Don’t really know

I also advise against randomly reaching out to Dommes to ask us to Dominate you, especially without reading profiles first to see if such a message is okay. Or anyone for that matter. But, Dommes get ...

Wed Mar 13, 2019 12:53 pm • 3 Replies • 3712 Views

Tips for a first meet

I'll share my experience like Alawey did, and explain where I took huge risks that I do advise against. I however was very, very confident in my decisions, because of how our relationship went before ...

Tue Mar 12, 2019 9:07 pm • 23 Replies • 9363 Views

Would you join a male/female Harem?

Do they exist? Yes. Do I have a desire for one? Absolutely not.

Many people fantasize about such things but... unless you're having an unwilling harem, which I hope isnt your intent, it's way, WAY ...

Tue Mar 12, 2019 8:21 pm • 12 Replies • 6881 Views

Re: Looking for help

Dom is a Dominate, a leader, self assured. Confident. Black and white yes or no man with no in between. Not shy. From your words sounds like your a guy with the personality of a submissive. Sub teach ...

Sun Mar 10, 2019 10:14 am • 9 Replies • 5128 Views

How can I tell

If you're asking whether or not you found love, that's honestly really subjective and up to you to decide.

When you're in love - really, in love - there's no doubting it, in my mind. When I found ...

Fri Mar 08, 2019 12:04 pm • 8 Replies • 4409 Views

Getting your Sub a surprise Tattoo

My husband bought me my first tattoo for my birthday. I didn't get it done /that day/, as the shop we went to was always swamped (The best place around for miles), but we made my appointment and a wee ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 4:34 pm • 18 Replies • 7640 Views

Collars

For us, Wolfy simply wears his collar. He absolutely CANNOT wear it st work (strict uniform policies) and for him, he wouldn't anyway as a matter of thinking about other people. And he keeps it off at ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 9:07 am • 12 Replies • 5599 Views

new

Questions are always welcome here!

Thu Mar 07, 2019 8:58 am • 9 Replies • 3688 Views

Sad, scared but aware

I'm a Catholic, too... religion has little to do with this.

No one here was trying to Dominate you in this thread... not sure where that comment came from.

I went through a similar situation b ...

Thu Mar 07, 2019 8:57 am • 10 Replies • 7123 Views

Anyone completely new?

I suggest the book, "Leading and Supportive Love" by Chris M. Lyon, it's a good overview and explanation of the two positions, what they are and what they desire, and what they look for in a relations ...

Tue Mar 05, 2019 12:00 pm • 17 Replies • 7837 Views