Letting go of control

It does not matter if you are a man or a woman - you have to build TRUST in your partner before you blindly give up control to anyone! Having served in our military forces - first, you make acquainta ...

Tue Nov 28, 2023 10:22 pm • 9 Replies • 1737 Views

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

Nobody should fault you for setting your own rules!

Tue Nov 28, 2023 9:54 pm • 49 Replies • 8150 Views

Life!

Hmm, My Addiction?

As a lifelong Dom of advanced age, I look back to growing up in the 60s. The sixties brought us Hippies, Free Love, Some awesome Rock music, and of course Mariquana. It also ...

Sun Nov 19, 2023 9:53 pm • 228 Replies • 44787 Views

Monogamy

There remain some men who HONOR a commitment once the marriage is consummated! I am proud to say that during my marriage I NEVER dipped my wick into another woman! Yes, we had friends who we got nak ...

Sun Apr 02, 2023 6:53 pm • 63 Replies • 13202 Views

Calling him daddy

JUST DO IT!

Sun Apr 02, 2023 6:44 pm • 33 Replies • 7512 Views

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

Was in a BDSM marriage for the last 20 yrs, but it ended due to many reasons. We both got older and both had some physical issues. She began taking the blood thinner Coumadin, which made her bruisin ...

Fri Mar 24, 2023 10:44 pm • 17 Replies • 3886 Views

How best to reply (sub female)

Getting to know one another is in my opinion paramount before showing the Dom or Domme the respect they may or may not deserve. I never insist a stubbie or slave woman address me as such unless we fi ...

Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:31 pm • 33 Replies • 9837 Views

Munch club

Look, converse, meet people, and listen well. Enjoy the time out - but realize that many may put you under the microscope for several munches.
I actually prefer meetups at my home but limit them to ...

Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:26 pm • 22 Replies • 5538 Views

Advice on how to stay friends with a Dom after a breakup?

I am still and will remain friends with all three of my ex-wives. Although one of their husbands seems to be developing an issue.
Of course, If I am asked to stop conversing with either - I shall re ...

Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:21 pm • 10 Replies • 3229 Views

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

I have been MARRIED combined for over 44 years, but it was to 3 very different women one at a time! I began my journey as a Dom long ago when I discovered that my first real love enjoyed being han ...

Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:09 pm • 17 Replies • 3886 Views