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Popcorn and Mojitos

It's a fucking bdsm/kink/fetish site, for fuck's sake. Literally ANYTHING posted is game for wanking. It does not matter what it is... good, bad, awesome, epic, sad, horrific, mundane, tragic, sexual, ...

Sat Aug 24, 2024 2:37 am • 17 Replies • 2913 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Popcorn and Mojitos

122

Circle BDSM reviews - Ft Worth TX

Is CircleBDSM a nationwide thing, or only specific to Texas, or specifically local to Fort Worth? As a non-Texas resident I am afraid I haven't heard of Circle BDSM so I can't really be of much help. ...

Sat Aug 24, 2024 2:29 am • 11 Replies • 4437 Views

Author

Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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Circle BDSM reviews - Ft Worth TX

123

What's your dynamic

My "Dream domme" relationship would mix romance with kink, and intimacy with total power exchange. It would, in many cases be like a vanilla romantic relationship. We would be best friends, share la ...

Fri Aug 23, 2024 2:57 am • 22 Replies • 4431 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What's your dynamic

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Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

I've tried the "Pay to Play" and (very long post made very short) it brought short-term thrills, but was ultimately unfulfilling in the long term.

So I would agree that for me (as well as for you ...

Thu Aug 22, 2024 4:07 am • 6 Replies • 1790 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Is it weird to want a relationship first before diving into dynamics?

125

Under Consideration

I'll draw a parallel to vanilla dating:

I would take it as, I see a person to whom I'm casually attracted. I want to get to know them and spend time with that person, to see if the chemistry is re ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:27 am • 7 Replies • 2346 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Under Consideration

126

genderfication

There are certain topics that are going to be divisive. There is a recent thread where a person is seeking not only a specific gender, but a specific ethnicity along with that gender. I am neither o ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:16 am • 70 Replies • 10911 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

127

Re: genderfication

Do you see genderfication here? Are you concerned about it? What do you think should be done?

Honestly, I have not noticed it. Maybe I just haven't been sensitive or aware enough to notice it ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 2:44 am • 70 Replies • 10911 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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genderfication

128

Your Turn Ladies

I don’t answer questions that perpetuate gentrification. It’s disrespectful to the philosophies that BDSM were built on. Old guard came from the leather community to combat these types of bigotry.
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Sun Aug 18, 2024 8:55 pm • 33 Replies • 5573 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Your Turn Ladies

129

meaningless tasks

If a dominant assigns a sub task like, say, "alphabetize the guitar strings," or "Sort the potato chips according to size" then it's either a way of saying "You're bothering me; go find something mea ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 2:30 am • 38 Replies • 5943 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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meaningless tasks

130

Perversion Discussion

Short answer is no.
More detailed answer: Perversion is when your sexual desires get so out of your control that they impact other people around them.

Or, any activities that, as explained, invol ...

Thu Jul 25, 2024 2:59 am • 4 Replies • 1094 Views

Author

Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Perversion Discussion