Your take of a Submissive????

Don't let anyone tell you who and what you are!

It is your job...our job ...to find out those things...so go find out...safely..read, education, therapy...yep..it's good in some ways...
Investigat ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 4:09 am • 44 Replies • 20812 Views

I really need advice. Should I punish or breakup with my sub?

Master Bear, is closer to a better answer...

Just to clarify...once someone has accepted the Dom...does this mean that the sub can not contact another Dom? I cetainly would not want my Dom and or s ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 4:00 am • 14 Replies • 7965 Views

I really need advice. Should I punish or breakup with my sub?

I would first like to find out what those conversations contained, that might make a difference. What were your instructions regarding his interactions with others in general and other Doms in particu ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 2:45 am • 14 Replies • 7965 Views

Kinkshaming and CGL/ABDL

I just love this conversation! And as I get to know this new world, it is Ab Fab...fascinating..

So much more is becoming clearer because of what is shared here..it's like going to a university for ...

Sat Dec 08, 2018 9:36 pm • 21 Replies • 8473 Views

Really great answers! Loved it!

Hiya Fate

As for poly, thanks but no. That is a whole bunch of drama I neither want nor need. A lot of that drama would be from me because I know me well enough to know that I would not be able to ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 6:18 pm • 41 Replies • 18116 Views

More than One

Dear Fate,

Don't ever be uncertain about asking a question. Actually, yours is a great one! I am very new to all this too and feel even more awkward in having to admit that your question has never ...

Fri Dec 07, 2018 5:38 am • 41 Replies • 18116 Views

Where do I belong

Kate Kinsey...great article!

Wed Dec 05, 2018 8:59 pm • 7 Replies • 3318 Views

emotional masochism

I just think her mental masochism leads to her behaviour...no matter what that form takes. In posing her description she really raises some really interesting thoughts about, not only her own psychic ...

Wed Dec 05, 2018 6:20 pm • 30 Replies • 11704 Views

emotional masochism

I am very new to this particular realm of experience, but I am learning fast!

My background is in psychology, and obviously more recently my own personal sexual psychology has come under scrutiny. ...

Wed Dec 05, 2018 2:21 pm • 30 Replies • 11704 Views

Re: Choosing the right dom?

I am new to the cage and to the lifestyle less than a year. With only 1 previous dom. I have been on a search for another. I have enjoyed this site thus far. Until the past 2 days.My question is how d ...

Mon Dec 03, 2018 10:31 am • 26 Replies • 16157 Views