GB Pegging

Yeah fam, what Mikki said. The populations of "sub guys looking for this" and "Dommes looking to provide" are so disproportionate, that arranging multiple women to come peg the same guy is just not ve ...

Mon May 08, 2023 7:05 am • 3 Replies • 1084 Views

LIMITS as stated in your profile

I can see why someone's limits could change depending on the situation. I've always taken the profile "limits" section as a way to list what will always 100% be a limit.

Like, I'm not interested in ...

Sat May 06, 2023 11:32 pm • 39 Replies • 5428 Views

Calling him daddy

Honey.

You wanna do it.

Your Dom says he's ok with it.

Just do it. Any weirdness is just from not having it be a regular part of your day to day life.

Fri May 05, 2023 4:32 pm • 33 Replies • 4775 Views

Let's talk primal

To me it's always been the more animalistic side of things.

Bondage, what with the ties and the ceremonies and the artistry and the toys and tools, can be somewhat ritualistic in nature. Primal pla ...

Fri May 05, 2023 7:49 am • 55 Replies • 14060 Views

BDSM

As others have generally said, this is something very personal and unique to each individual.

What it *means* to be a Dom depends on you. If it's just a role you play to satisfy your wife's needs, ...

Fri May 05, 2023 7:40 am • 8 Replies • 1754 Views

Doms and Safewords

@Heero a fair distinction to make. It's true a person could abuse the overuse of a safeword (for example, a sub functionally refusing to participate in a scene at all unless they get their way by usin ...

Fri May 05, 2023 7:24 am • 7 Replies • 1075 Views

Doms and Safewords

This is something that came up in a different forum post, and I think it's important enough to warrant being its own subject: Safewords aren't just for subs. Doms are also perfectly valid and reasonab ...

Thu May 04, 2023 10:54 pm • 7 Replies • 1075 Views

What does it mean to you to call a safeword?

I've always seen the safeword as akin to opening Task Manager. It's "Ok, everything can stop right now, and we're take a look at what's going on and shut down what's causing an issue".

On top of wh ...

Thu May 04, 2023 10:49 pm • 13 Replies • 1618 Views

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

In terms of how to identify people, it's pretty easy. Just ask them what they think of it. Or in general read what they say in public forums like this if they participate in such. It becomes pretty cl ...

Thu May 04, 2023 10:37 pm • 7 Replies • 1322 Views

Is this normal?

Yes, this reaction is perfectly normal. What it *means* for you, your partner, and your relationship with bondage is up to you, and will take a great deal of self-reflection. My guess would be that th ...

Thu May 04, 2023 10:30 pm • 15 Replies • 2395 Views