Re: Starting a conversation

help me feel safe

There's no such thing as a safe question. Questions are invasive by nature. Stop asking for permission to be a coward. You're already anonymous online. You're already afraid to a ...

Fri Sep 16, 2022 6:55 pm • 20 Replies • 4547 Views

Re: Punishment Ideas?

Is there anything else you guys can suggest? I don't want anything too painful, I do have limits. But I'm open to hearing ideas you guys have!


Off the top of my head

Kneeling on uncooked ...

Sat Jul 30, 2022 3:21 am • 59 Replies • 13734 Views

Contraception

Somewhere on the fucking box it probably says "Individual Results May Vary"

Ultimately I would say it depends on the sensations one has going in, but the regular condoms... yeah, you can't feel sh ...

Thu Jun 09, 2022 8:24 am • 26 Replies • 4720 Views

Dom loosing control

I have ended all contact with him on the night this occured. Blocked his number, email, and blocked him on all social media sites, including kink sites. Vetting is out the window as far as I'm conce ...

Tue Jun 07, 2022 1:49 am • 33 Replies • 5832 Views

How do you connect?

I rarely make connections because I just don’t trust people but sometimes you just need advice sometime you need people. Yes I have people I turn to for many things but no one in this lifestyle so whe ...

Wed May 11, 2022 10:20 am • 16 Replies • 3438 Views

another alternative to sir thread

I'd say "Hello, Asshole!"

In my head canon, everyone says that right before giving a rimjob.

As for the OP, use power thesaurus.

Wed May 11, 2022 10:12 am • 27 Replies • 4577 Views

Gone… with the wind

but Stan's the Man!

Never understood the Kubrick fascination. 70's shock value is really quite tame by modern standards and if I were locked in a hotel for several months with Shelley Duvall in her ...

Wed May 11, 2022 9:02 am • 54 Replies • 4897 Views

Bonded and alone

Women tend to be attracted to strength. And toxic strength can be exceptionally alluring to women because it permeates everything. Considering what modern science says about how sex affects brain chem ...

Tue May 10, 2022 3:56 am • 16 Replies • 3504 Views

Negotiation 101

The favorite hobbies thing under the dom and sub thing is unnecessary. IMO, that kind of thing is best left to personal conversations. Perhaps a mood setting section: what music is being played during ...

Thu Apr 21, 2022 5:08 pm • 14 Replies • 2331 Views

Negotiation 101

Here is a scene negotiation checklist:

https://occs.cs.oberlin.edu/~dockhorn/jay.pdf
Under pain, I would change the answers to: No 1 2 3 4 5 (1 being low impact, 5 being hit me with your best shot ...

Thu Apr 21, 2022 4:32 pm • 14 Replies • 2331 Views