Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Even from a Dominant's point of view, this was a sea of red flags, so many it's hard to even begin.

ANYBODY that says he doesn't need to communicate in advance should be avoided like the plague. I ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 10:40 pm • 34 Replies • 6101 Views

Tear your own heart out?

Speaking from the Dominant side of view and from someone that is NOT looking to be married and enjoying being single and having options, it seems like you did the right thing.

First off, I tell new ...

Sat Oct 15, 2022 1:36 am • 13 Replies • 2501 Views

Do You Feel Pressured To Show More Of Your Body Online?

Ironically i at 29 years old have found doing topless and teasing pics mundane. For years I advertised my services online and only teased with softcore pics. I used to show my boobs inbeetween depress ...

Thu Sep 29, 2022 5:55 am • 40 Replies • 6569 Views

Do You Feel Pressured To Show More Of Your Body Online?

Quite the opposite. I feel pressured by the reality of catfishing, phishing and identity theft to show much less. I suppose its easier for me since I've never derived pleasure from exhibition.

Whe ...

Tue Sep 27, 2022 7:25 pm • 40 Replies • 6569 Views

Forum Fightclub

>>> Personally, I am of a belief that written responses are useless because they don't properly convey the subtle nuances of tone that we would use when speaking aloud to understand one anoth ...

Mon Sep 26, 2022 6:32 pm • 134 Replies • 14385 Views

Forum Fightclub

Yeah, honestly it's an internet thing I think. I have watched chat groups on Space issues, Model building Model railroading etc... It's just basic human nature when you can say whatever you want with ...

Mon Sep 26, 2022 6:27 pm • 134 Replies • 14385 Views

Just starting out

I realize your married, but I like to have a sub fill out a printable D/s checklist. It also list such things as how interested you are or are NOT. It's a great conversation starter. Pick a subject an ...

Wed Sep 21, 2022 6:03 pm • 8 Replies • 2048 Views

Struggling

Even the crappy relationships teach you something. It sucks, it always does, but you will get over it like 99% of us do. One of my fav statements applies here....

Time heals all wounds, give the ti ...

Sat Sep 10, 2022 11:51 pm • 24 Replies • 4586 Views

s types engaging a D type

>>> So let's be very clear here the honorifics that we have in BDSM "Sir" "Maam" "Master "----- whatever--- these are earned names. They are negotiated names.

If if you go up to somebody ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 4:51 am • 25 Replies • 3629 Views

Struggling

>>>> HAVING A MENTAL HEALTH ILLNESS DOES NOT MAKE A PERSON ANY LESS OF A DOMINANT, NOR SUB/SLAVE, IT JUST MAKES IT MORE OF A CHALLENGE FOR EVERYONE IN THE DYNAMIC. <<<


Wh ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 10:15 pm • 24 Replies • 4586 Views