Is bdsm a high IQ game?

An IQ Game?? What's that mean? What's a persons IQ have to do with it?

My Dom & I have been going to erotic/BDSM events for years. We have met people from all walks of life - national TV ce ...

Mon May 05, 2025 2:15 pm • 16 Replies • 5565 Views

What's worst?

Always wondered why this even matters to people. Unless you had a real close or intimate relationship with them, just let it go.

It's happened to me once or maybe twice over the years. Sure, I'd ...

Wed Mar 26, 2025 8:46 pm • 21 Replies • 3864 Views

Submissive Male

Point #1 - Always remember, "Nothing is One Size Fits All". We experiment with different things, some work for us and some don't.

One thing she did years ago, was one day she said. " I think I wou ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 10:25 pm • 7 Replies • 2478 Views

Submissive Male

Sounds like you have a great thing going. It's only been 6 weeks, so you need to allow time to really get your dynamic worked out.

I have been a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for a few years (married t ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 9:19 pm • 7 Replies • 2478 Views

Being a "Dom"

I've known others in similar situations. There is no easy answer.

If you have put up with this for 4 years, quite frankly, as hard as it may be, it's time to move on. You say you love him, but if ...

Tue Mar 11, 2025 2:34 pm • 12 Replies • 2918 Views

On Being Submissive

Sounds like you have the right idea when you desire to serve. Remember one important rule of nature: "Nothing is One Size Fits All".

For years, I have been a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub. Because you ...

Sun Feb 23, 2025 4:13 pm • 4 Replies • 1835 Views

Looking Back

Sweetlydepraved: Absolutely you can have a vanilla and another lifestyle together. I'm proud to say I am living proof.

I have been a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for years. My Dom made sure that our ...

Thu Jan 23, 2025 5:25 pm • 14 Replies • 2222 Views

From Submissive to Switch?

Sounds like you're on your way to a fun experience. I'm not sure about the switch aspect, but as a female dominant, you can have an exciting time.

I have been a Femdom sub for years and it sounds ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 4:01 am • 6 Replies • 1379 Views

Looking Back

Our situation may be different from many peoples.

Honestly, I can say that we would not have changed much if anything. My Dom told me that she was not a "Fifty Shades of Grey" type. Research was ...

Mon Jan 20, 2025 11:06 pm • 14 Replies • 2222 Views

True Slave Training Is .....

lambsone, thank you for bringing this to light. Many people don't understand the enjoyment they are missing without a caring Dom/Master.

I have been a Femdom sub for years and because of the carin ...

Tue Jan 14, 2025 5:18 pm • 28 Replies • 4902 Views