having a willing body isn't enough

I agree with this. I get offers for various activities (though most often on the internet) but I've never been one to go for a quantity over quality approach. The offers are cold, emotionless fights o ...

Sat Nov 20, 2021 9:41 pm • 9 Replies • 2909 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

I ignore people who speak to me like I'm an object rather than a person. If you can't approach me as a person I don't even want to know you.

Sat Nov 06, 2021 8:56 pm • 119 Replies • 24678 Views

How Important is Connection to you?

For me, its the most important. Without a connection I'm not playing. I can't trust without a connection, thats just how it is.

Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:33 am • 12 Replies • 2766 Views

The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

Personally, I'd say for both sides it's gotta be not listening.

It's one thing to communicate but both parties have to be participating in all sides of communication. That doesn't mean just speakin ...

Thu Nov 04, 2021 7:29 am • 42 Replies • 10686 Views

In the bedroom Vs Everyday life

I'm a lot like you. In the day-to-day I am the one in charge, I am many people's go-to person for far too many things and when things go wrong I'm the first person who gets called and the one who has ...

Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:35 pm • 15 Replies • 3816 Views

Would you give this all up?

I couldn't, It would be like lying to myself. If I truly connected to the person I would be able to tell them everything and this is a big part of my everything. There are things that I enjoy that onl ...

Fri Oct 22, 2021 5:54 pm • 34 Replies • 7449 Views

Are people afraid of coming out of closet about their BDSM fantasies and why ?

Personally, No. Despite my family being very religious they are also very accepting, as are my friends. I'm very lucky in that my friends/family have never been restrictive about openly discussing thi ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 8:48 pm • 12 Replies • 3209 Views

Why do people hide their limits?

I don't hide mine, I just don't list it here and for a couple of reasons. The first is that it takes up a lot of retail space on my page and I'm wordy to begin with. There are so few people who actual ...

Mon Oct 04, 2021 5:35 pm • 7 Replies • 1902 Views

Real subs or bait and switch??

People reply or don't based on a lot of factors (presence, availability, preference and on and on) just like people send messages based on the same. Just because somone is seemingly begging for attent ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 5:17 am • 16 Replies • 5482 Views

Questioned role

I get things like this from a lot of people too. I find that mostly they throw it out there when I won't just roll over and give them what they think I need without any concrete interactions. I also f ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 1:10 am • 13 Replies • 3972 Views