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Master/Daddy seeking very specific sub/little/bbg for training
I’m looking for a special person with very specific qualities. Someone who is hungry to learn what this world has to offer and wants to learn willingly, with an open mind and respect.
I’m a genuine and kind, but firm, male looking for a new or inexperienced girl to train and introduce into this incredible world.
I can promise absolute safety in a trusting environment, but also a sensory excitement that you'll wish you'd discovered sooner.
Initially we will start online, but there is no substitute for a real life experience/dynamic which needs to happen when we are both ready. Distance is not an object.
If you think you fit the profile, tell me why and answer the audio question in my profile.
I’ll help you move from simply ‘living’ to feeling alive, fulfilled and appreciated!
Michigan man looking for female for M/s relationship
Looking for M/s relationship. I have been in the lifestyle a few years and had a few partners. Looking for a woman wants a M/a relationship that is developed over time and earned trust. Please review my profile and message me if interested.
Perfection isn't found, its made. I am looking for a sub who will let me break her down and rebuild her into my perfect match. Low self esteem, not a problem. Not happy with your life or how things are now, we will work on that. I am not looking for what you are now but rather what you could be. Ill break what you are now and build you into what I desire and you will find comfort in that position. It wont be easy, there are steps where you will feel humiliated and sad, but do as I say and you will become very desired.
I’m looking for someone who needs and strives for direction in life. Someone who wants all of the hassle and stress of life’s decisions lifted off their shoulders and placed on to someone else’s so they don’t have to worry about them. What to wear, how to style their looks (makeup, hair, etc), schedules and rules to follow, what to eat. Someone who want’s to give up total power and place it on their person/master. Obviously this requires the utmost trust in a person and must be earned so I don’t expect this dynamic to be implemented right off the bat, but once trust and a great solid base is formed. Let us get to know each other before any dynamic is even discussed. *Profiles with photos will be taken more seriously*
Hey! I'm searching for a sub. I am an affectionate dom whose kinks include anal, squirting, orgasm control, bondage, punishment and praise, spanking, and breath play. I'm also open to exploring other kinks! I'm looking for something that will be consistent and has the potential to move to a more serious relationship.
My vanilla interests include reading, writing, exploring museums, hiking, snowboarding, playing games, and climbing. I am a homebody tho haha.
Please be 24-40 (not a hard requirement for the right person). And especially if you're in the midwest.
I seek one additional slave to enhance and complement my existing order. Totally open, transparent and negotiated arrangements with clear rules with daily tasks as well as expected behavior and boundaries in a soothing environment that can be fun and engaging. Send a pm and a pic for consideration.
As the title says I'm looking for a partner that has a submissive streak to them pretty close to that 1950s wife energy. I am open to starting conversations and the like online and trying to build that level of trust and interest through things like discord. Ideally I'm looking to go out on dates and get to know one another more intimately. Now to be clear I use the phrasing of them because I am open to this partner being a femboy as well as a girl. Communication is big for me as I like to try new things and experiment. I want my partner to be open with me and relay their wants and desires as much as I do to them. This is healthy and needed in my view for any relationship. Some of my kinks include CNC, bondage, cosplay, collars, and cuddling. I do want this partner to be up front and say if they are into things or not though, again communication.
Seeking Female s type for testing of new Interrogation chair. Said device is currently pictured in my profile. I am currently in testing phase and require someone who:
○ is willing to remain in a seated position for an extended period of time
○ has experience with bondage for extended period of time. Bondage to include: Rope, cuffs, collars
○ has experience with sensory deprivation. SensDep to include: Blindfold, gags, hoods
○ has experience with Magic Wand vibratior
○ has experience with low level to moderate pain tolerances. Clothes pins and improperly placed wand may may be issues.
○ will have superior communication skills. Subject will provide feedback on sensations and will be asked fairly personal questions during trial period.
Applicants should live within NE Kansas. Applicants outside of that area may be considered, however they will have to provide their own travel and overnight expenses.
Looking for a sub/slave for long term relationship. I'm in Upstate NY and looking for someone close or willing to eventually relocate. I am willing to train and take things slow. An online relationship to start would be okay.
I am looking for a sub to enjoy. I am open to online only but would like to possibly have in person if location works. I need to be discreet due to personal reasons that could be discussed later. After we have decided that we mesh and trust is established then will provide tasks for you to preform which will require photo and/or video evidence of completion.
I am searching for someone who knows what it is like being surrounded by vanilla folks bored out of your mind with their conversations. I don't mind emails for a while but must provide a photo at some point in the conversation so that I know who I am talking to. Personally I don't even care what country or state you are in...just be real.
Mixing Roughsex and Romance! Can I find what I'm looking for?
I'm James 36 single, no kids, independent hardworking guy. I identify as a sadist/dom. Ultimately I I'm looking to meet a woman who's more on the side of masochist or just loves rough sex and degradation. I'm not looking for perfection so all of those needs don't have to be met.
I'm the kinda guy that doesn't really like vanilla sex. I have to be myself to really enjoy it. Being myself consists being dominant aggressive. I LOVE rough sex, I'm big on verbal degradation! I've a lot of experience in cnc.
I believe in being an old school gentleman. I think romance still exists. Outside of kink I'm an easy going guy with a simple drama free life. I'm on a weightloss journey and have lost 40lbs so far. I LOVE to travel and I Definitely would love a travel partner. I believe you can love respect and cherish a woman even when that goes away and I degrade abuse choke slap spit in your face, in the bedroom. Check out my profile and message me if you're interested
Hey there. Names DMoney I’m a 24 year old Black Dom looking for an online submissive. First and foremost I prefer that my sub have a big ass with shape and size. That’s just a preference of mine. Besides that I’m looking for a submissive that is able to give me 3 simple yet important things. 1. Obedience 2. Loyalty. 3. Communication. As long as those 3 things are met I’m one satisfied Dom already. I don’t ask for much actually. Im looking for a sub to call my own, someone that is legit and knows what she wants from a Dom. It doesn’t matter if she’s white, black, Hispanic, Asian, etc as long as she’s serious about what she wants and doesn’t play games that’s alright with me. Ultimately I want a sub that I can actually claim as my own and become my friend at the same time. If any of you ladies are seeking a Dom at the moment come message me and let’s see where things go from that point on. ONLY MESSAGE IF YOUR INTERESTED PLEASE! Thank you and have a great rest of the day!