if your the slave, then shouldn't your owner being looking? i'd be happy to discuss with your owner if they are interested. I'm old school and don't "instruct" someone elses "slave" ..unless asked by ...

looking at the ops question from a Femdom perspective, then YES. There are many many male submissives that are looking for a service orientated arrangement/relationship. These are nearly alway non sex ...

To answer this you first need to quantify "what is BDSM" and then "what is Maledom" neither can be until they can quantify "what is vanilla" the argument is as old as time.

LOL ok. Meh ! Whatever floats your boat. To each their own!

I've done a lot of "punishments" to fit the "crime" because i'm over trying to get the sub to fix what they doing wrong (according to me)

These on the outside might appear "meaningless" but they do ...

I went to a Collaring ceremony once (it was maybe 15 years ago) where the submissive female was to shave her head as a sign of ownership. She had waist length hair that every one always commented on, ...

I think as my life has changed, grown and evolved, my interests have too. I used to love my rope but as time moved on, time frames became more of an issue (I raised three now adult children along side ...

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I've always been VERY into the BDSM lifestyle. I've taken group classes, courses... Done lots of research and explored alot of my preferences.
However - my partner; hasn't.

They are a Do ...

neither for against it ...I never got/did/do the whole "under consideration" thing.

we pretended I was a sex worker and he would send me some money via one of the apps.

Just legally (not judgmentally a little role play never hurt anyone) I would be careful on how you word this on ...