Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I agree with you up to a point, there is nothing wrong with being ashamed of who, or what,you are.

My fear, rather, stems from how a prospective date will react to me if she finds out that "You me ...

Sat Dec 17, 2022 7:44 am • 24 Replies • 4208 Views

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

That is extremely sad that the maledom/female sub side didn't welcome you. That is a travesty.

I don't think it was a travesty, but it was rather a simple matter of scene demographics. Much like i ...

Tue Dec 13, 2022 4:16 am • 24 Replies • 4208 Views

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I live in one of those states mentioned in the anonymous post. And while I am not actually in a D/S relationship, if it ever got out that I was seeking one, or that I was into any kind of kink whats ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 4:23 am • 24 Replies • 4208 Views

You there!

LOL

Very funny. I hope you meant this as satire.
I think people are taking this thread way too seriously.

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:08 am • 16 Replies • 1816 Views

Re: You there!

Get on your knees. You have 5 seconds and four of them are past x

Awaiting Orders!

Yessh milord...
Right-oh!
Okay.

For the Alliance!
Defending Your Honor.

Sat Nov 26, 2022 10:47 pm • 16 Replies • 1816 Views

Drawing the line for Taboos

I would draw the line on anything that would get me in legal trouble, and/or harm my reputation and standing.

However, I understand that in some areas, the laws against certain kinds of sex betwe ...

Wed Nov 23, 2022 3:59 am • 20 Replies • 4292 Views

Love Hate Crave

Spanking. I wish I had more pain tolerance though; that "big thwacker" She had really HURT!
There was one time, thankfully only one, where I had to use the safe word with Her, and I think that was ...

Tue Nov 22, 2022 5:30 am • 1 Replies • 789 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

And I would add that I would under NO circumstances should anyone share anything that has to do with minors. This should go without saying.

That is illegal almost EVERYWHERE, and well that it shou ...

Wed Nov 16, 2022 3:35 am • 34 Replies • 11131 Views

Favorite Place to Live

I love Idaho for the scenery, the outdoor activities, the recreation, and the nightlife. Snowboarding is only a 40 minute drive away. Mountain biking; from where I live ,you can ride from your house ...

Tue Nov 15, 2022 4:15 am • 10 Replies • 1192 Views

What it's like for Dommes

As a sub, I hear this a lot, and it is partly for this reason that I no longer contact potential dommes online at all, lest I be lumped in with this kind of thing. I know that when I was a noobie, ma ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 4:31 am • 54 Replies • 12511 Views