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Getting started

Having doubts is normal for all of us. It can be very challenging tring to figure out roles.

A mentor in our vanilla life told us to always remember: "Nothing is One Size Fits All". That has kep ...

Wed Jul 23, 2025 10:05 pm • 14 Replies • 4957 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Getting started

The Watson:

Fantastic, sounds like you're off to a great start. Wishing you a lifetime of super fun and enjoyment with your lifestyle. We have been to several erotic events through the years and ...

Wed Jul 23, 2025 2:33 pm • 14 Replies • 4957 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Getting started

TheWatson - Since you're a married couple, you already know the most important things - communication and mutual consent. (BTW: We have been married 40 years longer than you have).

There are man ...

Tue Jul 22, 2025 10:36 pm • 14 Replies • 4957 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Getting started

To offer full disclosure, I have been a Femdom sub for years, so my experience is from that point of view. That being said, most of our research was done through Male Dom/female sub resources because ...

Tue Jul 22, 2025 2:22 pm • 14 Replies • 4957 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Getting started

What do you like most

OOPS, think I misread the question.

For me it's simply the opportunity to show her how much I love the way she controls me. Her method of training me was without a "Fifty Shades of Grey" style. E ...

Mon Jun 02, 2025 9:44 pm • 10 Replies • 2708 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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What do you like most

As a 24/7 live-in Femdom sub for years, it's hard to pick just one. Through the years, she has made changes that have been mostly for the better of our relationship. Only a few didn't work out - we' ...

Mon Jun 02, 2025 4:12 pm • 10 Replies • 2708 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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What do you like most

Exploration'

Are you looking for inforamtion on a particular topic? Your post is very vague.

Wed May 21, 2025 2:43 pm • 8 Replies • 3920 Views

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pioneer man

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Exploration'

What is this?

After reading your post and the responses from Miki & Jared, I couldn't agree with them more.

There's nothing to add to their comments, except tp offer a personal story.

Years ago my wife an ...

Fri May 16, 2025 3:04 pm • 23 Replies • 3637 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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What is this?

Is bdsm a high IQ game?

An IQ Game?? What's that mean? What's a persons IQ have to do with it?

My Dom & I have been going to erotic/BDSM events for years. We have met people from all walks of life - national TV ce ...

Mon May 05, 2025 2:15 pm • 16 Replies • 6017 Views

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pioneer man

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Absolute Beginners

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Is bdsm a high IQ game?

What's worst?

Always wondered why this even matters to people. Unless you had a real close or intimate relationship with them, just let it go.

It's happened to me once or maybe twice over the years. Sure, I'd ...

Wed Mar 26, 2025 8:46 pm • 21 Replies • 4333 Views

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pioneer man

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Generally Speaking

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What's worst?