Does it make me a bad person for always fantasizing about this life style.

Well, I've been in his shoes, and so I can sympathise with what he's experiencing. First off, I think Miki had a really good response above (so thank you for that.) But second, as someone who is ne ...

Thu Nov 16, 2023 4:01 am • 5 Replies • 1796 Views

Subs: How do you feel...

It doesn't really bother me either way. I don't really pay too close attention to stuff like that.

Thu Nov 09, 2023 4:37 am • 11 Replies • 3155 Views

First Date Horror Stories

There are some strange dudes out there, but Snowminx/s Aura Scooby Doo wunder powers guy sounds like someone with mental illness. Nice guy, harmless, maybe not creepy, but clearly, just not all "there ...

Thu Nov 09, 2023 4:35 am • 50 Replies • 11423 Views

How do you feel?

I've never given a thought to whether someone is wearing a collar in a profile pic or not. So no, I guess it wouldn't bother me either way.

Wed Nov 08, 2023 3:52 am • 16 Replies • 3365 Views

What is it that you (subs) desire?

To feel safe & wanted & used & loved. I don’t think I need to describe these. Pretty self explanatory.
I can second that, though I suppose from a male's perspective, I put more emphasis ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 3:49 am • 40 Replies • 12888 Views

First Date Horror Stories

I was gonna say "You go first," but if not, well, I had a couple bad first dates, but the one I'll share: I'd answered her personal ad, and she sounded like she might be interesting, fun, and cool. ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 7:29 am • 50 Replies • 11423 Views

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

People often mistake my kindness and tolerance for weakness.
It may seem to others that I don’t have boundaries, because perhaps they’re not as obvious as many people’s, however, I do have them, and ...

Sun Nov 05, 2023 10:06 pm • 35 Replies • 7374 Views

Balance

For me, there would have to be some balance between work, hobbies, social life, and worshipping my dominant (in ways both kinky and non.)

There would have to be boundaries set, communication in pla ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 7:10 am • 5 Replies • 1673 Views

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

Online feels too impersonal to me. I would have a hard time connecting with someone without face to face interaction, especially if that person were to order me into a "Compromised position" so to sp ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 6:29 am • 13 Replies • 4084 Views

"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

Speaking partly from experience here: A lot of new submissives, particularly men, may suddenly be overcome with newly-discovered thrills of submitting, or wanting to submit. But they know nothing ab ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 3:06 am • 22 Replies • 4635 Views