everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

RIP boiled water, you will be mist.

Thu Jun 04, 2020 3:01 am • 477 Replies • 121912 Views

The respectful way to "approach" a potential Dom?

I've been on the site for a while now so here's the advice I have to give, and some do's and don'ts.

Do:
Keep it simple and straightforward: Who are you, where are you, what are you looking for, a ...

Thu Jun 04, 2020 2:59 am • 30 Replies • 10878 Views

Mind Play

I've done it in the past and have been intrigued by it. I think the term mind play is a bit too vague, though. BDSM always has a physical and mental aspect, and some people want to focus more on the m ...

Fri Jul 06, 2018 5:43 pm • 55 Replies • 25179 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

How am I just now finding this?

Anyway, I'm Adam, I've been on The Cage for a little while now and been in the lifestyle on and off for about 4 years. I'm living in the DC area and my main focus is ...

Mon Jun 04, 2018 7:42 pm • 3042 Replies • 880542 Views

Alternative Punishments

Impact play is fun, sure. But it's even more fun to have a conversation with your submissive and explore some ideas on what might be alternative forms of punishment. As in any relationship communicati ...

Wed May 30, 2018 7:36 pm • 22 Replies • 58419 Views