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When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

OK ok ok ok....

Here is something I forgot to mention and is going to blow your mind:

subbies can be protectors (mentors) of other subbies as well and Domly Dom/mes.

You haven't seen shit t ...

Thu Jul 04, 2024 5:06 am • 16 Replies • 4206 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

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When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

Well, back in my heyday, Protectors were called Mentors. But, knuckle dragging fucks messed that up, so they came up with the new term.

TBH, You can get yourself a Protector whenever you god dam ...

Thu Jul 04, 2024 12:36 am • 16 Replies • 4206 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

343

Self Release Experiment

Kind of, Houdini sort of thing? And I have missed something with the melting ice?

There are a few devices and various self bondage with rope that will utilize melting ice as a release trigger. The ...

Wed Jul 03, 2024 4:11 am • 5 Replies • 3462 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Self Release Experiment

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Self Release Experiment

So, in talking with someone here on The Cage about their interest in self bondage, I went into a deep dive on equipment for that. And, being the tinkerer I am, I started working on a design of a sel ...

Mon Jul 01, 2024 2:20 pm • 5 Replies • 3462 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Self Release Experiment

345

Not willing to compromise on

Well now that we have had a few answers, I'll add my own:

Being barefoot. While it not only fuels my main fetish, it supplies a great symbolism for submissiveness

Sun Jun 30, 2024 4:22 am • 14 Replies • 4199 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Not willing to compromise on

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Solo Pain Experiment?

You are not alone in wanting to experience self inflected pain. The main thing is to not get carried away and do too much at one time.

you also need to be ready to get out of ever you try rather ...

Thu Jun 27, 2024 10:10 pm • 9 Replies • 2219 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Solo Pain Experiment?

347

Not willing to compromise on

So being part of the lifestyle here, we all have our limits (or should. If you are one of those who say "no limits, that is a different discussion elsewhere).

But what I to know is what is somet ...

Wed Jun 26, 2024 11:12 pm • 14 Replies • 4199 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Not willing to compromise on

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Anybody else....

Or you "love" their profile, because it is well written and thought out only to come back and see they blocked you.

That is vastly amusing

Tue Jun 25, 2024 12:38 am • 8 Replies • 1433 Views

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TopekaDom

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Just for Fun

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Anybody else....

349

What do you think of subs owning other subs?

Ok, yes technically this makes the owner a Switch, but go with the flow on this one:

Relationships can take many a form within the lifestyle. But in working on my next set of stories for Silvia, ...

Fri Jun 21, 2024 10:31 pm • 14 Replies • 3971 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you think of subs owning other subs?

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Should I do it?

You can set the bond to refuse any unsolicited messages. It is very handy, as it also allows you to send voice clips. I do it when I am on my cell, as my fat ass fingers are too big for cell keyboa ...

Thu Jun 20, 2024 7:49 pm • 5 Replies • 1792 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Should I do it?