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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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281

Hookups

I have, with a couple professional female dommes, and while it was fun and satisfying "in the moment," it didn't really satisfy the longing I had for lasting companionship and love.

Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:30 am • 60 Replies • 16938 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Hookups

282

New sub

I think, like many people new to BDSM, the feelings you get at first are really powerful and the fantasies that build up can be overwhelming.

What I would do, is, since you are in a vanilla relatio ...

Wed Jun 07, 2023 7:24 am • 24 Replies • 7246 Views

Author

Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

283

Making the first move

As far as in person meetings, let's just say you see a woman at a bar, in pubic, at a party or social gathering, or somewhere in real life and want to get to start up a conversation. One thing I thin ...

Sun May 28, 2023 9:55 pm • 26 Replies • 8114 Views

Author

Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

284

Making the first move

I tend to experience a lot of mixed messages on this in real life. On one hand, we get told, a guy is expected to make the first move, because women expect, and admire ,men who take the initiative, a ...

Wed May 24, 2023 3:05 am • 26 Replies • 8114 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

285

Making the first move

A good question. I can answer personally, with me, if I am interested in someone, I almost never make the first move. I might look over and smile at them, subtly try to let them know I am intereste ...

Tue May 23, 2023 6:51 am • 26 Replies • 8114 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

286

Sexual awakening

I guess I have always been attracted to strong, assertive women, being that I was shy and somewhat socially awkward around girls as a kid. Strong, athletic girls were always my thing for some reason ...

Tue May 23, 2023 3:44 am • 4 Replies • 1606 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Sexual awakening

287

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

Being in a "Power Exchange Lifestyle" is a huge commitment- and for many people, with hobbies, jobs, friends, and outside interests, it may be more of a commitment than they are willing to commit to- ...

Mon May 15, 2023 1:41 am • 7 Replies • 2980 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

288

Need help with my blog

If I remember right, I think you have to upgrade to a paid membership before they will allow you to post pictures in a blog, but I could be wrong.

Thu May 11, 2023 6:25 am • 9 Replies • 2521 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Need help with my blog

289

SPH

Another idea for this thread: Having the "Tiny bits" either tattooed or (if that is too permanant) written with a semi-permanant marker "Property of Ms. (Her name) and '3"' (regardless of actual leng ...

Sat Apr 15, 2023 2:51 am • 19 Replies • 6471 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

SPH

290

Gay for a man to love being pegged?

I think, on a deeper level, being "Gay", "Bi" or "Straight" relates ONLY to which gender you are sexually attracted. And whichever gender that is, it shouldn't matter to anyone else.

There exists ...

Fri Apr 14, 2023 2:49 am • 15 Replies • 5387 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Gay for a man to love being pegged?