What New Features & Improvements Would You Like to See for 2026?

Under "Find Friends", please place the "New Search" button at the top.

Thu Dec 18, 2025 4:49 am • 29 Replies • 2665 Views

Earliest Memory Challenge

I have a clear memory of being in bed between my mother and father and being in a total state of bliss. The room was very bright. The wallpaper was white with little blue flowers. There was a window t ...

Sat May 03, 2025 9:57 am • 12 Replies • 5875 Views

Earliest Memory Challenge

I have a clear memory of being in bed between my mother and father and being in a total state of bliss. The room was very bright. The wallpaper was white with little blue flowers. There was a window t ...

Sat May 03, 2025 9:56 am • 12 Replies • 5875 Views

Let’s get the facts straight

The only thing I'd add is at least these "instadoms" knock themselves out of the running at first contact.

The real problem is those looking for a quick catch that have done their homework. They ha ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:18 am • 29 Replies • 6582 Views

Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

I disagree that it becomes more service as we age. Let's be creative! So we are not spring chickens, improvise!

My sex life exploded for me at the ripe young age of 65, and three years later, it i ...

Sun Sep 24, 2023 2:13 am • 33 Replies • 6741 Views

“I have a special set of skills”…

I have compassion for everyone. I can almost always find the "up" side. My brain finds humor in any situation.

Sat Feb 05, 2022 4:54 pm • 37 Replies • 14023 Views

Sex and Playing

Is there love? I think that's the basic question. Sex and/or BDSM is just the icing.

My dearly departed husband and I were deeply in love. When he was no longer able to have sex (impotent) due to ...

Sun Oct 17, 2021 3:06 am • 12 Replies • 7142 Views

Language b/w a Dom and sub

Is it appropriate for anyone to tell some one to shut up or shut the F up and then say you deserve it? No, unless it's agreed upon play (which I don't believe this is). Why would it be different here?

Thu Sep 02, 2021 2:04 pm • 16 Replies • 8237 Views

Im a new Dom, with an more experienced sub.

I am a new sub with a very experienced Dom. Our first commitment was total honesty. This you don't need a book for, but you need to be willing to be vulnerable with each other. Are you looking for a l ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 1:28 am • 24 Replies • 13816 Views

Proper Etiquette

I read on that post that Rivermxl mentioned that if a sub is interested in a Dom, you "like" their profile. They check you out and would message you if they are interested (of course, do the Doms know ...

Thu Apr 29, 2021 7:36 am • 10 Replies • 4878 Views