm I'm 37yrs old and i am a very loving Man. I am here looking to sp.oil a SB while she spoils me back with her attention, beautiful and naughty pictures cuz i love it.! Send me a dm. Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon ?

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53 y/o      United Kingdom

I'm a 52 year old Dom from the UK, something of a Primal/Daddy hybrid in style.

I'm interested in establishing an online dynamic with a girl that piques my interest.
I'm not a sadist and not a fan of humiliation, my girl will be cared for and her welfare taken seriously.
She will carry marks I gift her with tooth and claw and she will be protected.

Message me and let's see how we mesh.

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40 y/o      North Carolina

I am a fit and active 33 year old Dom searching for a submissive female in, or relocatable to, NC. I am a professional artist working in the field of costume design and fabrication, so it would be nice to meet someone with creative or geeky leanings. I am also poly-fi and come with an adorable artistic submissive so any relationship would be in a Triad dynamic.

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  Netherlands

I am looking for a sub. I want an online relationschip at first but see where it goes. I have sadistic tendencies and love it when someone is obedient or even better, when someone is made obedient. I'm open for a lot of things so we would need to discuss what we both want. On my profile there is more information about me.

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  Minneapolis, Minnesota

Seeking f masochist who enjoys being flogged , paddled, Spanked bare handed, with a belt and more. I will leave marks. I want someone who will enjoy being forced to go from pain to pleasure and back again repeatedly.

I am non-monogamous, in an open relationship. Online vetting process will take time. I don’t rush things.

If anything above is a deal breaker, please don’t respond. If instead you’re intrigued, I look forward to discussing things with you further.

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  Hampton, Virginia

Dom looking for sub who is into the following: binding, clamps, tease/tickle, slapping, spanking, sensory deprivation, free-use, age play, and DD/lg. Open to other kinks. Never had a slave dynamic, but will to try it. Prefer age difference, but not required. Prefer someone within 1 hour of me. Potentially open to relocate you to me, but that's a huge "if".

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  Connecticut

Please have a look at my profile. If you can figure out the riddle, then proceed with the rest of this post. If you can’t get the riddle, let’s not waste each other’s time ?

I’ve been on this site for five years and have made some very interesting connections. Three have turned into real life hookups and several others have resulted in fruitful online relationships.

I love forcing orgasm denial, sending daily tasks, and instructing edging techniques. I want my subs to be wound so tight by the time they come that they’d do and say anything to have that sweet release.

Have a look and drop me a note. Pics available after we’ve made a clear intellectual connection.

Jeff

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32 y/o      England

My pleasure is to see women get into her
pleasure and give her the push to explore ur Deeper pleasure

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  United Kingdom

I’m fed up with one night meets. Lust and casual sex is great but you don’t get the beauty of knowing each other and the higher levels of pleasure that are achieved through a relationship over time. I promise to spend time learning your preferences and training you in serving my needs. I am a traditional dom, can accommodate and travel for the right sub. I am happy to get to know you and am open to online communication before meeting. Looking forward to hearing from you. Have a lovely weekend.

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  Connecticut

Lonely Dominant looking for that special connection with a truly submissive woman.

It's been so long since I had someone special to call my own. I miss the banter, giving her structure and setting rules.

I'm not looking for some short term play thing.i want to build a real connection and have that chemistry. I want something long term and meaningful. I don't care if your married or have a partner. Age isn't important as long as you are of legal age.

I would prefer someone fairly close by but I am willing to entertain online only if things fit right.

Have a nice day ladies

Frank

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  Quakertown, Pennsylvania

Seeking 24/7 live in experience not needed.
Will train and teach.
Keeping this ad simple. Must be serious. No time for games.

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31 y/o      Pablo, Montana

Here goes nothing. I'm a loner by nature, and I'm wierd as hell. I have some strong opinions and have a tendency to fuck things up.

Now if your still here, I am seeking a submissive/slave either or, I mean I expect nothing will come of this so hey. I want a partner in crime, someone to get in trouble with and fuck later that night. Like Harley Quinn. And joker but less toxic. I can be cheesy and strange. But I want something long term, ironically after the last 8 ended in the worst ways ever. I am quite broken and have no self esteem, it's all ego. So if you can handle that and want to chat, let's talk I'm an open book.

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71 y/o      Sarnia, Ontario

the female sub has to loyal, trust worthy, good communicatiom, obey with question, can be bisexual, honest, drug free of any kind

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  Stockholm, Stockholm County

I'm looking for someone who is serious in their search and actually want to meet and commit for real.

If you are real - then check my profile - it contains a lot of information about me and life with me. If after reading it and you are interested - don't hesitate to contact me!

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41 y/o      Kortrijk, Flanders

I'm a 40 year old monster. I wake up; Take a shower; Hit the gym; Work 12+ hours a day; Sleep; Rinse and Repeat every single day. As you can see, my time is very valuable. So if you plan on wasting it, I will just ignore/remove you. Are you worthy enough to stand by my side? Because what I can not stand is uselessness. I will demand a lot from you.
I need my sub to stand next to me and own her place. When I call you, you should already be on your way to me. I will make you my perfect little sub. I will also take full responsibility over you so if you fall, I will pick you up and carry you over the finish line. I have always been of the mindset that a sub that works very hard needs to be rewarded because a hard working sub is the most sexiest creature on this planet. I've been a Daddy dom for 2 years now so I have quite some experience in that. Still have to learn a bit about being a Dom/Brattamer but in due time.

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41 y/o      Kortrijk, Flanders

I'm a 38 year old monster.
I wake up;
Take a shower;
Hit the gym;
Work 12 hours a day;
Sleep;
Rinse and Repeat every single day.

As you can see, My time is very valuable. So if you plan on wasting it, I will just ignore you.
Are you worthy enough to stand by My side? Can you follow that regime? Because what I can not stand is uselessness.
I will demand a lot from you, in private and in professionalism. I need My bratty sub to stand next to Me and own her place.
When I call you, you should already be on your way to Me. I will train you and experiment on you to make you My perfect little sub.

I will take full responsibility over you so if you fall, I will pick you up and carry you over the finish line. I have always been of the mindset that a sub that works very hard needs to be rewarded because a hard working sub is the most sexiest creature on this planet.

I've recently discovered that I'm a Daddy/Brattamer/Dom so I still need to learn all the ropes.

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40 y/o      Honolulu, Hawaii

I’m an experienced Dom and BDSM mentor looking for a submissive to live with me in Honolulu, Hawaii, and eventually travel with me internationally.

I am a natural Dominant, Primal, Leader, Mentor, Guide and Healer, in part because I am a Scorpio, Empath and ENFJ-A.

I’m looking for an in-person long-term relationship, not an online relationship. Ideally, it would develop into a forever dynamic.

If you are open to discussing visiting and eventually relocating to me (after we have gotten to know each other and built trust) then message me and feel free to include which dynamics you have been in and which ones are you open to, examples:

Dom/Sub
Master/Slave
Daddy/Little
Owner/Pet
Etc

For more info about me check out my profile and blog.

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  Valparaiso, Indiana

I'm a new dom, looking to gain more experience.

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  Paris, Île-de-France

Hello
i'm jon 39yrs full time dom seeking a sub own/train and teach about bdsm life style and guide her in real life to be her mentor
I had a great relationship with my last sub and ended that for her to continue her jorney
Now searching new candidate
So if you are new and ready for a life changing experience where satisfaction is the real goal
Come join me
We talk about everything in private

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72 y/o      Canterbury, England

I am a 60's plus male near Canterbury Kent...There is no greater compliment from a new submissive, or any submissive come to that than the first time she kneels for you without you demanding or telling her to. Everything else that follows on from that simple, but that very complex act has to start somewhere and the act of willingly kneeling before you... is the start of it all, it is true submission. It's a bit like my pet hate, 'it happens to guys as well' it's when they demand from the very first message to be called Sir, or Master...
Just because you call yourself a Dom does not mean that you are the 'superior being' far from it.
The submissive has all the control right up until she offers her submission as a gift, and it's a rare gift, true submission is given by choice, not demanded.
How come you might ask...think about it for one moment. In the Dom/Sub relationship, nothing, absolutely nothing happens until the submissive says so, there is no messaging, no first meeting, nothing

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  Maryland

I'm looking for a woman from the ages of 18-25 years old, to become my slave. I will train you to be a real slave and will be treated as such, to obey, do as your told without hesitation and never see yourself as a human being but an object to me use to my pleasure and serve to better my life. I am a strict and fair if you show progress then I'll be more flexible to your struggles. I believe a slave should do as her commands it and never stop him from doing as he please, therefore I do not respect safe words or limits. if you are interested in become my slave, message me I'll look forward from hearing you.

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  New Jersey

I desire a rope bunny with a love of weekend travel and spontaneous Adventures. Are you in NJ, DE, PA or NY area? Good. Check out my profile and then let's talk. -V

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54 y/o      Iowa

I am looking for a long-term sub/slave/pet to take possession of a total 24/7/365 TPE I am controlling strict firm have very few limits want someone who is into and craves everything the lifestyle offers. I have been on here for awhile on and off try other relationships but never worked I know who I am and what I want also the mental aspect is just as important as the physical am willing to start online as long as it progress to real long-term if interested or have questions just send a message

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34 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

TL/DR: Any Alpha subs out there? Ass kicker in the streets, but submissive in the sheets? Looking for a strong & independent woman with a burning desire to submit to start a 24/7(ish) monogamous D/s relationship. If this sounds like you, meander on over to my profile. Cheers!

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36 y/o      Netherlands

Hi all. I'm hoping to find a sweet submissive girl, aged 25-34, to build a loving, long-term relationship with. I'm interested in a 24/7 dynamic that would evolve into a TPE, but I also enjoy the softer aspects of doting on a sub. I'm also interested in traditional, 1950's household elements. Open to start off online, but must be willing to relocate in the future.

I'm childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, have social/left-wing politics. I have some years of D/s experience under my belt.

The woman I'm looking for is a book lover and an artist. She's a feminine type, a real girly girl. Smart, but also smart enough to let me lead. Her ideal future consists of a cozy life, with our own little herb garden and a room dedicated to making art. I want to come home to the scent of freshly baked goods and a lady covered in paint or clay or poetry. I'm very attracted to short women with long, dark hair.

Does this spark your interest? Message me or check out my profile for more about me.

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62 y/o      Lyon, Auvergne-Rhône-Alpes

Hi.You are a submissive woman flying to France and you are expecting some kinky games with a mature disciplinarian. I would like to teach and to pervert you .Please, no time wasters. But newbies or shy ladies are welcome . Couples too , for cuckolding.

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  Connecticut

Do you want it all; a fun, intelligent man, with who amazing at the kinky sex life; who will be your Dominant in the bedroom and my equal partner outside of it.
In our world...I'm a Dominant, and I'm looking for a submissive woman. Someone who will love to explore her submissive part of her with me discreetly. A submissive willing to learn under my tutelage and follow my lead. BDSM sub Master

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  Virginia

ages 18-45, F sub wanted for dedicated role. Must provide pics. Must be able to handle discipline if needed! Message me. Serious inquiry's only.

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  Queensland

I'm looking for a naughty slut who likes to be watched and told how to please their Dom Daddy on cam and voice chat.

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  New Jersey

I am seeking a submissive woman....minimum height 5'4".....a BBW, chubby or whatever you want to call it....she should be between 45 and 75.
I am seeking a " live in " situation....someone with me 24/7....who is EAGER to " live the lifestyle "....
She would be totally cared for, supported financially, physically and emotionally.
It would be a very kinky but very LOVING Dom/sub lifestyle...
If you are a woman who wants to be dedicated to me and live with a man with a high sex drive who is EXPERIENCED .....I am here...
I am not interested in discussions of domination and submission...not interested in blogging or philisophical discussions of D/s....
I am only interested in LOVE 1st and formost....companionship....being cared for and catered to by a woman ready and available to start
the " live in " situation after a trial period of 3 to 6 months.....
I am an educated, sophisticated, successful man.

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  Sedalia, Missouri

i am serious to find a live in long term female i am married yes she knows and approves

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