Favorite Toys

I love being led around by a cock leash. Having Her control me, having me by the balls- literally.

Thu Aug 19, 2021 3:27 am • 17 Replies • 4267 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Assertiveness without being unreasonable.

Confidence

Independence

Compassion, And intelligence.

Thu Jun 17, 2021 5:01 am • 119 Replies • 28728 Views

Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

Here are a few: My number one is hard drug use- this is a deal breaker for me. I'm not really a particular fan of tobacco smokers, but it's typically not a deal breaker for me; neither is, uh, smok ...

Thu Jun 17, 2021 4:09 am • 47 Replies • 10503 Views

Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

I tend to frown on extremism- of any stripe, on either side of the spectrum, and sadly it seems like there is more and more of it these days on social media and other forums. I haven't seen it on thi ...

Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:52 am • 31 Replies • 5709 Views

Re: I'm very new and have a question.

Hello all, thank you for taking time to read this.
I joined this to honestly, find friends and talk to new people who share the same sort of mindset... I was wondering if honestly, if that's alright ...

Fri Jun 04, 2021 6:49 am • 19 Replies • 5788 Views

Judgemental people

Well one good point- yes you should use your good sense and judge according to things that either set off alarm bells or are turn-offs for you, but try at least to be respectable about it on the forum ...

Fri Jun 04, 2021 4:07 am • 55 Replies • 13458 Views

Re: Ever worried you’ll end up alone?

Do you ever worry that you’ll end up alone because your dom/sub side of you needs that other type of person to fulfill you? I’ve met so many “nice guys” but I don’t think they could ever slap me in be ...

Wed Jun 02, 2021 7:45 am • 79 Replies • 18673 Views

Judgemental people

As a submissive male into female domination, I have encountered many judgemental people, not so much on this forum (yet, so far...) but on other D/s, or BDSM/kink related forums, who look down on peop ...

Sun May 30, 2021 11:05 pm • 55 Replies • 13458 Views

Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xADSDapqn9o

Weird, creepy ballroom music....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYZk7eHYob0

....Which gets weirder and creepier the more you listen to it....

h ...

Sat May 29, 2021 3:35 am • 261 Replies • 38718 Views

Intentional cruelty or ignorance?

Nobody likes being ghosted. And when it's happened to me, I always wonder, "Well, what did I do wrong?" assuming that I did, in fact, make a mistake. The not knowing aspect of it is the hardest. I w ...

Fri May 28, 2021 4:23 am • 16 Replies • 4373 Views