Let’s get the facts straight

The only thing I'd add is at least these "instadoms" knock themselves out of the running at first contact.

The real problem is those looking for a quick catch that have done their homework. They ha ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:18 am • 29 Replies • 3253 Views

Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

I disagree that it becomes more service as we age. Let's be creative! So we are not spring chickens, improvise!

My sex life exploded for me at the ripe young age of 65, and three years later, it i ...

Sun Sep 24, 2023 2:13 am • 33 Replies • 3609 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

I have compassion for everyone. I can almost always find the "up" side. My brain finds humor in any situation.

Sat Feb 05, 2022 4:54 pm • 37 Replies • 9971 Views

Sex and Playing

Is there love? I think that's the basic question. Sex and/or BDSM is just the icing.

My dearly departed husband and I were deeply in love. When he was no longer able to have sex (impotent) due to ...

Sun Oct 17, 2021 3:06 am • 12 Replies • 5264 Views

Language b/w a Dom and sub

Is it appropriate for anyone to tell some one to shut up or shut the F up and then say you deserve it? No, unless it's agreed upon play (which I don't believe this is). Why would it be different here?

Thu Sep 02, 2021 2:04 pm • 16 Replies • 6029 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I am a new sub with a very experienced Dom. Our first commitment was total honesty. This you don't need a book for, but you need to be willing to be vulnerable with each other. Are you looking for a l ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 1:28 am • 24 Replies • 9749 Views

Proper Etiquette

I read on that post that Rivermxl mentioned that if a sub is interested in a Dom, you "like" their profile. They check you out and would message you if they are interested (of course, do the Doms know ...

Thu Apr 29, 2021 7:36 am • 10 Replies • 3643 Views

submissive mindset

I can take a deep breathe and just settle into that state of calm (I get into a very deep staye of calmness when I am feeling submissive). I have meditated for years so I am used to shifting mental st ...

Tue Mar 23, 2021 10:59 am • 24 Replies • 9182 Views

Spanking... your experience giving or receiving

He didn't hear my mantra, it just kinda quietly escaped from my lips. He will hear it next time.

My partner is more loving and caring than I could have imagined. I am looking forward to next time. ...

Fri Feb 19, 2021 11:25 am • 20 Replies • 7869 Views

Spanking... your experience giving or receiving

I have newly found my submissive self and am loving expressing openly what heretofore has only been a hidden undercurrent. My Master and I are deeply in love, so that adds an amazing dimension to the ...

Wed Feb 17, 2021 10:56 am • 20 Replies • 7869 Views