chomp! Tell me everything you like about biting!

I'm amazed that breasts have escaped mention so far.

For me, seeking out a spot inside of her nipple, visible perhaps in her cleavage, feels sublime. Slowly increasing pressure on the tender mo ...

Tue Nov 25, 2025 3:26 pm • 12 Replies • 1313 Views

Open dynamics

"He Can't do boundaries??" RED FLAG, girl !!

Tue Oct 28, 2025 7:46 pm • 15 Replies • 2225 Views

a question for Doms

Well, HoP,

I met a strong tour group owner while on deployment in the Med who craved to submit and be controlled/used. Over the course of a long weekend in port, the lightbulb finally lit, and I ...

Sat Oct 11, 2025 2:52 am • 28 Replies • 12165 Views

BDSM Movie recommendations?

The first two-thinrds of 9 1/2 Weeks are on target and HOT! Then it goes downhill.....

Mon Sep 15, 2025 9:59 pm • 10 Replies • 6472 Views

Getting started

I'm late to this discussion, but I might offer this to you as the hesitant Dom...
She WANTS you to take control.
You need to believe that, after frankly talking together.
Once you begin to believe ...

Tue Jul 29, 2025 2:29 am • 14 Replies • 4716 Views

What is “the norm”?

Bunnie,
I don't think anyone here has yet tied "normal " to age... What was normal for me in my teens and 20s (multiples daily, mostly self pleasuring) is far different to what is "normal" in the ...

Tue Nov 19, 2024 4:04 am • 30 Replies • 5533 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

Bingo, Snow!
Crafting introductory messages is a challenge. For me, copy/paste seems to disrespect the potential partner by not giving my best effort.

I do understand Cage Owner's point about ...

Sat Dec 30, 2023 3:05 pm • 63 Replies • 12588 Views

Hookups

So a true story, happened two years ago to me...

I messaged a new sub, in an executive position, middle aged --my fave kind of smart capable woman. BUT she hadn't been in the cage long at all, and ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 10:01 pm • 60 Replies • 15862 Views

What do you think of people that do not read profiles?

I tried to answer your blog post on this subject and discover you had me blocked ... Surprise, since I'm not sure I ever sent you a hello? If I did say anything off color at all to you, apologies! ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 9:38 pm • 63 Replies • 13017 Views

Heart Profile

I/f when I get a "love" on my profile, I always (well, most always) send a not of appreciation to the liker/lover. Some good friendships and a few fine D/s relationships have resulted from my expres ...

Thu May 04, 2023 2:53 am • 23 Replies • 6034 Views