I think what you said above, that "The act of surrender just brings an attachment of some kind to the one who teaches and plays with them" really fits with a lot of people. When someone brings you to ...

Late to this thread, but I'll try to respond:

I have engaged in kink/Ds play with paid "pros" because, like others have said, that is all that is available to satisfy my unique and non-mainstream ...

There was one instance where, I was dating a woman casually, and it was as vanilla as you could get; there wasn't even any sex - kinky or otherwise- or at least, I was hopeful for at least some vanill ...

There has to be the right amount of impact for me. I don't have the same pain tolerance as a lot of pain sluts who can endure floggings harsh enough to draw blood and leave deep bruising. But a few ...

That's basically, where I was coming from.
I've met women who I've been attracted to on both a physical and emotional level who I simply had no intentions of ever bringing up kink with. Some of th ...

Thanks Villanelle. I think there have been some recent questions about blog posts and what is and is not appropriate as far as site rules, that need clarification. One person had a question in anoth ...

I think, it can be possible to be so caught up in your fantasies that you forget how to interact with people on a meaningful or respectful level. Which, while not "Dangerous" can nonetheless be detri ...

I think some more clarification of rules might be in order. While I'm not complaining, I have had blog posts flagged for speaking out AGAINST hate and intolerance, rather than promoting it- which I d ...

Most of my fantasies are femdom-related kinks and fetishes. No snuff or anything like that, but a lot of degradation involved, which might rub people wrong.

I have used writing and story-telling as an outlet for some of my D/s fantasies for many years. Both on this site and on another erotic literature site. It is a catharctic feeling to lay out scenari ...