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Posts by LadySusweca(dom trans woman)

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Judgemental people

The transphobia that exists is incredible.

I have given up because of it and just come to read blogs and forums now.

Fri Jan 21, 2022 5:57 pm • 55 Replies • 21705 Views

Author

LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Judgemental people

A little disappointed

Actually the BDSM community had nothing to do with speaking up about who I am. It's people like Sylvia Rivera, Marsha P. Johnson, and Christine Jorgenson who were willing to speak up and take action. ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 2:43 am • 32 Replies • 14992 Views

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LadySusweca

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Transgender & Nonbinary

Topic

A little disappointed

Gender identity ideology

I remember the days of the Harry Benjamin Foundation. It still had a heavy hand on the transgender community when I came out (at least in the US). They let us know that they get to decide when we were ...

Sun Nov 28, 2021 5:03 am • 113 Replies • 32510 Views

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LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Gender identity ideology

Shahh, you are right, unless you have been there then what we have experienced won't be understood. There is also the emotions that go along with it and the nightmares you wish would end.

The laws ...

Sat Nov 27, 2021 6:34 am • 113 Replies • 32510 Views

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LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Gender identity ideology

As a transgender woman I'm not sure what to say about this discussion. Understanding where I have been and where I am going is probably not for people who don't understand the journey to decide. Even ...

Fri Nov 26, 2021 9:22 pm • 113 Replies • 32510 Views

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LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Gender identity ideology

Why not state your location?

Most probably want to play online and not really take the risks of real bdsm.

Pics may not be put up for a variety of reasons like family, their job, or other friends, not finding them here.

Wed Nov 17, 2021 11:41 pm • 17 Replies • 5419 Views

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LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Why not state your location?

Question for subs about experienced Doms

Like someone pointed out before it comes down to does a Dominant have the skills that make a submissive feel complete. If all the D knows is how to spank and that is all the s wants then what is probl ...

Mon Aug 24, 2020 7:51 am • 18 Replies • 7138 Views

Author

LadySusweca

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Maledom

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Question for subs about experienced Doms

Why Block conversation?

I would find that behavior very abusive. That is just my opinion. If a submissive consents to having no connection with anyone else but that one Dom/Domme they may really want to rethink their choice. ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 11:33 pm • 18 Replies • 7827 Views

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LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Why Block conversation?

Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

I'm with Mako. I refuse to leave despite some of the messages I recieve that treat me as a fetish instead of a person. I have gotten messages from good people also.

I will also probably be active w ...

Sat Aug 08, 2020 7:27 pm • 17 Replies • 5712 Views

Author

LadySusweca

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Generally Speaking

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Gay and Bisexual (or other non heteronormative variants)

I desperately need advice

This is going to upset people and that's ok.

First mistake made is drinking so much that you almost black out. Is it respectful to do that at a Dominant's home? It definitely is not allowed in my h ...

Wed Aug 05, 2020 6:55 am • 19 Replies • 6846 Views

Author

LadySusweca

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Maledom

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I desperately need advice