What is “the norm”?

Bunnie,
I don't think anyone here has yet tied "normal " to age... What was normal for me in my teens and 20s (multiples daily, mostly self pleasuring) is far different to what is "normal" in the ...

Tue Nov 19, 2024 4:04 am • 30 Replies • 2005 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

Bingo, Snow!
Crafting introductory messages is a challenge. For me, copy/paste seems to disrespect the potential partner by not giving my best effort.

I do understand Cage Owner's point about ...

Sat Dec 30, 2023 3:05 pm • 63 Replies • 6606 Views

Hookups

So a true story, happened two years ago to me...

I messaged a new sub, in an executive position, middle aged --my fave kind of smart capable woman. BUT she hadn't been in the cage long at all, and ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 10:01 pm • 60 Replies • 9323 Views

What do you think of people that do not read profiles?

I tried to answer your blog post on this subject and discover you had me blocked ... Surprise, since I'm not sure I ever sent you a hello? If I did say anything off color at all to you, apologies! ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 9:38 pm • 63 Replies • 8461 Views

Heart Profile

I/f when I get a "love" on my profile, I always (well, most always) send a not of appreciation to the liker/lover. Some good friendships and a few fine D/s relationships have resulted from my expres ...

Thu May 04, 2023 2:53 am • 23 Replies • 3808 Views

Possible New Master

Surprised nobody has given you this simply worded solution to this new a-hole "Master" you are being played by -- hit your block button. Period.

Tue May 02, 2023 3:38 am • 20 Replies • 3324 Views

I think my strange fwb is into all this

To my thinking, the several posters who point out that there are other Doms (or even vanilla lovers) out there who are not into this guy's loonie tunes.

Go find a good man who can also float your b ...

Sat Mar 11, 2023 1:16 am • 12 Replies • 2873 Views

Potential site improvements?

Great thread! Hope it is being carefully digested !

My request is for a "save draft" feature. SO annoying to be creatively writing, then get notice of a BOND or a message -- Do you ignore the ...

Sat Mar 11, 2023 12:53 am • 29 Replies • 4713 Views

CNC fun ~

We lived in Greater Boston, and rode the MTA to work. My gf Sharon had once told me that the idea of being felt up on the crowded subway by a large stranger was an arousing near daily fantasy for ...

Thu Dec 22, 2022 3:53 am • 9 Replies • 2869 Views

Long distance punishment ideas

A key for me is to impose punishments with a result I can see (a selfie if online). What do I mean?

I might require her to sprinkle a couple dozen kernels of rice on the kitchen floor and then kne ...

Thu Dec 15, 2022 9:32 pm • 18 Replies • 18673 Views