Alternative sites

This place ebbs and flows, probably pretty much like life. I have to be careful not to use it as a diversion from real life, or to entertain myself. I like good thought provoking discussion but I can ...

Sun May 12, 2024 11:52 am • 10 Replies • 273 Views

Punishment

Has anyone tried figging for punishment? Inserting shaved ginger root into the vagina or anus. Supposedly it causes warmth and also intense pain. I heard about this a long time ago but have never expe ...

Tue Apr 30, 2024 6:00 pm • 60 Replies • 6289 Views

Butt Plugs and Anal Play

I have 2 plugs. One is 4" long and the other is about 1.5 to 2"

I lube my Anus and the plug, then insert slowly.

Both plugs vibrate in a variety of ways. The small one is remote control. I tried ...

Tue Apr 30, 2024 2:22 am • 6 Replies • 481 Views

Hand In the Bush

"I do offer hand on demonstrations"

Do you mean "hand IN" demonstrations???

Fri Apr 26, 2024 3:27 pm • 22 Replies • 1041 Views

Thoughts on the new Seeking feature?

I'm not sure that it does much good because you can only view a limited amount of profiles before they disappear when more are added as "the newest" ones. You are then directed to the Find Friends sec ...

Thu Apr 25, 2024 7:48 pm • 17 Replies • 1048 Views

Vanilla dating

I'm looking at vanilla and kink potential men. My goal is mostly deep companionship so I'm not in dire need of kink. It would be nice, but this late in life, I have to be flexible.

Mon Apr 22, 2024 3:24 am • 20 Replies • 920 Views

Identity Crisis - Has anyone else experienced this?

What's nice about this lifestyle is that no one has to be a cookie cutter anything. The only thing that is a requirement is to be safe, sane, and concentual.

Some of us subs prefer gentle Dominants ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 3:12 am • 7 Replies • 492 Views

Bondage

I love bondage, but like yourself I've never asked the one doing it what they get out of it. Good question, and I would love to hear the answers too.

Sat Apr 20, 2024 7:59 pm • 5 Replies • 420 Views

What's In Your Bed?

I've been missing your nonsense questions. Hope all is well.

I usually just have dreams of a nice D/s relationship in my bed. All the stuffed animals are pushed to the side and my cat refuses to sl ...

Sat Apr 20, 2024 7:45 pm • 21 Replies • 475 Views

Training VS Mentoring

I like the variety of responses. Or variations on a theme.

Sat Apr 20, 2024 5:09 am • 9 Replies • 596 Views