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Punishments

I'd like to come at this in a little different way. It is true enough that punishment is nearly always seen and expected as a one way street. Probably also true that it gets talked about here way ...

Thu Feb 26, 2026 5:31 am • 16 Replies • 1243 Views

Author

CapnRick

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Punishments

chomp! Tell me everything you like about biting!

I'm amazed that breasts have escaped mention so far.

For me, seeking out a spot inside of her nipple, visible perhaps in her cleavage, feels sublime. Slowly increasing pressure on the tender mo ...

Tue Nov 25, 2025 3:26 pm • 12 Replies • 1639 Views

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CapnRick

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

chomp! Tell me everything you like about biting!

Open dynamics

"He Can't do boundaries??" RED FLAG, girl !!

Tue Oct 28, 2025 7:46 pm • 15 Replies • 2667 Views

Author

CapnRick

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Open dynamics

a question for Doms

Well, HoP,

I met a strong tour group owner while on deployment in the Med who craved to submit and be controlled/used. Over the course of a long weekend in port, the lightbulb finally lit, and I ...

Sat Oct 11, 2025 2:52 am • 28 Replies • 12776 Views

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CapnRick

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Maledom

Topic

a question for Doms

BDSM Movie recommendations?

The first two-thinrds of 9 1/2 Weeks are on target and HOT! Then it goes downhill.....

Mon Sep 15, 2025 9:59 pm • 10 Replies • 6780 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

BDSM Movie recommendations?

Getting started

I'm late to this discussion, but I might offer this to you as the hesitant Dom...
She WANTS you to take control.
You need to believe that, after frankly talking together.
Once you begin to believe ...

Tue Jul 29, 2025 2:29 am • 14 Replies • 5032 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started

What is “the norm”?

Bunnie,
I don't think anyone here has yet tied "normal " to age... What was normal for me in my teens and 20s (multiples daily, mostly self pleasuring) is far different to what is "normal" in the ...

Tue Nov 19, 2024 4:04 am • 30 Replies • 6050 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What is “the norm”?

Do You Copy & Paste?

Bingo, Snow!
Crafting introductory messages is a challenge. For me, copy/paste seems to disrespect the potential partner by not giving my best effort.

I do understand Cage Owner's point about ...

Sat Dec 30, 2023 3:05 pm • 63 Replies • 13419 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Do You Copy & Paste?

Hookups

So a true story, happened two years ago to me...

I messaged a new sub, in an executive position, middle aged --my fave kind of smart capable woman. BUT she hadn't been in the cage long at all, and ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 10:01 pm • 60 Replies • 16839 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Hookups

What do you think of people that do not read profiles?

I tried to answer your blog post on this subject and discover you had me blocked ... Surprise, since I'm not sure I ever sent you a hello? If I did say anything off color at all to you, apologies! ...

Sat Jun 17, 2023 9:38 pm • 63 Replies • 13719 Views

Author

CapnRick

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What do you think of people that do not read profiles?