Coping with loss of first Dom

You are very normal!! The D/s relationship can be more intense and intimate that a "vanilla" relationship, so often those feelings, mixed with the dependence a sub has on their Dom/me can make the end ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 2:41 am • 20 Replies • 3626 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

Hi,

I think you made the best decision for you. As a sub, it is easy to get caught up in the desire to submit to another and neglect our own feelings in a situation. I personally do not think any ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 2:33 am • 58 Replies • 10337 Views

The instinct

It's in your feminine nature to naturally submit so it sounds really wonderful what you are experiencing. That's why D/s play can be so wonderful. It just affirms and reinforces our natural gender ro ...

Fri Mar 11, 2022 8:09 pm • 19 Replies • 3095 Views

Predictive Text

Hey there, my name is Sportsgirl55, and my favorite kinks are in my cunt and my limits are not the same.

Tue Mar 08, 2022 8:43 pm • 124 Replies • 7130 Views

Sub responsibility doesn't exist on this site it seems.

I think the question is who one human would post a private conversation with another human on a site like this. It took me a while to stop and evaluate conversations I have on this site in terms of t ...

Mon Mar 07, 2022 11:16 pm • 62 Replies • 9178 Views

How do you know? Only 3 questions for now

Hello. Great questions... It never hurts to learn and expand your knowledge.

1) You can answer this with experience. It does not have to be in person, either. This is a great community. I am cer ...

Sun Aug 30, 2020 5:42 pm • 8 Replies • 3348 Views

Reading is fundamental

That is partially my complaint, and one of the reasons I bring it up. And secondly because the form is a place to raise issues and this is an issue that is probably effecting more than just me on this ...

Wed May 03, 2017 2:05 am • 5 Replies • 6699 Views

Reading is fundamental

I am going to vent here a little...

Yes, I am submissive, but I am still a person. If you do not take the time to update or complete your profile, why would I waist my time replying to a message s ...

Wed May 03, 2017 1:23 am • 5 Replies • 6699 Views

So, being submissive means something different to everyone.

I am new to all this, and have never actually been with or had a Dom, but the idea of submission is two fold for me. First, I have achieved a lot in my life. I am single, i own my own house, work 40 p ...

Mon Mar 06, 2017 7:19 pm • 31 Replies • 24175 Views

PAIN ( for the subs)

I have been experimenting mostly solo to this point. There are pains I have realized I love, they build me sexually, but I am only willing to put myself in a certain level of pain. I definitely want m ...

Thu Feb 16, 2017 9:08 pm • 17 Replies • 16656 Views