Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

I don’t know about soft floggers unless you mean the one that makes me think “Is this supposed to be doing something?” I guess a soft flogger could actually be a way for my sadist to torture me by not ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 8:38 pm • 20 Replies • 2802 Views

Another Dirty Predictive Text Game - Come Play!

when I'm naked I usually takes you out to get you in the mood and my ultimate fantasy for you to do something that you want for a long time.

hmmm aside from the bad grammar and plurals, not a bad o ...

Wed Mar 30, 2022 9:57 pm • 110 Replies • 8535 Views

Non sexual daily tasks

Wow, i guess I misread the intent of the question. I think LongerJohnny ( Dom male) 's list was more toward how I interpeted it as opposed to a personal dynamic, but I see no matter how you choose to ...

Mon Mar 28, 2022 4:32 am • 16 Replies • 13332 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

Seriously,thank you to everyone who responded. I was in an already established relationship and BDSM was incredibly intriguing and exhilarating, but then as I continued to educate myself and navigate ...

Sat Mar 26, 2022 12:46 am • 58 Replies • 11916 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

I am going to disagree with some of my esteemed brethren marginally. Although I concur that there are elements of the lifestyle that are inherently dangerous to life, limb and psyche (rope, fireplay, ...

Wed Mar 16, 2022 9:40 pm • 58 Replies • 11916 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

Not a Dom/Domme, but been with enough of them good and bad, real and wanna be. One way to know whether its all talk or they have actual experience is to educate yourself first before they attempt to b ...

Wed Mar 16, 2022 8:13 pm • 58 Replies • 11916 Views

Punishment- What are the ABCs and 123s?

Seems to me that there really shouldn't be any issue with any form of dynamic if it is truly discussed before hand and if the parties involved know each other mentally as well as physically. If a part ...

Fri Mar 04, 2022 12:35 am • 14 Replies • 3739 Views

Love or Hate - 50 Shades

All I have ever heard is that's it was a shit movie and a poorly written book, and that is almost enough of a reason for me to put it on my list of all-time worst must-see movies .
The books were wri ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 4:14 am • 23 Replies • 4590 Views

Things you wish you had known....

hmmmm I guess if I could go back and say anything to my younger self, it would go like this:

He's wrong
He's lying, (either from ignorance or selfishness) no matter, not true
No you don't have to ...

Sat Jan 15, 2022 12:36 am • 40 Replies • 11851 Views

Meeting for the first time

Hi Scarlett, I'm very happy to know you are opening doors to finding your true self and welcome to this site. There are many here experienced and new and happy to help you navigate. As stated before, ...

Thu Jan 13, 2022 9:07 pm • 12 Replies • 3627 Views