What makes you ignore messages on here?

(I suspect these scammers are actually guys not females). .

I suspect you are correct.

As soon as someone demands (or even requests) money before I've met them face to face (or in some cases, ...

Thu Jan 06, 2022 3:45 am • 119 Replies • 28103 Views

Golden showers

Any sub men looking for a shower ?

Nah, I just took one this morning. Washed my hair, and then shaved afterwards. (ha ha.)

Basically yes, (seriously speaking) a lot of sub men are into Golden s ...

Wed Dec 15, 2021 4:33 am • 53 Replies • 20649 Views

ready for real time?

"Scamdemic" huh? I immediately tune out whenever I see someone use that term...and let me just stop there.

I've been ready for real time for a LONG time. I have been gingerly going out to small e ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 4:56 am • 15 Replies • 4671 Views

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

Male submission is probably not her kink. I get that; it's probably not a lot of people's kink. There are some dynamics of BDSM which are totally valid for others, but which don't really do much for ...

Wed Dec 08, 2021 7:39 am • 27 Replies • 12978 Views

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

Fyglia, Please explain WHY it's not useful advice, then.

Your drive-by snarky posts and general hostility towards male submissives has already become pretty evident. But unless you have something ...

Wed Dec 08, 2021 3:46 am • 27 Replies • 12978 Views

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

^Best post of the day right here. Really great, helpful advice that should be pinned as recommended reading for new male subs.

Wed Dec 01, 2021 3:39 am • 27 Replies • 12978 Views

Question for Female Dommes and chime in anyone please

I have read a few comments recently from female dominants in other threads about "Cringeworthy" male subs. While I didn't understand or agree with those sentiments, I would imagine that in this case, ...

Wed Dec 01, 2021 3:32 am • 30 Replies • 11139 Views

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

This is really a question specifically for Ms. Fyglia Wicked: With all due respect, you have mentioned "Cringe" a couple different times in more than one thread regarding men identifying as submissiv ...

Tue Nov 30, 2021 4:13 am • 23 Replies • 8464 Views

Any Male Subs?

I hope that nothing in my post contributed to the cringe factor? If so, then I apologize. I was only trying to say that there is more to a person than just how they identify themselves on the BDSM s ...

Thu Nov 25, 2021 10:46 pm • 53 Replies • 17114 Views

Any Male Subs?

I am a guitar player, artist, professional tech worker, volunteer, mountain biker, snowboarder, and lover of nature. And also a male submissive, who enjoys the sexual side of things that male submiss ...

Wed Nov 24, 2021 4:05 am • 53 Replies • 17114 Views