Trust

Trust is earned, not given. No dom should expect trust straight out the gate. No human being should expect trust right away.

One of the things that helps me when it comes to trust is just trusting ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 1:17 am • 16 Replies • 2455 Views

Frustrated

There's lots of good pints here already. There are some things that stood out to me that were maybe glossed over or not even mentioned.

He is 70lbs overweight. This is probably a major factor in h ...

Tue Jan 21, 2025 6:38 pm • 31 Replies • 5789 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello. I am new here and not new to the community. You can read my profile for more of an explanation, if you wish.

To save you the read though, I called myself "other" because I wasn't feeling co ...

Tue Jan 21, 2025 2:38 am • 3357 Replies • 1367735 Views

Do you consider yourself Property

I'm answering this as "other", as someone who hasn't assigned herself any labels in terms of dominant or submissive or both.

My husband saying I'm his is fine - just as me saying he's mine. And th ...

Tue Jan 21, 2025 1:00 am • 18 Replies • 3943 Views

Therapy

I wouldn't necessarily use the word "should" when referring to therapy. Therapy used to be this secret thing people did because of the stigma. There is still stigma associated with mental illness, but ...

Mon Jan 20, 2025 10:52 pm • 5 Replies • 991 Views

Looking Back

This is a good question.

I'm not sure how much of it would have been possible back then, but I think I'd do more screening of the people I interacted with regularly who were helping me learn more. ...

Mon Jan 20, 2025 10:18 pm • 14 Replies • 2227 Views