I think I’m into this?

Have you looked at the ads section?

Mon Apr 08, 2019 4:10 am • 4 Replies • 3284 Views

Predatory Behavior

@Dollmaker

I'm gonna have to disagree that its mostly a net problem.

This is net, irt, m,t,w,th,f,s,s.

As a community we have the same issues that the gen pop does.

Also-- as our commu ...

Sun Apr 07, 2019 5:26 pm • 26 Replies • 12012 Views

The Fellowship of the Kink

Love this.

Makes me think about a kink shaming class for next year....

Sun Apr 07, 2019 6:55 am • 3 Replies • 2529 Views

Predatory Behavior

Agree with the above question.

Also wanted to point out that s types are also predatory. They just do it differently.


On the flip side ---

As much as I struggle with BDSM communities- as ...

Sun Apr 07, 2019 6:54 am • 26 Replies • 12012 Views

Connecting with others

My love used to be on collar me and Alt.

I've only been on thecage and fetlife.

I prefer thecage to anything else out there.

Fetlife got nasty, and the powers that be dont really care.

Sun Apr 07, 2019 6:49 am • 11 Replies • 6769 Views

Sub looking for advice

Your new.
But you know what your into.
And you want others to tell you want to expect.


Maybe it's just me here.

But how do you know what you are into if your new and you dont know what to ...

Sat Apr 06, 2019 2:36 am • 7 Replies • 4526 Views

WE ARE LIVE

This is interesting! From an organizer standpoint it's a medicine. BUT because smoke affects others- that's where the end has to be.

I call it marijuana becuase I think it's a general term that c ...

Fri Apr 05, 2019 4:08 am • 17 Replies • 8440 Views

Having to say Goodbye to a Master.

Hugz and support

Fri Apr 05, 2019 4:05 am • 10 Replies • 11933 Views

Start implementing a D/S relationship without sex

Hello!

I noticed that your thoughts about what he should be doing are pretty specific.

Go to eat, wine, movie.

Is it possible that his idea of control is different then yours ?

Fri Apr 05, 2019 4:05 am • 12 Replies • 11860 Views

I need advice

I'm sorry to tell you but --- there is NOTHING you can do to "make " someone more dominant.


You can tighten up communication issues. Talk expectations. Talk about desires, wants, needs. And al ...

Fri Apr 05, 2019 4:02 am • 10 Replies • 6732 Views