A question about effort

Yep....you all are right on....what to do...what to do!

Tue Jul 16, 2019 10:38 pm • 19 Replies • 8029 Views

Those with kids at home.....

There are a number of society's...so called "primitive" who view the sexual life in a very different way than the Western. Much more open and less guilt/shame ridden. However, I am on board wth the vi ...

Mon Jun 17, 2019 1:14 pm • 5 Replies • 3602 Views

Life is strange or HELP!!!!

What is becoming very clear to me within this milieu....or any milieu for that matter, is to take things one at a time...in terms of communication, it may have seemed you had some sort of relationship ...

Fri Jun 07, 2019 4:17 pm • 12 Replies • 6898 Views

Hard limits

Just an addendum...

Communication takes place when both parties have understood what has JUST been said...this is quite difficult to do! Hence, clarifying will help...as in what did YOU understand ...

Wed Jun 05, 2019 4:37 pm • 18 Replies • 7016 Views

Hard limits

That was my point...
A hard limit had been set and agreed upon. When the sub is under that kinda of situation, s/he is particularly vulnerable, ALL THE MORE REASON for the Dom to pay special attentio ...

Wed Jun 05, 2019 12:43 am • 18 Replies • 7016 Views

Hard limits

Wmmmmm...Dom breaks a hard limit...and you messed up?

I would love that one explained!

Tue Jun 04, 2019 10:01 pm • 18 Replies • 7016 Views

I dont even know

Please don't think I am being a b....ch...however, without really taking sometime to find out who YOU really are and what You really need ...well it's all mute...isn't it?

Knowing yourself is time ...

Mon May 27, 2019 5:07 pm • 15 Replies • 7183 Views

Please help: what the hell am I?

I am a switch...or lable myself as such....not that I have had much blumming chance to do either! I think we are all getting hung up on nomenclature! Tri, bi, poli, polo...just made that one up, trans ...

Thu May 23, 2019 10:05 pm • 13 Replies • 5335 Views

Need advice on building healthy dynamic

Masterbear usually has great advice and non more so than what he says regarding these issues. I also am not sure why you did not mention the "initial issue" that seemed so pivotal when so much of your ...

Wed May 22, 2019 5:45 pm • 13 Replies • 4841 Views

Jealous of Involving Other Women

So glad...and totally agree with the others here...if something has been agreed upon ...then it remains so...it is predicated on individuals knowing who they are and what they want...and ....standin ...

Thu May 16, 2019 2:06 am • 29 Replies • 14465 Views