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Fetish vs Kink

Dictionary definitions:

fetish: a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs.

Kinkines ...

Sun Aug 10, 2025 9:45 pm • 6 Replies • 3404 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Fetish vs Kink

Getting started

FYI:: For those posting here, I'm not sure what happened, but the person statring this conversation apparently has left.

TheWatson - When I clicked on his profile, it states the profile does not e ...

Thu Aug 07, 2025 8:28 pm • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Getting started

a question for Doms

Celiicchieftain: I have to respectfully disagree with your statement.

We are in the same age group and I have been a Femdom sub for years. The relationship with my Dom is both sexual & non- ...

Thu Aug 07, 2025 4:14 pm • 28 Replies • 13815 Views

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pioneer man

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Maledom

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a question for Doms

Frankly, you will most likely find as many different answers to your question as there are people.

I have been a Femdom sub for years. Throughout all the Erotic events my Dom & I have attended ...

Mon Aug 04, 2025 9:01 pm • 28 Replies • 13815 Views

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pioneer man

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Maledom

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a question for Doms

Just beginning to explore femdom with partner who is primarily dominant

mmyqt:

After reading the post by MissBonnie, she has said it very accurately. It's important to decide, with mutual consent, what your roles will be. Any dynamic can be extremely enjoyable if bot ...

Sun Jul 27, 2025 3:29 pm • 2 Replies • 1970 Views

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pioneer man

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Femdom

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Just beginning to explore femdom with partner who is primarily dominant

Getting started

Anonymity can be very important. We definitely understand as former public school employees.

Here is the information you requested:

domsubliving.com - We have been a member of this group for ...

Thu Jul 24, 2025 2:24 am • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started

Having doubts is normal for all of us. It can be very challenging tring to figure out roles.

A mentor in our vanilla life told us to always remember: "Nothing is One Size Fits All". That has kep ...

Wed Jul 23, 2025 10:05 pm • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started

The Watson:

Fantastic, sounds like you're off to a great start. Wishing you a lifetime of super fun and enjoyment with your lifestyle. We have been to several erotic events through the years and ...

Wed Jul 23, 2025 2:33 pm • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started

TheWatson - Since you're a married couple, you already know the most important things - communication and mutual consent. (BTW: We have been married 40 years longer than you have).

There are man ...

Tue Jul 22, 2025 10:36 pm • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started

To offer full disclosure, I have been a Femdom sub for years, so my experience is from that point of view. That being said, most of our research was done through Male Dom/female sub resources because ...

Tue Jul 22, 2025 2:22 pm • 14 Replies • 5464 Views

Author

pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting started