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Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

Thu May 18, 2023 4:40 pm • 34 Replies • 11091 Views

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chattel

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Generally Speaking

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

Is addressing HER as Mistress Really Respectful ?

The honorific preferred by the dominant is what matters

Thu May 18, 2023 4:02 pm • 27 Replies • 9887 Views

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chattel

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Femdom

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Is addressing HER as Mistress Really Respectful ?

Is it really that difficult…

In your case at least the attention is from someone that is only excluded atm in your profile. It often goes much further than that for some of us.

I am often approached by sadists despite stating ...

Thu May 18, 2023 4:00 pm • 25 Replies • 7847 Views

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chattel

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Is it really that difficult…

Contract Templates?

Clear expectations in written form help a lot in a dynamic.

My recommendation is to make it flexible enough to allow for negotiation in unforseen situations

Sat May 13, 2023 6:02 pm • 7 Replies • 5602 Views

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chattel

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Maledom

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Contract Templates?

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Somehow I would imagine the the two texts to the blockee would quite often being "Fuck" and "Off" if this were implented

Thu Apr 06, 2023 3:33 am • 34 Replies • 10757 Views

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chattel

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BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Turn offs in new conversations

Obvious cut and paste messages sent from the same person 47 minutes apart. Doesn't have to 47 minutes, that what I had today, just long enough apart that it isn't a double click

Tue Jan 24, 2023 8:32 pm • 113 Replies • 30878 Views

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chattel

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Turn offs in new conversations

Being able to articulate what someone is seeking in a dynamic with some specifics makes me want to continue a conversation. Somewhat surprisingly to me, this is incredibly rare

Sat Nov 26, 2022 6:18 pm • 113 Replies • 30878 Views

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chattel

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Turn offs in new conversations

Is it Ghosting when ....

I moved from Tampa to Chicago when COVID started and left it as Tampa on my profile for a long while as I had expected to go back. The three different countries is another matter entirely and certainl ...

Sat Oct 15, 2022 10:41 pm • 34 Replies • 10953 Views

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chattel

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Is it Ghosting when ....

The vague answers always suggested a lack of experience rather than scamming which I am sure happens more to men

quote="tallslenderguy"]An often annoying (and off-putting) reality of online social ...

Sat Oct 15, 2022 6:11 pm • 34 Replies • 10953 Views

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chattel

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Is it Ghosting when ....

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I would say answering an initial curt question that is clearly in my profile only to be asked another question that is also answered in my profile without an introduction on the others par ...

Thu Oct 13, 2022 6:44 pm • 34 Replies • 10953 Views

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chattel

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Is it Ghosting when ....