Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

  Stockholm, Stockholm County

The more submissive you are, the better...
The longer relation you want, the better...
The more intelligent you are, the better...
The more loyal you are ,the better...
The more caring you are, the better...
The more happy and jokefull you are the better....

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23 y/o      Lubbock, Texas

I reside in Texas and am willing on my time off from work to maybe travel and meet. I am 21 and am looking for a dynamic that can start online if it makes you comfortable. But I do wish for it to lead to the irl aspect of life. I have been interested in the lifestyle for some time now and haven’t had a partner that indulges deeply into it. If you contact me, refer to me as Sir or Master I will not respond to someone who doesn’t know manners first and foremost. I am interested in a M/s dynamic, Master/pet, or just TPE. Thank you for taking the time to read this, don’t be afraid to shoot me a message.

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39 y/o      South Carolina

Greetings

Thank you for taking time to read my ad. I am seeking a obedient submissive woman who lives for service. I am seeking a loyal obedient open minded submissive who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7, try new things, and learn the life style. I am seeking someone with little to no limits, who is willing to be open in ideas and implementing those ideas. Must be wanting to be used for sexual and domestic use. If interested see my profile, and let me know.

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37 y/o      Ontario

Hello I'm a 36 year old Male Dominant looking for a female submissive that could eventually lead up to meeting I'm looking for a submissive that is looking to learn more about the sub/Dom dynamic I have a couple of years experience as well as I find trust very important when it comes to a relationship if you would like to learn more check out my profile

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73 y/o      Denver, Colorado

I am in need of a submissive female musician for an active band in Colorado. My preference is a female who plays violin or acoustic guitar. Contact me ASAP.

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  Abu Dhabi, Abu Dhabi

Hello to everyone who reads this.

I’m a 29 year old dom with sadistic tendencies, looking for masochist subs/slaves to talk to, give tasks/challenges to, and potentially even perhaps establish a proper dom/sub relationship with if we are able to build such a connection.

I’ve got a few years of experience as a dom, and I’ve recently found myself wanting to experiment with more ideas for pain and torture and I’m looking for a sub who is also keen on discussing more and potentially trying things out and pushing their limits.

I’ve got quite a wide variety of kinks, and not really a whole lot of limits. You’d be able to find my BDSM checklist on my profile to get to know my kinks more.

Thank you for reading through, and I hope you reach out to me if interested.

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  Euclid, Ohio

Bm age 66 seeking polyamory female subs or slaves attractive enough to put a smile on my face. tall very well build who likes a good spanking totally obedient financially secure don't want anyone contacting me saying pay my to me. had enough scammers and fakes open to a post-op have to be very attractive totally passable or a couple or submissive male seeking live in long term for domestic sexual service and slaver my dream was all ways to find models ex-dancer types. I tried being an actor my self no luck I had was only being an extra. Work up one day with vitiligo gave that dream up in life

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  Colorado

First off my name is Orgazmo. You can address me as “Orgazmo” “Sir” or “Master”. I live in Colorado (Mountain Time). I'm very serious when it comes to my subs & slaves and can be gentle, funny, understanding and compassionate but also strict and even harsh at times if Master determines a slave/sub needs it.




Trust
If trust is destroyed, so goes the relationship. Master doesn’t have the tolerance or time to try and determine if the slave is lying.




Communication
Google Hangouts and email... How much communication will need to be determined. Tasks may be given with a specified time limit.




Inexcusable
Lying will not be tolerated. Masters door to communication will be open. This Master will not use silence or non-communication as a form of punishment. Master will not tolerate silence from a slave/sub just because the slave/sub is scared or is trying to get out of a task.




Training
Limits will always be respected. Online training can work if Master and slave/sub are honest with each other and trust that the slave will only get out of it what the slave puts in. It goes without saying that the slave who pretends to follow the rules will not get as much out of it and may jump from one online Master to another while those that learn and grow honestly will develop deeper relationships and learn the true meaning of serving a Master.
sessions will be slow at first and tasks will be simple, maybe even seem trivial. If the slave/sub can’t/won’t follow instructions during an online session or complete the easiest task, why should Master waste his time expanding the slaves/subs training when the slave/sub does not take the training serious?




Control
Master will take as much control as a slave/sub is willing to concede. Master will always have total control in online sessions, and determining what, if any tasks are assigned. Control can also include complete control over daily activities.




Dislikes:
Feces/Urine, Permanent Scaring, Illegal, Blood, Underage, Extreme Pain



Inexcusable/Not Tolerated
Non-Communication, Not-Replying, Lying, Racism, Prejudice, intolerance, Smokers, Narcissists, Scammers



Likes/Interests
Anal, Orgasm Control, Edging, Control, Toys, Spanking, Bondage, Violet Wand, Flogger, Kindness, Compassion, Nature



If a slave/sub is only looking for a Master to have online sessions …….then say so! If the slave/sub is looking for “long term” understand that “long term” means more than a couple of days. If a slave/sub answers this Masters add at a very minimum know what it is the slave is looking for, how much time the slave is willing/able to put into serving and have the ability to convey this to the slaves potential Master.


What do I look for in a sub? It would be easy to say obedience and loyalty but that's not really what I'm in this for. I look for the potential for personal growth. If I choose you to be my sub I'll be giving you assignments from which you will benefit. In the past, I have held subs accountable for dietary or fitness goals, so in many ways, I act as a personal trainer or success coach. Also, whole food plant-based diet training. I also give mindfulness and sensual assignments.



Thank you to all prospective slaves and subs for taking the time to read this. Hopefully it has created enough interest that you will contact this Master.

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66 y/o      Maryland

I am a Master in D/s lifestyle, seek submissive/slave female to collar and own. Must be willing to have BDSM sessions. I seek a long term relationship based on total control on all aspects of the relationship. You will have no say. The only relationship you will have is me. This is a lifestyle not a part time thing. I get a lot of responses, but only respond if you want and understand this type of relationship. I am seeking one that is submissive, honest, loyal, caring, loving, obedient, and desires to belong to only one. Will only respond if you tell me why you are the lady I seek in my profile and serious about having this relationship. You will always belong to me. Lets not wait and meet. Let me know how to contact you. You always need to show these qualities and be happy living this way.

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52 y/o      Parksville, British Columbia

I’m a dominant male who loves to pleasure his sub. Currently in a relationship and looking for someone who is OK with that. My partner no longer wants to be intimate with anyone and knows I’m here, we have agreed rules and I will be following them or the fun stops.
I can accommodate as I’m alone for 6 months of the year. Purely for pleasure and fun.

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36 y/o      Junction City, Kansas

35/white/5'5"/male/KS > TN
Looking for someone to build my homestead with that is also like minded behind closed doors.

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  London, England

Honest, affectionate, willing submissive sought by caring Sensual Dom for D/s relationship with vanilla aspects if possible.

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  London, England

I’m a passionate and nurturing but strict SadoDom from NW London who’s lived the lifestyle for 10+ years with Subs who I’ve typically trained and helped evolve from relative newbies to experienced kinksters. I’m probably a Master based on experience but like lots of things in the BDSM world people get precious about names and sometimes it just makes you sound like a twat, which I hope I’m not! I push myself to learn as we are all on a journey and there’s no part of my life or skills I can’t improve on.

Fundamentally I believe that pleasure fulfills your Sub’s fanciful needs in the moment but pain and submission fulfills your partner’s deep psychological needs over the long term.

I’m looking for a UK based Sub who wants to embrace her submissive nature and to be pushed to be all she can be. I’ve an extensive Fet profile I’m happy to share.

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79 y/o      Salt Lake City, Utah

Hello and thanks for viewing my personal ad.
I am seeking sub/slave for all manner of kink, from bondage, breeding, flogging, objectification, pet play, to photography and more!
I hope you are interested!

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33 y/o      Flint, Michigan

Hello! I'm looking for female sub, slave who interested in being controlled and dominated in every aspect of life. I would decide what you could eat, what you wear, people you meet...
If you are interested in this lifestyle, message me

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68 y/o      Albany, New York

Are you the new sub I want for discrete meetings and online play?

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  United States

Single male looking for a introverted female willing to relocate who enjoys home life, RVing, motorcycle riding, rustic living, beaches for LTR and more. I'm not into labels.

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  United Kingdom

Looking for lessons in being obedient to daddy? County Durham Dom seeks bi sub females aged between 18- 40 for classroom.
Inbox me and I will reply to all.

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  California

Actively seeking a submissive/slave. Must be in the Los Angeles area and be willing to meet to spend time to get to know each other.

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47 y/o      Binghamton, New York

Interested in woman for tpe . Do as I say. Willing to train. You will be given daily chores as well as service master. You will wear a Chasity belt and eventually collar. I don't regression back to diapers for right brat. Punishments include cage time, corner time , or any other thing can think of. You can work outside of house, but submit when return. You will keep yourself healthy as well 18 to 35

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y/o      Saint Paul, Minnesota

Daddy/Owner/Master seeking female forever pet/slave/partner. Minnesota USA.
Liberal.
Looking for LTR, monogamous only.
I'm playful, hilarious, sarcastic, sweet, honest, super-affectionate, and faithful. Yes, actually. :P
Dark/raunchy sense of humor. If you love Cards Against Humanity, we'll get along great. ;)
Pretty flexible when it comes to kink. Tell me what your needs are: vanilla and kink.
I love to make my partner happy; I expect the same in return.

PLEASE include a picture with your introduction if your profile has none.

I'm on FET and have been vetted by a few groups.
I'm single, unpartnered, and available.
You MUST be willing and able to relocate to Minnesota.
See my profile for more details.

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63 y/o      New York, New York

I’m looking for a woman who desires rules and regulations to keep herself in line and to become a better person. Spankings are needed and desired. I love ass play and can also give pleasurable erotic spankings as well. You are naturally submissive and love to serve your man orally and love giving up that well reddened bottom to anal. We would be LTR and vanilla to others. I’m intelligent sane clean passionate loyal respectful and health conscious. If interested let’s start our journey

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  Wisconsin

About me - Hey! I go by Leo. I am a 27 man that works full time, has a car and lives in the Madison area. I'm looking for a sub that will submit to me almost completely. I'm open to TPE and other forms similar to this. I am also open to more of a traditional Dom/Sun dynamic too. I can be strict but I do care. I will also make sure you feel safe. I can either decide everything about your life inside and out of the bedroom, or just be a guiding hand. I am wanting to make this LTR into a life long thing, where we can grow together not only in the bedroom, but out as well. We can be our own people but also be as one too. I can be your daddy, your dom, your everything.
Ideally you be between the ages of 18-35. Has some sort of life already but am willing to help guide.

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31 y/o      Ireland

Dom looking for online sub who is willing to send pictures and videos as confirmation of obedience. Face required to be shown. No extreme play or scat. Preferably looking for a sub who is into humiliation and degradation but open to others as well.

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  District of Columbia

I have over 40yrs experience in the BDSM world. Looking for a sincere sub woman any age that is in need of training from a caring yet stern Dom. Expert in tease&denial, rope bondage, hot wax, oral training , constraint, flogging and many other areas. Please no one over 180 lbs. Also expert in Daddy/baby training.

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56 y/o      Colorado Springs, Colorado

I have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years and trained in London as a younger man to be a Dominant. After a long hibernation due to the pandemic I am now seeking a sub / slave for a long term commitment. Not just looking for anyone, W/we must really connect. With this in mind initial communication is crucial to determining if we are suited together and short term D/s contracts will be used in the beginning. Online is an excellent start if you like but the ultimate goal would be someone willing to commit to a live in 24/7 live in arrangement. Limits are important and consent is key.

I’m looking for My forever sub / slave. I’m poly, married and not looking for a replacement. Also, not looking for a ?! The sub / slave will belong to Me and Me alone. My SO dates separately and we do want a polycule who all get along and are a “family” of sorts. Humor is important in My life and enjoy good movies and "bad" TV. Happy to share more of My likes and things that interest me.
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  Portland, Oregon

Dom seeks submissive woman for local play time in the Portland Oregon, Vancouver Washington and there surrounding areas for fun meet and play scenes.

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62 y/o      Yuma, Arizona

I am a Canadian snowbird who winters right now in Yuma Arizona. I live full time in my 42’ 5th wheel trailer which means if I get bored with Yuma or there is an interest to be somewhere else, I have that option. I spend 6 months south and 6 months in Canada (being Canadian restricts how long I can remain the the US). What I am looking for is quite elusive because of that. She has to be able to travel, or at least visit regularly, or if she is still working, perhaps be able to work remotely. I am asking a lot, I would hope that she enjoys a wide variety of both vanilla and non vanilla activities. In a nutshell, I am looking for someone who can be a lady when she has to be and whatever I ask her to be when I want her to be. My late wife was my submissive and my little girl, I would like to find a woman who can be both again. Feel free to check out my profile and if interested in more, then by all means message me. I think that a word, a touch, a look is enough but not always.

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61 y/o      West Burlington, Iowa

No hill for a climber ...right? Looking for a long term partner in crime to build the true BDSM dynamic with! OK .. so I like goals .. so sue me! You an get to know me pretty darn well in my profile, forum replies, and bloggings. Simple and short - I am an ENFJ single man, who lives with 2 furry roomies in SE Iowa. Not opposed to long distance interactions, but there has to be the chance to move it into RL at some point. By day I wear a shirt and tie, and if you want to know about the nights, you'll just have to dive in the pool and find out!

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  Huntington, West Virginia

Looking for the right nerdy girl to be live-in submissive and slave. Start online but quickly move to irl submission then to bound housewife strong on 50's vibe with plenty of bondage and being kept, nude, barefoot and pregnant. 25-35 preferred age range. Nerdy, sci-fi, anime, and classic movie loving girls as well as stem educated preffered, but willing to learn and understanding your place are most important.
I am well educated, good job, capable of keeping you a homemaker if that is what we decide. Message Me to discuss further details.

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42 y/o      Massachusetts

Hey y'all

I'm a 40 year old, CIS, Straight, Dom, Male. Originally from FL, now living in MA. Yeah, I did it backwards. I'm special. Deal with it! LOL

That said, while I'm not exactly looking for anything specific, it never hurts to make the attempt to see what's out there. Feel free to check out my bio, shoot me a message, or if you really have psychic powers...stare at your screen till I respond. That last one probably won't work though.

Hope y'all have a wonderful day!

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  Michigan

Looking for sub for real life, no online only bullshit. But I think this website is a graveyard on life support

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  United States

I haven't found my life partner yet, someone of similar substance to build something with. That's all I'm looking for in a sub. Share boundaries/goals and fulfill them together with me. Strong communication skills and eventual willingness to relocate are required.

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  Vancouver, British Columbia

Hi there,

I'm interested in being dominant/master in a BDSM relationship. Located in Vancouver area but open to distance at first.

I work in tech, write music sometimes, and am generally a mellow sort of guy. I like hiking and chess. I try not to take life too seriously.

I am into TPE, bondage, chains, collars, CMNF, and all the fun stuff. It doesn't have to be 24/7 or anything but I'm pretty kinky once I get to know you.

My first relationship she introduced me to dominating her/handcuffing her. My last relationship was a four year D/s relationship that ended about 6 months ago. Though I enjoy the Gor novels I realize that their philosophy is problematic.

I'm an aspiring warlord so applications to be my post apocalyptic slavegirl are welcome.

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22 y/o      Alabama

Hello there, I'm 21 seeking a sub who I can hold and cheerish, I'm a nerd on the heavier side. I'm still new to this and I'm hoping I'll find someone to talk to about all this. I'm hoping to find a gal who doesn't mind me being gentle and kind and just wanting to talk and get to learn, though if you talk to me and your kind I'm hooked so hey give us a message and I'll respond, hope to hear from yall soon!

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38 y/o      Bangkok, Thailand

Introduction
Hi there. I am a Chinese/Korean/Japanese looking guy looking for a female submissive. I am currently in Bangkok. I see myself akin to Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. In my vanilla life, I am quite the gentleman and I believe woman are to be cared for and treated with respect. All of that changed when I found out about the nature of D/s. When I found out that both the dominant and the submissive are enjoying the scene awaken the Mr Hyde in me. I relish in the depraved feeling of being in control and that both of us are enjoying it. That is why I am here looking for a submissive to explore more.

Who am I looking for?
1. Friend
I'm interested to talk with more female submissives so that I can get to know you more. I believe the brain is the largest sex organ we have. If I can turn on a submissive with words, she'll want to be mine. This is why it is important for me to get to know more submissives. I am always learning about BDSM and adjusting how I see it. The more I know, the better. Let's talk! It's always nice to have someone to discuss kinky stuffs with.

2. A submissive to explore with
I have tried to ignore my dominant side. I have deactivated my account here numerous times and yet I am here again. I am not looking for 24/7 D/s as we all have our own lives. If you are a submissive that has that itch to submit and to grow, I believe we be good partners in our exploration. Experience doesn't matter. Let's talk and see how it goes. Oh yeah, you have to be a female because I am super straight.

What now?
If you are still reading, that means you are interested enough to reach here. Please send me a message with a rough introduction of yourself and include any questions that you have. If you are willing to share, please include how did you find my ad and how did you stumble upon the world of D/s. Let's see how it goes. I am waiting.

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  Longview, Washington

I am new to this kink thing but I have a little experience. Looking for a sub that is patient and understanding. If you want to be tied up and blind folded and see what happens then I may be the Dom for you. Must be local.

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  Winnipeg, Manitoba

Seeker wants a woman to do his bidding.
Not looking for a fake submissive

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26 y/o      St. Louis, Missouri

I am an experienced dom who is kind and firm. I am looking for someone who wants to be in a serious relationship and can handle various kinks. I want to get to know you first and go on a few dates before we do anything, I want to understand you as a person and really see if we connect. Then we can schedule a session.

I am a fit and very strong male who wants someone to commit to a life of adventure with me.

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  United Kingdom

Ambitious. Successful

Happy to chat with anyone about anything.

Down to earth.

Love anything unusual strange weird. Love to be pushed on new things. Would pretty much try anything. No scat!

What is your ultimate fantasy? Can I bring it to life for you?

Massive underwear lingerie and anal fetish kink.

Would ideally love a submissive. I miss having a little too. Bratty princess would be perfect.

Dominant experience. Bdsm / d/s / ddlg

Protector. Patient.

Message me. Ready to go!

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  Sweden

18 and up for life long role play. Dont worry. I will shop your clothes and lipstick..and stockings... and I will love you unconditionally..IF you apply to my simple rules of life: Be vintage in all and everything. ...and you have to want that, not just do it. Preferably not pink hair and a lot of tattoos but that is discussable. No obese girls please. ..oh..and you have to move to Sweden. Rural..but close-ish to the city.

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  London, England

Please see my profile

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  Canada

Pretty simple really, I have been fascinated by spanking since I was a child and it forms the core of my sexuality. I grew up to be dominant and have been exploring spanking, discipline and D/s ever since.

I love everything about spanking and power exchange and am seeking an attractive intelligent woman who also knows this is something she can't live without.
Me:
I am 6'2, 200 lbs attractive with short dark brown hair, light beard and an medium athletic physique. White collar professional, intelligent, introspective and full of curiosity about the world, history, the future and technology. I am athletic and have played competitive and recreational sports all my life and still keep active and in shape.

You: 20-35 cute/pretty thin by to curvier as long as weight proportionate and active and healthy. Very submissive behind closed doors with the right man but perhaps show up very different perhaps show up very different in the vanilla world.

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  Los Angeles, California

Hi there, I am, a handsome, 25yo, dominant, 6’2”, muscular, 6 figure salary, good with knots, 6in cut cock and is STD clean male, looking to find my submissive luxury sex toy. I love athletic chicks, big tits and ass, duh. If after our first playdate we seem like a good match I will make you mine and change your life. I will prescribe you a regiment to make you my perfect trophy sex slave. Exercise, diet, skill training, etc. I want to push your limits and in exchange you will get a loving dominant bf. I’m BDSM experienced and practice common safety.

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26 y/o      Canton, Ohio

Let's get to know each other and build on the reciprocity that BDSM brings us. Looking for a traditional long-term relationship mixed in with obviously me acting as master taming you behind closed doors. I value trust, integrity, and politeness the most. Please don't hesitate to message me!

Huge plus if you're a somewhat fit or petite blonde...after all us blondes have to stick together!

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20 y/o      Florida

I'm into a lot of different things but the two biggest ones for me are being in control, and most kinds of pain play. I need someone I can have an emotional connection with and can communicate clearly.

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  England

I live in Kent UK and have been looking for a willing sub 25 to 40 years old to submit to my will . Would be happy to come to you for possible meets. I have a good feedback on AW but haven't found anyone who really suits my requirements

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  Willmar, Minnesota

I’m looking for a long term submissive and or slave.
I’m keeping it short and simple because we are going to talk about it when you message anyway.

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53 y/o      Cambridge, England

I live near Cambridge but find myself in Essex alot.

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  South Africa

I'm a bit new but I'm a quick learner don't really have any limits so let make your kinky fantasy cum true

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44 y/o      Texas

Recently divorced after 15 years and 4 children— attempting to rebuild my life in a more intentional way. I enjoy quiet nights in as much (maybe more) as going on an adventure. I’m equal parts hippie, redneck and nerd, looking for someone to cuddle and share my time with.

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51 y/o      Northampton, England

I'm here hoping to finally find a girl who will in time become a 24/7 resident in my home. Seeking TPE ideally. (lots more details in my profile). The perfect person will be younger than me and skinny to average build. (sorry not into obesity). Sound like you? Shoot me over a message and let's have a chat!

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  Ireland

Looking for a submissive, will start online and may go into real life, PM if interested

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  Willoughby, Ohio

Male Dom who is looking for a sub to train and teach , discipline when bad praise when good. Must be near me online ( I don’t think is my thing) it is very important that you take your role and this lifestyle seriously and are 100% committed. If your new that’s fine , I am not in a rush I like to get to know my submissive and build trust on both sides

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  Aston, Pennsylvania

Looking for a submissive woman in PA around Philadelphia or maybe a sissy boy who needs a daddy in PA

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23 y/o      Los Angeles, California

I'm looking for a obedient sub/slave into being degraded and humiliated must also be willing to send pictures and videos in an online relationship at first.

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46 y/o      Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Philadelphia based executive with experience seeking sub or a slave. Prefer to have lady close to Philadelphia.

We can start chatting using snap or Kik to be safe and rest is based on chemistry and comfort. I am 45 years old, 5'11, 160 , black hair and eyes, relatively fit. well educated and a decent career. Looking for some one real.

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  Auckland, Auckland

This Dom is looking for his SWF Sub.And live the Bdsm lifestlye of their dreams...

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  Los Angeles, California

I am a muscular handsome male (You are welcome to find out) looking for a dirty slave who is submissive an innocent. I am not an old creepy man. I will get you addicted to me and you are going to be so obedient if I accept you.

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34 y/o      Los Angeles, California

you will be choking on your tears as MY Cock shoves them down your throat. you are a worthless piggybitch and MY Hot Sticky Gooey JIZZ oozing inside of you is the only thing that will EVER make you feel purpose. MY Long Hard COCK will ravage your pussy, ass, mouth in that order. I will Force you to gag as you deepthroat Me. Turning your ugly and undesirable body around, I Will penetrate you stabbing your pussy repeatedly. I will pull your hair and slap your face/tits/ass making your body MINE. you will know and say the only satisfaction you can EVER obtain is when I AM Fucking your worthless cunt. ONLY by MY CUM inside of you can you truly feel whole. I will Use you over and over as MY Personal CUM Bucket. I Am your GOD and MASTER. Worship ME, MY PRESCENCE, MY CUM, and MY HAPPINESS. you will live to please ME sexually with an obligation to do so without thought or reason. I AM your GOD and I Own every part of you. If you are turned on by this REPLY with "i beg you to use Me Master"

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